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How To Make Your Relationship Or Marriage To Be Blissful And Last Lasting by write247ng(m): 7:43pm On Aug 12, 2012
You need to have certain keys to lasting relationship that will help you to build a better relationship in order to avoid the ugly situations that a lot of people are seeing themselves today of having broken relationship , divorce , separation etc. In the United states of America alone , it is estimated that almost 50% of marriages usually end in break up and divorces after 5-10 years of marriage .
In order to avoid this increasing ugly trend, you need to imbibe these key principles with your partner in order to build a great relationship. They include
1. You need to be compatible with your spouse or anyone that you are engage to or dating . Compatibility means you being with someone that you can easily occur or live with less conflicts . It also means being with someone that they two of you can easily reason together with and respect each other’s opinion, excesses , dislikes etc. It also mean being with someone that you can make sacrifices for, be committed and someone you can trust and respect. There is no perfect person but you must make sure that you are dating or courting someone that you can easily flow with together. This is very essential for your relationship to succeed. Most of the infidelity that we experience today in our society is because of a union of two people that are not compatible with each other.
Secondly, to build successful long lasting relationship, you must be ready to communicate to your partner very well. Good communication is important for building long lasting relationships. Communications helps you to express your expectation, fears , like and dislikes to your partner and your partner will also do the same to you likewise. This is very essential in order to build trust, confidence, respect and bond in any relationship. Relationships where communications flows easily have a higher tendency to last longer while those with poor communication skills may not really work well if it will not result in frustration, break up, divorce, constant conflict, fighting and infidelity.
Thirdly, another principle for successful lasting relationship is that , in order to succeed in any relationship , you need to understand your partner point of views on issues that affect the two of you before you try to place value on your own point of view. This helps to build trust and respect in a relationship . Always remember that your spouse or partner may be coming from a different background with a past experience that may have a different experience emotionally and otherwise than yours . Hence you need a good display of understanding in your relationships and marriage for you to make it to work and last long.
Fourthly, you need to be ready to make sacrifices at all times in order to make your relationship to work. For any successful relationship that you have seen, the true about it is that the two people involve have make up their minds and are also making sacrifices to make their relationships to works . The sacrifices, you may need to make may be in your habits, as it affect your partner , your money managements as it affect your partners, being ready to discomfort yourself in order to attend to the needs of your partner and being there with your partner even when it is very difficult to do so .
Sacrifices help you to work on your relationship in order to make your relationships to succeed and last longer. Sacrifice involves giving up your time and your resources in order to help your relationship to grow and succeed.
To succeed in your relationship you have to be ready to work on your relationship, making sacrifices where appropriate and been there in order to build a sustainable relationship. You also need to be ready to compromise your time and resources sometimes to make sure that you attend to the need of your partner and vice versa . All this efforts, sacrifices, compromises , understanding ,communications helps to build serious trust and confidence in your relationship and makes it to last long.
All these principles are applicable to both partners in a relationship for a relationship to succeed , ie for both the man and the woman and where one is trying all his or her best to work or build a relationship and the other party is not forth coming, one may feel cheated and it may affect the outcome of the relationship , hence all partners must always be ready to make efforts at ensuring that their relationships works by sorting out issues and differences at the communication , compatibility and understanding stages
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Re: How To Make Your Relationship Or Marriage To Be Blissful And Last Lasting by 190theclown: 8:02pm On Aug 12, 2012
OP

Which relationship

I'm sorry 2 say if its not sealed in heaven
Then all other grammer are all banza
Compactibility or no compactibility
Conversibility or no conversable

It won't work if its not ordained in heaven
Dats why we have ex's

U hear - Anyway u seem like d only normal august visitor we've had dis month

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