berem: if you have stopped being a nigerian,what are you now? A Somalian? Abeg shift one side make I see clear joor!
@post its unfortunate she lost her life! But struggling with arm robbers.....meeehn! Anyway RIP to her.

Esss:

You really believe this shiit?!!

YOU KNOW THAT SHOE WOULD NOT HAVE SURVIVED THE TRAUMA OF BEING RAPED?!! Like really?!!

Do you know how many Nigerian girls have been r@ped in their life time?! Heck, if girls would be honest, atleast 3 in 5 girls have been r@ped. I know several of them that have been r@ped. Infact, one of my friends was r@ped twice by her driver and armed robbers.. Today she is happily married. Another girl was abused constantly for years by a relative before her father found out..

She would have survived it. It takes time and counselling, but eventually she would have overcome it.. Time heals all wounds..

And that shiit about your paryers and her soul tormenting them is crap.. I'm sure she cried and called God just before she got shot and he didnt answer her distress call, ne your prayers wan come turn water to wine?!

Dude, she didnt need to die.. As much as its commendable her fighting for her virtue, but she didnt need to die. It would have been a different ball game if she got merked after the r@pe, but in this case, I beg to differ.. She didnt have to die.

oakwoodpark:

I quite agree with you. Though no one prays for this, i hope all the other ladies when faced with this kind of situation will rather choose Life that virginity.
Only a very few things are worth loosing ones life for, and this is not one of them.
May her soul rest in peace and may those that undertook this act die a thousand deaths

chosen04: So bad....................Thank God i have stopped being a niGERian long ago. . . . . .its now a crime to come from the cursed entity called niGERia

passionate88: who dey talk abt virginity?!... Where the robbers shoot her?, no b man house wey she go spend the 9t?.. Even if una wan respect d dead, make una talk truth..

flanrey: What the thieves probably wanted was a quickie and she could've just succumbed.

oakwoodpark:

I quite agree with you. Though no one prays for this, i hope all the other ladies when faced with this kind of situation will rather choose Life that virginity.
Only a very few things are worth loosing ones life for, and this is not one of them.
May her soul rest in peace and may those that undertook this act die a thousand deaths

Purist:

Because "fhucking" is actually very different from räpe -- a distinction I've come to realize that many Nigerian males fail woefully to understand. This comment reeks of an amazing level of ignorance of what constitutes räpe and the longstanding effects on the victims of such assaults.



Unfortunately, yes, it was worth it. Better to be die honorably than live traumatized and miserably for the rest of your life because one of lunatic's moment of madness.



Good on you. But have you actually considered what your räpe victim daughter would have preferred for herself? Have you considered the fact that she's the one living her own life and at the end of the day, she would be the one to bear with all consequences that follow from that singular despicable act, especially after you're long dead and gone? Have you considered that it is not proper that you allow your own selfish desire of not wanting to lose a daughter to override your precious daughter's bliss -- yes, even in death?



Well, I'm sorry, but I think his post was not only rubbish, but also a grave insult to the memory of that brave girl who fought off her assailants even to the point of death.



Well, good on them. But different strokes for different folks. If they felt they could handle the consequences, no problems. But you should also respect the choice that this brave girl made, especially now that she's dead. It's no use arguing over what she should have or shouldn't have done.



The fact that you know so many previously räped girls (you should be investigated by the way) that now "appear" happy means that they have coped just fine? It means it's no big deal right? After all, there are so many of them that are now "happily married", isn't it? Read your comment again and see just how that sounds. Do you have any idea what räpe means at all?

Pangea: The other day, i posted What to do when you are about to be raaped in Romance section!
The thread was deleted, maybe it w'd have saved this young lady's life
Anyway to all the ladies, please take note:
It's 3 "ates" do all or any combination of these and the rapist will leave you alone!
1. Regurgitate i.e vomit all over him
2. Urinate i.e. urinate all over your body and if that does not work?
3. Defecate i.e. s.hit over yourself, the smell alone must drive any would be rapist to change his mind!
Learn and be wise
Its has saved many ladies!

Pangea: The other day, i posted What to do when you are about to be raaped in Romance section!
The thread was deleted, maybe it w'd have saved this young lady's life
Anyway to all the ladies, please take note:
It's 3 "ates" do all or any combination of these and the rapist will leave you alone!
1. Regurgitate i.e vomit all over him
2. Urinate i.e. urinate all over your body and if that does not work?
3. Defecate i.e. s.hit over yourself, the smell alone must drive any would be rapist to change his mind!
Learn and be wise
Its has saved many ladies!

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This time it's a female student of Tai Solarin University of Education. According to classmates and friends of the slain student who sent the story to me, Wunmi Adebayo (pictured above) was shot dead last night at a male friend's house at Golden Estate in Ijebu Ode, Ogun state.

The 200level student was visiting the friend when they were attacked by armed robbers who robbed them and shot her in the face because she fought them off when they tried to Molestation her.

The 21 year old was buried today at Ijebu Ode according to Islamic rites. Her friends say she was very jovial, friendly and kind hearted. Her candlelight procession will hold tomorrow at skyfield in Lagos.

http://lindaikeji..dk/2012/09/another-student-shot-dead-rip-wunmi.html
http://www.gistexpress.com/2012/09/10/female-student-murdered-by-armed-robbers-at-

Snowwy:
@flanrey, she should have allowed them have a quickie right? If it was your wife or sister, i guess you would have allowed them have their way since afterall, all things heal overtime.

If you would allow such to happen to any member of your family IN YOUR PRESENCE then may be she should have 'succumbed'

Purist:

Pray tell, how is "the sort of girl" that would prefer to die than be räped supposed to look?

flanrey:
You simply lack the ability to reason properly, I shake my head for the likes of you. When you read the story; •Did it make reference to her male companion?
•Did it indicate that the choice of action of her male companion resulted in her death?
•Maybe her male companion should have assumed the heroic role and grabbed the gun from the thieves.
Read your bible properly and you will come across the part where it says "Before everyone are life and death, We have the power to choose our behavior and we are responsible for both the good and evil

Sirach 15:17

pro01:

Well, with a little more discernment you would know I was even being charitable by putting it that way. The sort of girls that die fighting to defend their virtue can never be found dead in an aristo's house where they went to spend the night and whatnot (assuming that version of the story is true). But then, we have to respect the dead and leave it at that. No need to try and be clever by half.

Pangea: The other day, i posted What to do when you are about to be raaped in Romance section!
The thread was deleted, maybe it w'd have saved this young lady's life
Anyway to all the ladies, please take note:
It's 3 "ates" do all or any combination of these and the rapist will leave you alone!
1. Regurgitate i.e vomit all over him
2. Urinate i.e. urinate all over your body and if that does not work?
3. Defecate i.e. s.hit over yourself, the smell alone must drive any would be rapist to change his mind!


As sick as the above sounds it makes a lot of sense. Am sure no normal man can maintain an erection when faced with a shait soaked nude female.


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Some men amaze me...wat is this piece of s*h#it?

dasparrow: @Post

Very sad. The world is a sad place. I pray her killers are found and that she get's justice.

Tunmi: Sometimes Nigerians are just a bit too much. I don't even know why the report just HAD to include that she was coming from a male friend's house? That has nothing to do with anything unless the police conduct an investigation. This woman fought back, and I applaud her for it. May her soul rest in peace but I wholeheartedly agree, I really wish we had some homo.s.exual robbers so these men could now tell us how to deal with r-ape.

Purist:

I try not to read too much meaning into what people say beyond what they have unambiguously expressed, so you may want to leave the discernment talk out of it. Now to your main point. . .

1) Your initial comment suggested that your opinion about "the kind of girl she was", was based on how she "looked", and not as a result of where she had been or not been. Here's your comment in case you've forgotten what you typed earlier: "In my view, she doesn't look like the sort of girl that would prefer to die than be Molested." Maybe it was your choice of word, I don't know, but that's the impression I got.

2) You formed your opinion about the girl based on an unsubstantiated claim --- "assuming the version of the story is true" --- and then proceeded to build a fallacious argument on that. Faulty premise.

3) You then topped off your uninformed opinion by presenting a classical red herring fallacy to buttress it. Your argument as I see it:

(a) You presume knowledge about what all "aristocratic" girls are just capable of doing to defend whatever ounce of virtue they have left in them. In your opinion, they would "never" die fighting to defend their virtue -- this girl inclusive.

(b) Because they are already "immoral", they wouldn't bother to resist an (even greater) immoral act against them even if it will cost them their life. In this case, Wunmi Adebayo is already a "bad" girl and is therefore not likely to risk her life fighting her assailants. This is similar to saying that a pröstitute cannot be defiled, since she already "defiles" herself on a daily basis.

(c) Finally, you seem to suggest that warding off räpe attacks is essential only when the victim's virtue is in question. Again, this betrays an astonishing lack of understanding of what räpe constitutes on the part of the Nigerian menfolk. How about something as basic as human rights? Yes, she may give her body freely to all manner of men, but that does not mean she wouldn't fight to defend her right to refuse if there's no consent, even if she'll die in the process. Bro, even 'whores' have standards.

flanrey: Its quite an unfortunate incident and I do pray that her soul rests In peace.

A lot of you that have commented on this thread got it all wrong. I want to believe everyone on here are adults with matured mentality. During my university days I got robbed a couple of times with guns pointed to my head, at that moment I complied with whatever was requested of me, my golds, fones and other valuable properties....
Why did I do that?
Because I believe that the gift of life is the greatest gift you can ever have. FYI, u only live once! There is no condition that doesn't get better with time. Even the bible said that weeping may continue thru the night but joy comes in the morning.

The report never said she was a virgin, and even if she was do you think it is easy to disvirgin a girl Those of you who have done it in the past will know that it is not an easy task and the thieves in question do not have that time. What the thieves probably wanted was a quickie and she could've just succumbed.