dayokanu:

Ronke, take all the priest in vatican and all the Pastors to watch Porn and all of them would have an errection As long as they sit down to watch it. provided they dont have health issues.

The only rememdy is to leave the environment or refuse to act on the stimuli/errection. But that they wont react? thats a Big lie

Ok!!!!!! little wonder, that you always have an e?rec?tion when you see the i.d's of girls or ladies on this NL...talkmore of seeing them physically.

ronkebp:
So you are saying you always have an erection when you see any pretty lady? because if you do, then i know where your answers are coming from.

any pretty lady? is it about pretty lady or the sêxiness in a pretty lady?

^^^^^^do i know for you men!!!!lets assume they are both pretty and s/e@xy, abi there are no pretty and s@ex/y chics ni?

ronkebp:

Ok!!!!!! little wonder, that you always have an e?rec?tion when you see the i.d's of girls or ladies on this NL...talkmore of seeing them physically.

Yes ooo. So you shouldnt be surprised I have been chasing your monicker all over NL for a while

ronkebp: ^^^^^^do i know for you men!!!!lets assume they are both pretty and s/e@xy, abi there are no pretty and s@ex/y chics ni?

there are but then very rare - and that's even beside the point!
in truth, a man does not even need to visualise a pretty woman to cop an erëction - there are spontaneous erëctions that are constantly reminding men of what nature wants them to do! you cannot understand - just like i can never really understand labour pains!

chaircover: Ronke make I talk true o! men have no control over their errrections; What they do have control over is if they decide to take that errection and do something with it. Remember that men are moved by what they see, just as we are moved by what we hear and that is why many of us are lied to, yet we believe it and fall head over heels. That is why a married man will tell a woman that he loves her more than his wife and is going to leave his wife for her and she believes it. That also explains why a man will hit his woman, yet sweet-talk her into her staying until the next beating over and over again. This also explains why a man will be attracted to his dirty but big bakkassied househelp. I kmow that it all doesn't make sense but unfortunately that is the way it is.

Now the koko of the matter is, the man needs to look round him and say, I am married, I said my vows and this will be wrong if I do this and go and pour cold water on his errrection and walk away from the situation but this is the bit of the story that many of then fail.

We have totally derailed from the topic o!

They should however control where they put their errection into. They are not dogs, they are responsible for their actions, it is not the houshelps fault that God blessed her with a big bakassi. If you cant control yourself dont go about blaming others for your actions. God will not make the mistake of making someone who has no control the head and authority in a home. Headship comes with responsibility, if you cannot be responsible for an errect penniisss, then stay single and stick it around as much as you want but when you decide you want to be a head then you have to take abd bear the responsibility that comes with it and not blame others. A real leader and head always takes responsibility, a bad leader like Jonathan will always blame others and seek pity parties, it is always someone elses fault, never theirs.

^^

Thats the whole point. They would have an errection but what they choose to do with that errection is what makes someone responsible or otherwise.

10 men watch poorn, all would have an errection but some would let it go and some would act on the errection.

If you see good food whether you are fasting or not you will salivate, Its not your fault that you desire the food. But being disciplined and walking away from it is the responsibility

dayokanu: ^^

Thats the whole point. They would have an errection but what they choose to do with that errection is what makes someone responsible or otherwise.

10 men watch poorn, all would have an errection but some would let it go and some would act on the errection.

If you see good food whether you are fasting or not you will salivate, Its not your fault that you desire the food. But being disciplined and walking away from it is the responsibility

God bless you jor, thats my whole point

Siena:

Have you got kids of your own? If yes, then my advice would be this:

Concentrate on your own children, and bring them up / dress them the way yourself and your spouse deem fit. Children are a full-time responsibility from birth till they're 18-years-old. If you poke your snout into the business of others, you'll have less time to bring up your own kids.

In other words, mind your own business!

What is good for one parent might be too provocative for another parent, it's all about how we see things.

And what most people don't know is most of these said children (6-18yrs) don't see anything bad in it, it's just a way of life.

Example from me; My daughter goes to a christain private school and they wear uniform, that skirt(of course with tights underneath) is what my people calls mini skirt back home, they no born me wear that kind skirt when I was that age but the school authorities(Christian association), parent association,and likes don't see anything wrong with it or will I go and sew another skirt for her to look different fr her peers cos of my naija mentality?

And to top it all, they teach a core Christian values and dicipline I've always wanted and her grades are great, so what else do I care?

dayokanu: ^^

Thats the whole point. They would have an errection but what they choose to do with that errection is what makes someone responsible or otherwise.

10 men watch poorn, all would have an errection but some would let it go and some would act on the errection.

If you see good food whether you are fasting or not you will salivate, Its not your fault that you desire the food. But being disciplined and walking away from it is the responsibility

Aiyaiyai !!!

chaircover: LOL debrief I am lost o! who has said otherwise on this thread?

ronkebp!
any man that is unfortunate to cop an erëction is irresponsible in her book! left to her, a man's erēction should be an off/on switch in the bedroom!

SalemLord: It pains me to know that a lot of parents have abandoned their core responsibility of watching what their children wear, and now most of them now join their children in dressing indecently. Today we have a large number of prostitutes and prisoners all roaming the streets and our higher institutions and you begin to wonder if this category of people came out from their parents homes. The boys i call prisoners because they taken to sagging as a way of life and the girls dress worst than road side harlots. So my question is: "Is this indecency or fashion?".

U can go ahead and ask goggle.

Becacia_Barbie:
Mtchewwwww......rubbish comment! So he/she shud go nd strt looking for dr parents abi?? Does dat makes any sense at all to u?? Som pple wil jux come here nd type rubbish nd foolish comments! Nd whu tld u it is none of his/her biz?? For ur info its every1's biz! Wen u ve ur own children make sure u let dem dress like hookers okay..nd wen pple complain tel dem its none of dr biz! Mtchewww....

DUDE u re not making any point