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Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 11:44am On Jan 05, 2015

There are times we need to ask ourselves questions and answer them truthfully.

What I’m talking about today is the reason some ladies will leave everyone they know in a state and go to the city to stay without a job or handwork.

Personaly I don’t see why anyone will love to leave his or her beloved family to spend time in another part of the country without a genuine reason.

Their(ladies) reasons most times are, They want money, spouse, They need to be free from parents and everyone they know, a job etc but they don't know that in so doing they have pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

Thats why you see them Being used in the relationships, Guys see them as spare parts element and not wife materials, the very unfortunate ones are being killed for ritual purposes.

It breaks my heart to see the pitiable life they live here.
You see them cooking and washing for guys. Some are even married without their parent's knowledge. On sundays they would be praying for a guy to ask them to cook for him so that at least their would be something to eat. Crazy things like that.

There are those that have moved into the permanent site(Prostitution).

There is one around here, the only time she sleep at home is when she is seeing her period. No job, oh sorry, she is got a job. Her job is her relationship, she is got more than five guys that are dating her.

And there some (gosh cry

) that date sugar-mummies(lesbian sugar-mummies).

Typing the stuffs they do here just to survive will definitely give me keypadtriosis.

I know that some of them do succeed and make money but every other thing seems to be against them.

My questions are:

1: Why leave your village when you know that you don't have anything serious to do in the city?

2: Is the money worth what they pass through?

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 11:48am On Jan 05, 2015

Waiting to read comments,cos I v notin to contribute

Mk I bring traffic..

Iya enusmith,karchisbarbie

Come n cracking your brain n answer question

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by KanwuliaJara: 11:49am On Jan 05, 2015

Village ashawo or city ashawo ussssssssssh wan beta pass? cheesy

Ashawo for village tombo joint and ashawo for TRANSCORP na the same? grin

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 11:55am On Jan 05, 2015

OP,d money is worth it...

Money makes d world go round

Even d bible says "owo ni keke ihinrere"

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by mployer(m): 11:59am On Jan 05, 2015

A lady can live in the city without a job and without prostituting. The ones You met are probably career prostitutes hiding under the cover of 'no jobs'

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by MizMyColi(f): 12:01pm On Jan 05, 2015

I'm here to read comments

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:08pm On Jan 05, 2015

KanwuliaJara:
Village ashawo or city ashawo ussssssssssh wan beta pass?
Ashawo for village tombo joint and ashawo for TRANSCORP na the same?

Which one be village ashawo?

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by KanwuliaJara: 12:16pm On Jan 05, 2015

Tallesty1:
Which one be village ashawo?

See question?
Oya kontinu!

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by elantraceey(f): 12:21pm On Jan 05, 2015

Why are you asking us? do we look like one of them ?

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:25pm On Jan 05, 2015

juianne95:
OP,d money is worth it...

Money makes d world go round

Even d bible says "owo ni keke ihinrere"

Tell me more............?

Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:25pm On Jan 05, 2015

How do they survive?

mployer:
A lady can live in the city without a job and without prostituting. The ones You met are probably career prostitutes hiding under the cover of 'no jobs'

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:27pm On Jan 05, 2015

KanwuliaJara:

See question?
Oya kontinu!

Tell me jooor.

Things never spoil when I commot from village tongue

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:28pm On Jan 05, 2015

I wouldn't have asked you if you were like one of them

elantraceey:
Why are you asking us? do we look like one of them ?

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Brightology2(m): 12:30pm On Jan 05, 2015

Na man head dem dey land put

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 12:30pm On Jan 05, 2015

Tallesty1:
Tell me more............?

..u dnt know their story,dnt judge a book by its cover

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by ulaa(f): 12:39pm On Jan 05, 2015

Who told you every family is loving or supportive, some family members are worst than satan. Most of the ladies you are talking about, come from bad homes. Don't be quick to judge.

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by MissSlimbody(f): 12:46pm On Jan 05, 2015

juianne95:
OP,d money is worth it...

Money makes d world go round

Even d bible says "owo ni keke ihinrere"

No be bible talk dat 1 ooo, na we christians dey talk am.

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:48pm On Jan 05, 2015

juianne95:
..u dnt know their story,dnt judge a book by its cover

How do you define judgement?

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 12:48pm On Jan 05, 2015

MissSlimbody:

No be bible talk dat 1 ooo, na we christians dey talk am.

lol...ehen..u sha understand me

Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 12:49pm On Jan 05, 2015

Tallesty1:
How do you define judgement?

jumping to conclusion,u can't jx mk assumptions out of ur own observation

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:50pm On Jan 05, 2015

ulaa:
Who told you every family is loving or supportive, some family members are worst than satan. Most of the ladies you are talking about, come from bad homes. Don't be quick to judge.

I am not judging them and bad family is not a good reason for prostitution.

You said most? Owk, how about the rest?

Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:51pm On Jan 05, 2015

Maybe her own bible dey different

MissSlimbody:

No be bible talk dat 1 ooo, na we christians dey talk am.

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by mployer(m): 12:51pm On Jan 05, 2015

Tallesty1:
How do they survive?

Some live with relatives
some squat with friends
some have money sent to them from parents and siblings
some have money sent to them by boy-friends somewhere
some live on NYSC savings
some have handworks like bead and cake-making
some do home lessons
...the list is numerous bro

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by MissSlimbody(f): 12:53pm On Jan 05, 2015

juianne95:
lol...ehen..u sha understand me

Yes dear.

Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:54pm On Jan 05, 2015

juianne95:
jumping to conclusion,u can't jx mk assumptions out of ur own observation

Read the post again, what I have up there is what I observed and the reason some of them gave when I asked them. How can you say I am judging them? Haba! You sef

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 12:56pm On Jan 05, 2015

Tallesty1:
Read the post again, what I have up there is what I observed and the reason some of them gave when I asked them. How can you say I am judging them? Haba! You sef

...u don provoke

...wot got ur boxers all tied up dis mornibg

...anyway I still dey vex for u

Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by MissSlimbody(f): 12:56pm On Jan 05, 2015

Tallesty1:
Maybe her own bible dey different

They are some quotes people jst assume are in d bible e.g Heaven help those that help themselves. cheesy

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Hazardd(m): 12:57pm On Jan 05, 2015

question for the gods

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 12:58pm On Jan 05, 2015

mployer:
Some live with relatives

They are not the ones I am talking about.

mployer:

some squat with friends

How do they feed?

mployer:
some have money sent to them from parents and siblings

what are they doing in the city?

mployer:
some have money sent to them by boy-friends somewhere

elder brother to prostitution

mployer:
some live on NYSC savings

Job seekers are diff

mployer:
some have handworks like bead and cake-making
some do home lessons

The post says "without job or handwork"

mployer:
...the list is numerous bro

there is no list sir.

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 1:00pm On Jan 05, 2015

MissSlimbody:

They are some quotes people jst assume are in d bible e.g Heaven help those that help themselves.

hahahahahaha...

Majority of Christians that use the quote have never bothered to check it up in the bible............

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Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by juianne95(f): 1:01pm On Jan 05, 2015

Tallesty1:

elder brother to prostitution

O boy dis got me laffing

Re: Living In The City Without A Job, How Ladies Cope. by Tallesty1(m): 1:01pm On Jan 05, 2015

juianne95:
...u don provoke ...wot got ur boxers all tied up dis mornibg...anyway I still dey vex for u

I no provoke oo.

Apologies not accepted?

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