A friend called me to tell me that her bf of 32 mnths is getting married in 2wiks time and she just lost her parents in an accident...I do not knw how to console her and she hasn't said a word to me for 2days now... I just pray she doesn't harm herself.

3 in 1 calamity
She lost her father, mother and boy friend.


*sobs*

Just sad

She needs to move on with her life before she becomes the next calamity.

Pls learn to live within urself.love pple but dont live all ur life on them-if u loss a dog it must leave a vacum,talk all u can of parents but u must blive dat was all they were to offer;wat never leaves u is u,it will 4ever b wat u are,so blive in it,invest in it and see all others as coming to help u build it so when they are no more u feel their absence awhile but must continue with it.

Tell her not to worry, the boyfriends parents will soon die too. Its happend to anybody and everybody.

frank3.16:
Tell her not to worry, the boyfriends parents will soon die too. Its happend to anybody and everybody.

That's a grim outlook but it is true

So sad.

He was hiding it from her bt she later found out frm his frnd who told her that d wedding has bin fixed and the bride was a lady his mum wants him to marry. Most Men are deceptive.

Pls don't b far from her cus she might hurt herself. May God be her

nne3870: He was hiding it from her bt she later found out frm his frnd who told her that d wedding has bin fixed and the bride was a lady his mum wants him to marry. Most Men are deceptive.

And extremely wicked! Gosh!

190-the-clown:
[size=18pt]did she eat his money

thats one of the reasons why boys leave their women and marry other girls[/size]

is everything a joke to you? Do you ever get serious? Listen to yourself

nne3870: He was hiding it from her bt she later found out frm his frnd who told her that d wedding has bin fixed and the bride was a lady his mum wants him to marry. Most Men are deceptive.

So also most women are deceptive.

What a *heart attack* people can be wicked.

Can I hear someone say wedding crashing?

people often come here to tell what men did.

do yu know what made dem do whatever dey must have done?

"there is always a cause for a curse"

OP,
its a pity, life goes on...she wont die

Konnektions146: people often come here to tell what men did.

do yu know what made dem do whatever dey must have done?

"there is always a cause for a curse"

OP,
its a pity, life goes on...she wont die

are you joking, Did you go thru what you wrote? Even if she did smth very bad to him and he wants to quit, he should be a man and tell her to her face and not hide. And fyi nobody said she would die sir.... I dn't knw how som ppl think

Mynd_44: Can I hear someone say wedding crashing?

i dn't think he is worth the stress....

190-the-clown:
^what do you expect me to say,

Life is too short, sorry she lost her parents but her man *yawns*
she should repackage after all the affair was just mere 32months

you call 32 months 'mere'? Wow

nne3870:
you call 32 months 'mere'? Wow

That's just 3months +

Wah about coupples who date for 6/7/10 years and they don't end up
Getting married, she should concentrate on her new life esp without her parents
And free d dude, he's gone

Life is 2 short

nne3870:
i dn't think he is worth the stress....

Not worth it but you can go there for fun and free rice na

Its obvious the guy doesn't give a damn so she should focus on getting herself and her family through the hardship they are all facing right now. If it's a warm body on her bed she's after then she should sort herself out in that regard. There is really no need crying over spilled milk. If she harms herself over this, causing more grief to her family, then she is very silly!

nne3870:
are you joking, Did you go thru what you wrote? Even if she did smth very bad to him and he wants to quit, he should be a man and tell her to her face and not hide. And fyi nobody said she would die sir.... I dn't knw how som ppl think

some men wont tell a lady quit...they allow the relationship die a natural death..its a pity de lady lost de parents but she just gotta move on.

but de guy would ve trashed issues before goin for anoda lady