Holumighty:
Also, I am a customer service officer/ relationship officer at work ; so there is no way that I will not have one or two flings.

Mynd_44: Have you tried talking to her about it?

Holumighty: Fellow Nairalander, kindly advice me on what to do.

My gurl friend used to be very caring and loving until recentlt that she she started nagging and been over protective...she id making life harder for Me because she monitors my life on phone and when she discovers that I am with a lady she will start behaving erratically, @times she will start running down to my house without prior notice and its really making me feel unsecure.

Also, I am a customer service officer/ relationship officer at work ; so there is no way that I will not have one or two flings.

Kindly advice me because each time I didn't pick her calls leads to her crying and ranging on phone the next time she calls and this hrt action is making me insecure.

Thanks

Mynd_44: You had one or two flings and you are complaining that she is nagging? Please she should have a tracking device embedded inside your backside

bizmogul:

The simple truth is " You Gave Her a Reason To Be a Nag" let me quote you "Also, I am a customer service officer/ relationship officer at work ; so there is no way that I will not have one or two flings". Do you seriously expect her not to act the way she does when she reads all the love messages on your phone? Alright, let's see it this way can you allow her have a fling and not do anything about it? lol. Hell NO, maybe you could track her all day long... You need to understand that she loves you, maybe you should also look withing yourself brother.


I don't really send or keep msg, @times female client will not play the game until you make them comfortable. I don't Bleep them all but just gv them fake sense of belonging till the my company can resolve the issue.

My 2 cents