1. HOT TEMPER/ANGER : Always displaying a high degree of anger in your relationship is one of the relationship killers in any relationship. You need to learn how to control your anger and how to show that you are ignore on certain th
gs witho ut necessarily turning it into hot anger that affect your spouse or partner negatively.

2. BEING TOO SPIRITUAL: It is very good to put God first in your relationship but it is not the best to allow over spirituality to affect your relationship with your partner like always praying all the time, fasting and going on night prayers without having time to spend with your suppose partner on certain issues that will affect your relationship or marriage now or in the near future. Remember that marriage or relationship is an earthly thing and it is 90% physical.


3. LACK OF TRUST : Where there is no trust , both parties may be hiding very important things about their lives from each other such as things that has to do with money , health ,fidelity to each other, paternity of children and that will definitely kills love in the relationship and the two parties will be doubting and suspecting each other.

4. DRESSING: This is very important to the ladies, to get your partner to stay with you and be happy , you need to always dress well , not necessarily dressing expensive.. You have to put on well clean and ironed clothes that is appealing and attractive to anyone. Do not say that I am married to Jesus that nobody is looking at you when at the same time you are praying to God for a marriage partner. You need to know that men are first attracted to you, firstly by your physical appearance, that is the true and then they will move on to getting to know your character, your spirituality, personal attributes ,background and values before they want to build a relationship with you.

So it all starts with your dressing first. Please I am not referring here to naked ,half naked, offensive, seductive and immoral dressing that is seen in our society today, Just Dress well as a Christian and as a discipline person. Men also need to know that women value and appreciate men that dress well, as it is more appealing to their emotions, their perception of yourself worth etc.

5. BEING IN THE HABITS OF COMPARING YOUR PARTNER WITH OTHERS: It is very wrong to be comparing your partner with some other persons because no two persons are the same. Every person has their own uniqueness and purpose in life and every one is passing through different phases in life that may not be the same with the next person. So to avoid killing your relationship, stop the habit of comparing your partner with someone else whether in terms of character, money , financial standing and career progress rather think on how to work on your relationship to make it better etc.

6. PRE –MARITAL SEX ; Having pre- marital sex is one of the major killers of relationship even though it is common in our society today. This is just deception from the pit of hell. Pre marital sex kills trust in a relationship as if you can do it outside marriage disobeying God command then your partner may be suspecting you that you are equally cheating on him or her ,others include exposure to STD Diseases, HIV/AIDS , pre marital pregnancy , lack of respects and regard for each other mostly the woman ,abortion that could lead to barrenness or childlessness in the future.

A word they say is enough for the wise. Be wise now, to keep your relationship and grow it into a long lasting blissful marriage.