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my girlfriend has betrayed me!she slept with her ex-boyfriend and decided to quit our relationship after it was obvious to her the guy just wanted a one night stand!I was mad and begged her to tell me why she had to quit,she later told me how her ex called suddenly started calling her on phone and she decided to have a secret affair with him but lo and behold!the guy just wanted to break her heart  the more and left after making serious love to her for two days in a hotel.and now the guy has never called her since they last saw and as she told me she wasnt ready to call him.
    when  I asked her why she decided to betray me and still later decide to dump me,she told me:HE WAS MY FIRST LOVE<HE DEFLOWERED ME(am aware of that).
    But you know the funny thing about this,I always knew the inherent danger in this ex-boyfriend stuff and always warned her about it,but she always told me"over my dead body will I go back to him,I love you so much and will never leave you".
    I have already shut her out of my mind but now she keeps calling me and i don't even bother to call her let alone flash but she is not deterred.it just lasted for eight months as we would have celebrated our one year anniversary by february this year if she hadnt "dumped" me by september last year.and morover,we are miles apart.
SO GUYS<ASK YOUR BABES ABOUT THEIR EX-BOYFRIENDS AND BE ON THE ALERT!I nerver knew my girl to be promiscous but am surprised at this.

talk2sulta:

SO GUYS<ASK YOUR BABES ABOUT THEIR EX-BOYFRIENDS AND BE ON THE ALERT!I nerver knew my girl to be promiscous but am surprised at this.

u don't expect me to start calling the seven five of them early this morning to ask them this, do u?

talk2sulta:

HE DEFLOWERED

this is in a bid to run away from the word dIs-virgined, hmm?
hmm, your first love has a first love that isnt u, how complex can love get?


what has this story got to do with this very section anyway? there is a Romance section somewhere around, i've never been der but its somewhere around, look for it and move this over there.

Yeh, the case of the Ex abi. anyway, you have already made a decision, if you are illing to forgive her then do that, the ball is in your court.

so many soft boyz around town nowadays

you are now the ex-boyfriend, will you do the thing too?

_{sultaan is that you?}

Hey dude, dont waste ur tym having her on your mind anymore. Cos if u do, she is still going to do the same. like one of my friend always says"girls have fish brain" cos they are very easy to deceive and confuse. dude, shine ur eye, cos we never want loose u on nairaland ohhhh. so soji ur self. half word is enough for a wise. One love.

What is it with naija pple and first love? I know a lot of Nigerian girls that feels so attached to whoever they lost their virginity to…, make it sound like that the guy is indebted to them forever and he has to marry them becos he disvirgined them?

@topic, my advice for u is to move one with ur life and u’ll find someone that appreciates u better. Ignore her cos who knows wat might happen when u marry her? She’ll leave u in the middle of the night and run back to her first love whenever he comes calling her again.

And to think that they were together for 2 days?
lol she’s just a cheap slut!

@ poster,
u be real mumu.
the girl dey deceive u since u self they do first love.
babe wey don bang like ten guys u still they follow am sheepishly.
wake up and smell the coffee.she wasn't meant for u.simple

Ol boy! Sorry o! But no be only you e don happen to.
No be new tory

God has saved and delivered u. pls run for ur life ooo

she is not fr u

kpomqueeeem.QED!!!!!!!!!!

consider your self lucky that she at least quit the relationship instead of stringing you along.

bennygee:

@ poster,
u be real mumu.
the girl dey deceive u since u self they do first love.
babe wey don bang like ten guys u still they follow am sheepishly.
wake up and smell the coffee.she wasn't meant for u.simple

bennygee I no be mumu.how would I know if she's cheating on me.we are a little bit far from each other so I wouldnt really know whats happening.my brother it can happen to anyone as long as you truly love your girl.not blindly anyway.

Dis Guy:

so many soft boyz around town nowadays

you are now the ex-boyfriend, will you do the thing too?

_{sultaan is that you?}

Dis guy I dont think I have time for that.let bygone be bygone.shekina.

guy leave the chick alone she is not made for you, ok.

you are over her, so what more advice are you looking for?

well God has shown u

its left for u to decide!

@sulta- your ex's excuse is damn rite silly! so the guy is her first love and he deflowered her, and so? his he using remote control her?

like someone said , thank your stars that ur thru with her lying promiscuous Bottom cause only heaven knows what she'd do if u were married. what a load of crap!

thats life man, just get things 2gether & move on

thats life man, just get things 2gether & move on

well, u mustn't have been that good, sorry i said that, but i am just saying it as it is.

tales by moonlight and the lesson learnt from this is that, poo happens move on.

the name of the lesson is "GROWING UP 101"
it will guilde you for a life time.

Guy, i no fit say u be mumu, but soji ur self distance no matter all, na girls way be dat way u dey c so even if u give her everything she go still cheat on u, come dey beg later say na devil.
My guy 4get am make u move on she bi oscanbo

so,this type of threads still exist?

@poster,

Sorry o! so sad. Well you have to move on, if you can forgive her please do, if not, let her down gently she must be devasted now. Why do some guys like to play with peoples feelings its so unfair. Poor girl!!! apparently she still had the hots for her ex. A real case of Love triangle.

Ex Boyfriend must've whooped that Bottom like it was hot

The girl proly just woke up to the sad reality that she was with someone who could not perform

Thats the beauty of deflowering a girl.

Once Jembe, always Jembe!!!

jassie:

Thats the beauty of deflowering a girl.

Once Jembe, always Jembe!!!

@jassie, it seems your word is true, cos have always imagine that kind of a thing.

definately you were performing below expexpectations especially behind closed door _{sorry o}

definately you were performing below expexpectations especially behind closed door sorry o


not really that.though am not claiming to be one superman,but I feel that its all about emotional attachments.I have realised that once you dump a girl,she will always want you back I feel.try it and see.

you are a perfect picture of masculine oponu(first class fool).

who are you are trying 2 advice, you are just a disgrace!

it seems you are love-sick, i can see thru your mind you will still welcome d girl to fool u d more.