You feel like you have met your soulmate. Everything you always dreamt of has finally come true. You marry and wait for the happily home. Somehow, the wait seems endless! With each passing day, you seem to be thinking about how to make your marriage work. No need to worry further, I bring you ideas for sustaining your relationship and help you fall in love all over again. Read on further to know the top 10 tips to sustain your marriage .

How To Make Your Marriage Work

i. Show Love
Never ever let love diminish from your lives. So what if you are busy with work and handling three jobs at a time? You are married to your beloved, not your work. Often people feel neglected as they feel their partner does not love them the way they used to . Even if it means saying a simple"I love you"with quick peck, make you sure you do it everyday. It works wonders and keeps you together even through the toughest times.

ii. Don't Nag
You have to understand that every person has a limit of tolerance. Once you push the person beyond that level, trouble occurs. Don't keep nagging your partner to do things the way you like to . Just because you are married to them does not mean they can't think or do things their way. Just say what you have in mind and wait for your partner to respond. You will be surprised to see the results.

iii. Respect your Partner
You give respect, you get respect. Don't forget he/she still has an individual identity, despite the fact that you are a couple. Respect your partner's feelings and you will have much more years of happiness in your life.

iv. Resolve Fights
Never ever leave fights or bitter arguments for the next time. Resolve your arguments and fights then and there. Do not be hesitate to say"sorry"if it is your mistake. You will see how easy it is to resolve fights and forgive each other and truly forget it. Do not bring up old issues, as it will unnecessarily complicate an already delicate situation. It is better to forgive and forget than fret forever!!

v. Communicate
Talk to each other as much as you can. It helps to bring two people closer and you get to understand each other better. Look at it this way. Some of the most amazing conversations you can think of have taken place with the one you love.

vi. Be Faithful
In order to keep a relation alive, you have to have faith and trust in your bloved. No one is perfect and you have to accept the other person just as he/she accepts you, with the positives and negatives. There is a very thin line of difference between trust and faith and it is very important to trust your partner and have faith in yourself to keep the relationship going.

vii. Compromises
Everyone is required to make compromises at some point in life. It is not possible to have everything that you desire for, at the expense of someone else. You have to adjust to make yourself and your partner happy. Rest assured that when time comes, he/she would go out of way to make you comfortable.

viii. Take a Break
Allot one day in a week that you will devote just for the two of you. It could be every Sunday and it need not be anything extravagant or too mushy. Just be with him/her for an entire day even if it means helping her with the dishes or watching a game with him.

ix. Special Days

Whatever you do, do not forget important dates. Remember birthdays and anniversaries. They are special days and every year they add another milestone to your relationship, reminding you that there are many more happy days to come.

x. Do Not Underestimate

Whatever your partner does to make you happy should be valued. Never underestimate the value or effort of your partner. It gives a bad face-off to your relationship. Just make your partner feel important and special, and you would be sailing on the ship of a happy marriage all your life!

Yes

Poster @Timijo. Please where would you find a human being that will do all these in any marriage? African marriages are notoriously one sided. I can't think of any woman or especially Nigerian man that can do all these . It's either some of the above or none of the above . Every marriage is unique and requires different skills. We are dealing with human beings here not Robots.

Only expressing my opinion, please no vulgar language or insults .

We already know all these, but all d same, thanks for sharing, atleast, for reminding us. Appreciated.

cast your cares upon Jesus,for he cares for you.

SELFWORTH

@Timijo. Please where would you find a human being that will do all these in any marriage?

There are people doing all these to sweeten their homes and many people are also ready to practise them.

African marriages are notoriously one sided. I can't think of any woman or especially Nigerian man that can do all these . It's either some of the above or none of the above .

The write up is nt for africans alone. Besides, don't rate others as u are rating urself.

Every marriage is unique and requires different skills. We are dealing with human beings here not Robots.

what do u mean by this statement? Are u saying that robots can practise these and nt human beings? Thanks for giving him answer on my behalf.

By makin love to ur wife eveday

greatgod2012: We already know all these, but all d same, thanks for sharing, atleast, for reminding us. Appreciated.

Say that to ur self and leave others.

Great tips! So many people get into marriage and after the wedding begin to panic when they see tough times.

These tips will come in very useful to keep the love alive and the marriage going strong.

http://www.mynewhitmanwrites.com/2012/08/ways-to-keep-love-alive-by-sacha-crouch.html

Yeah & pray together.

Thanks for such a wonderful lecture. Practical aspect of it would attract very much appraise. How I wish it could be attainable.

All this for marriage to work?? Pls, were are the lesbians in the house?

quote author=kunbex4love]By makin love eto ur wife eveday[/quote] Everyday for how many years? You wan kill am?

Nice

Am still single

Timijo:

How To Make Your Marriage Work

iv. Resolve Fights
Never ever leave fights or bitter arguments for the next time. Resolve your arguments and fights then and there. Do not be hesitate to say "SORRY" if it is your mistake. You will see how easy it is to resolve fights and forgive each other and truly forget it. Do not bring up old issues, as it will unnecessarily complicate an already delicate situation. It is better to forgive and forget than fret forever!!

Please, when you do apologise, let it be nice & sincere. Just don't say "sorry"..that doesn't sound like your really sorry. "I'm sorry" is more like it.

Get tips! Tx 4 sharing OP

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bakila:
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Haba! You don't need to insult before u correct him. That is the peak of his understanding about marriage.

Nice tips,bt it not easy to score 10/10,abi

Financial capability should be number one

[quote author=Timijo]Say that to ur self and leave others.[/quotet]
Thank you timijo,I lov that response.

Timijo: Say that to ur self and leave others.

i mean, many married pple already know this, but as humans, we tend to forget easily, so, thanks 4 reminding us, haba! Is dat a bad thing?

nyere84: All this for marriage to work?? Pls, were are the lesbians in the house?

and what is rocket science in all of this? these are things we do in all types of relationships: parent - child, friend - friend, lovers and colleagues.

nyere84: All this for marriage to work?? Pls, were are the lesbians in the house?

. Meaning? If you are one, kneel down and ask God to forgive you. Do not get urself involved in dat dirty game.

SELFWORTH: Poster @Timijo. Please where would you find a human being that will do all these in any marriage? African marriages are notoriously one sided. I can't think of any woman or especially Nigerian man that can do all these . It's either some of the above or none of the above . Every marriage is unique and requires different skills. We are dealing with human beings here not Robots.

Only expressing my opinion, please no vulgar language or insults .

be positive minded plssss

nyere84: All this for marriage to work?? Pls, were are the lesbians in the house?

Are you also a lesbian?