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HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by jackpot(f): 3:16pm On Oct 28, 2012
All married women in the house this post is for you

Sex is holy within marriage, & there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran does it say that the missionary position is the only intimate style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to separation! Many husbands leave their wives to seek intimate pleasures in clubs and brothels, or with girlfriends. Have you ever asked yourself what those ladies have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties on. If you're a married woman, you should sleep Unclad and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a womanliness. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade Unclad and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' "kobokos" look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They always switch off d lights before undressing. The koboko is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. I blame couples for not making time for sex & complaining about being tired after work. You find couple who've been sexually starved for years.

WHO SAID U CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why not drive home during lunch and have a quickie wit your husband?

Pls, it just a piece of advice; me i dont know anything oo! wink
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by obowunmi(m): 3:30pm On Oct 28, 2012
LooL
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by ftmom(f): 7:11pm On Oct 28, 2012
@OP,

Your post made me laugh but I'm not laughing at you o! Just that some parts were so hilarious.

What is the purpose of never sleeping with your panties on? Dunno what stage of life you are in but for most people, s-exxxx EVERY night is a fantasy at best.

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Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by Busybody2(f): 8:01pm On Oct 28, 2012
Now that's putting it mildly grin

Yuck, what a passion killer of a thread angry
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by denzel2009: 8:08pm On Oct 28, 2012
When did this place turn to youporn?
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by canadianboy: 1:36pm On Oct 31, 2012
I really buy into this idea expressed by the poster! This is a piece of advice for our women!
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by MrsChima(f): 1:40pm On Oct 31, 2012
Before jumping into conclusions....people need to first know why the man was denied sex and stop supporting cheating...two wrongs doesnt make it right.

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Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by Nobody: 1:40pm On Oct 31, 2012
I've known this since I was 10.
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by Nobody: 1:42pm On Oct 31, 2012
Mrs.Chima:
Before jumping into conclusions....people need to first know why the man was denied sex and stop supporting cheating...two wrongs doesnt make it right.

Can you gimme reasons why a couple would deny each other of sex? 'Cos I can't think of any. tongue
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by MrsChima(f): 1:43pm On Oct 31, 2012
stillwater:

Can you gimme reasons why a couple would deny each other of sex? 'Cos I can't think of any. tongue

I cant speak for other couples and if they were denied..it has to be a reason for it...duh.
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by Nobody: 2:06pm On Oct 31, 2012
^^^No need for duh, we are all learning. I would just like to know what marital problem that can be solved by denying sex, instead of trashing out the problem itself.
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by MrsChima(f): 2:10pm On Oct 31, 2012
stillwater: ^^^No need for duh, we are all learning. I would just like to know what marital problem that can be solved by denying sex, instead of trashing out the problem itself.

It is clear that having sex sure doesn't solve marital issues EITHER OTHERWISE people wouldn't be cheating sexually. There are men who have confessed their wives give them sex whenever they want but they STILL CHEAT. Now what?

Take your time.
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by rokiatu(f): 2:21pm On Oct 31, 2012
Are you angry with your wife? Lmao.
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by MrsChima(f): 2:34pm On Oct 31, 2012
rokiatu: Are you angry with your wife? Lmao.
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by Nobody: 2:45pm On Oct 31, 2012
Mrs.Chima:


It is clear that having sex sure doesn't solve marital issues EITHER OTHERWISE people wouldn't be cheating sexually. There are men who have confessed their wives give them sex whenever they want but they STILL CHEAT. Now what?

Take your time.

How does this have anything to do with what I asked? And where the heck is the negativity coming from? Is this not a forum again? I even put an emoticon thinking I was talking with someone that wouldn't take offense. The question was what kind of marital strife would make one use 'no sex' as a cautionary tool? You said each couple have a reason for it. Good! But what type of reasons? Give examples!!! Then you go on a tirade of men would still cheat if you give them sex. Bloody hell! What does your response have to do with giving examples of why one would deny oneself of sex?

Sorry for engaging you in a discussion, bye!

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Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by MrsChima(f): 2:39am On Nov 01, 2012
stillwater:

How does this have anything to do with what I asked? And where the heck is the negativity coming from? Is this not a forum again? I even put an emoticon thinking I was talking with someone that wouldn't take offense. The question was what kind of marital strife would make one use 'no sex' as a cautionary tool? You said each couple have a reason for it. Good! But what type of reasons? Give examples!!! Then you go on a tirade of men would still cheat if you give them sex. Bloody hell! What does your response have to do with giving examples of why one would deny oneself of sex?

Sorry for engaging you in a discussion, bye!

I see i touched a nerve or seven...its gon be okay boo boo.

You are forgiven.
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by Gaggi: 3:53am On Nov 01, 2012
Mrs.Chima:


I see i touched a nerve....its gon be okay boo boo. Maybe she had a bad cold when you asked for some toto.

She is a man, at least online.
@op. Sex is overrated. The worst thing one can do is to marry for sex. Those days I used to be a stud and thought when I marry na everyday thing e go be. Reality soon dawns.
I dnt knw if u are married but most couples without any quarrel can go 2 wks without it and it will be perfectly normal. My point is that the sex in marriage is exaggerated. Mind u it isn't lack of sex that makes a man to cheat. It's d quest for a different flavour.
Source: experience.
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by Ryabcool(m): 4:28am On Nov 25, 2012
Mrs.Chima:


I see i touched a nerve or seven...its gon be okay boo boo.

You are forgiven.


can you kindly give instances in which YOU deem are reasons YOU can deny YOUR husband his "conjugal rights"? I for one would appreciate it if you can try not to avoid the question and resort to throwing insults. Awaiting your reply.

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Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by Ryabcool(m): 9:14pm On Nov 26, 2012
*sigh* I've been studying Mrs Chima for a while now. I noticed she chooses to run from sensible discussions yet chooses to attack anyone she sees she'd be able to floor. Talk about bullying and cowardice all rolled into one. Oh well... I await your reply to my question.
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by JallowBah(f): 10:12pm On Nov 26, 2012
Marriage takes work, that includes the intimate side of it.

You should show your spouse, both the husband and the wife, that you love, and still is attracted to him/her.
And yes, you should parade naken.
You should show you are proud of yourself.
You should explore the intimate sides as well as your spouses head.

And, you should always try to get with it when your spouse wants, even if you dont reaaally feel like it..for most people, it will come when they just take the time and energy to start up.

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Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by Nobody: 5:14pm On Dec 22, 2012
Funny thread grin
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by victorian(f): 7:30pm On Dec 22, 2012
Real funny thread.... But seriously?.... Leaving work to go for quickies angryduring mid day?..... Is your husband running away, op? Is he not coming back home in the evening?....don't worry when u get married... U will understand running home for quickies can be delayed for later... cool.... Buisness first, during work hrs..... Dont worry ,U go bleep , u go taya...try take it easy.
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by Bashirhendricks: 12:09pm On Dec 12, 2013
I can see that this is an old post, but guys I need help. I got married 1 and half weeks ago, my husband and I were sexually involved only 3 times each in the quickest possible time. I have tried to seduce him and I seem to be failing to a point were he snubs at me and says NO to my advances. I recently discovered that he flirts with his ex and have lunch quickies....could this be the reason of denying me undecided
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by bukatyne(f): 12:27pm On Dec 12, 2013
Bashirhendricks: I can see that this is an old post, but guys I need help. I got married 1 and half weeks ago, my husband and I were sexually involved only 3 times each in the quickest possible time. I have tried to seduce him and I seem to be failing to a point were he snubs at me and says NO to my advances. I recently discovered that he flirts with his ex and have lunch quickies....could this be the reason of denying me undecided

Dear,

Open a new thread in the family section, you will get the answers you seek
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by Kanwulia: 2:53pm On Dec 12, 2013
Please, he is free to WAKA!!!!
Me sef done taya for the damn BLOKOS!
Shioooooooor! Like I nor get work?

Nor be "man" own dey worry me at this stage of my life'. He has given me the JUICIEST BEST OF HIM!

Others can struggle for the over-used remnants! kiss All I am waiting for is first to QUENCH for retirement benefits! Period!!! cool
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by soulglo: 4:21pm On Dec 12, 2013
Bashirhendricks: I can see that this is an old post, but guys I need help. I got married 1 and half weeks ago, my husband and I were sexually involved only 3 times each in the quickest possible time. I have tried to seduce him and I seem to be failing to a point were he snubs at me and says NO to my advances. I recently discovered that he flirts with his ex and have lunch quickies....could this be the reason of denying me undecided

You've been married for only 1 week? This has to be a record. Please post this in the family section. There's a wider audience there to answer your questions. You know you cannot honestly say you knew absolutely nothing of this before you got married. Please get on birth control ASAP.
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by tpia5: 4:31pm On Dec 12, 2013
I do find it hard to believe all men depend on sex 24/7 and never have downtime.

Unless you are a gigolo and must always be ready to service a woman anytime of the day or night, you don't have to be married to take time off sex.

Yes, bachelors also do the same? But maybe because they're not married and can think of some excuse to give their girlfriend ( if they have one), for not seeing her, nobody notices they're also taking a break?
Re: HOT TOPIC: Advice For Married Women Denying Their Husband Conjugal "Rights" by tpia5: 4:41pm On Dec 12, 2013
jackpot: All married women in the house this post is for you

Sex is holy within marriage, & there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran does it say that the missionary position is the only intimate style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to separation! Many husbands leave their wives to seek intimate pleasures in clubs and brothels, or with girlfriends. Have you ever asked yourself what those ladies have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties on. If you're a married woman, you should sleep Unclad and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a womanliness. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade Unclad and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' "kobokos" look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They always switch off d lights before undressing. The koboko is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. I blame couples for not making time for sex & complaining about being tired after work. You find couple who've been sexually starved for years.

WHO SAID U CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why not drive home during lunch and have a quickie wit your husband?

Pls, it just a piece of advice; me i dont know anything oo! wink


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