Pls ma girlfriend and i are about fixing our introduction and registyr by december. Just dis evening, i ran through her fb messages because she forgot her phone and i read some conversations with a guy on facebook. The guy is in india and she told the guy she will be having her wedding very soon. But the guy said, she jilted him big time, and that its not her plan for she got someone she loved. But i never let her know that i saw it and and i keep reading. She loved the guy but her parent did not support the relationship but they prefer me. The funny tin is that, she bought all the wedding tins without me spending a dime, telling me she loves me. Pls should i ignore or cut the show?

Pls can someone rephrase this thread,because I just dont understand

na wa for dis show o
No be small thing

One of d reasons I dont search for what is not missing. Even if she does runs, as long as it's clean.....ok by me. Looking for what is not missing will create headache, trouble, sickness n in some cases, death.
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Free her, she disclosed she wants 2 marry d guy she loves...u, so what else do u want?

Tanks

The OP is satisfied!
Hmmm!

Does the fiance feel threatened by a guy from far away India. its funny, he shouldnt .

No dat, but y shes keeping d secret nd i am seeing every, huge sign insincerity

Going through another person's phone should be made illegal

Please, go through her linkedin.com messages as well. It could also be 'equally revealing'.

Why do you think her parents chose you over that dude? Have you ever bothered to ask? She loves you...enough to marry you. She's decided to sponsor the wedding...all in the name of love. A gesture that defies conventional thinking. Only a select [decisive] few can do such.

Know this, a bird @ hand may just be the only bird...you might not see any in the bush.

Mynd_44: Going through another person's phone should be made illegal

True cus what comes after is headache which u av now

Ariyke: True cus what comes after is headache which u av now

True

Just dis morning she moved her tins to ma house, clainming she loves me and her parent but i pretended as if i didnt see anything....but its disturbing cus even till now she inbox the guy say she tried she could do but it cant. Life is funny but i want to take action but yu guys are great with ur wisdom...am very grateful

U wil kill urself wit heart attack if u dont resign frm this FBI tin. Go ahead wit d wedding or l snash d babe.

larrymoore: U wil kill urself wit heart attack if u dont resign frm this FBI tin. Go ahead wit d wedding or l snash d babe.

I hope he learnt

Mynd_44:
I hope he learnt

yes kee!

Yes, you guys are great, av learnt so much here...just scared of getting married an insincere but lovin lady

zangiff: Yes, you guys are great, av learnt so much here...just scared of getting married an insincere but lovin lady

And you need to keep your nose outta other people's business

If you're so upset about her presumed 2-facedness,
You need to sit her down + discuss issues with her.

She's bankrolling the occasion n has chosen to settle down with you.....
That says a lot, ........ there's more in your favour.


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doe-eyed:
If you're so upset about her presumed 2-facedness,
You need to sit her down + discuss issues with her.

She's bankrolling the occasion n has chosen to settle down with you.....
That says a lot, ........ there's more in your favour.


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Hello. Been a long while

I love ur responds, she see a little change in me and she begins to cry ..but i dnt wanna hurt her again...we are back on track

Confront her joor..if not, before you know it, insincere fiancee will graduate to a terrible lying arrse wife..dat i pray will not shatter ur marriage and happiness in future. If you don't confront her, she'll keep chatting with d guy..and start developing deeper feelings for him.
Now wat if the guy decides to come to nigeria just to spend time?? Next tin..she'll start phucking him..or wats worse? U might wake up not to see her by ur side..she don elope to india with the bobo be dat.
Just confront her..resolve it, and get on with ur marriage..it appears she loves u as well anyway

Last advise, stop snooping into people's business. If u hadn't done dat, you'd have been free of all this headaches..
but now dat you have it..TREAT IT!

This girl is in with me, imagine crying and giving some excuses that she only wanna see the guy off with those pretence and that she will change her facebook name to ma surname tomorrow morning...ohhh at times silence is good and on the other end peace confrontation brings good result.. We are back again

^^^bro, i am sorry to say that what you are doing makes absolutely NO SENSE!!!!
there is an issue of insincerety, and YOU think that changing her FB name to yours will solve anything?! with all due respect, how old are you?!
here is a clue for you: it seems to me that the only reason she is with you is because YOU ARE HER PARENTS BEST CHOICE out of the two, and not HERS.

you better dig deeper because desperate women are very good at pretending to be who they are not, in order to get their "happy" marriage blessed by their parent. the sad fact is that after a few months, the gal will realize that she doesnt love you and yearn for that other guy EVEN STRONGER. so the fact of this matter is IF SHE DOESNT LOVE YOU, there is nothing you can do about it and better walk away........so your mission for the day is to find out if this gal loves you.

another clue: how long have they been "talking"? have they ever met? did he fukc her? if the guy said she loves someone else, that means SHE told him that she loved him......so thats a confirmation that it is NOT about wanting to see the guy off with pretence.....AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST there are two sides to a story, only a dumb person listen to one side, so if you really want to know what REALLY happened between the two then contact the other guy directly to let have his side of the story. i wouldnt be surprized if they wanted to get married but the parents rejected him for one reason or the other (or maybe they were dating and in love, he moved to India and she settled for you out of desperation). remember, dont believe EVERYTHING the other says foolishly, but evaluate the evidence!

btw: paying for the wedding could simply be a desperate move by a desperate person to GET MARRIED, dont be fooled!

ayobase: The OP is satisfied!
Hmmm!

oga manchester united, you dey here too?

MRbrownJAY: ^^^bro, i am sorry to say that what you are doing makes absolutely NO SENSE!!!!
there is an issue of insincerety, and YOU think that changing her FB name to yours will solve anything?! with all due respect, how old are you?!
here is a clue for you: it seems to me that the only reason she is with you is because YOU ARE HER PARENTS BEST CHOICE out of the two, and not HERS.

you better dig deeper because desperate women are very good at pretending to be who they are not, in order to get their "happy" marriage blessed by their parent. the sad fact is that after a few months, the gal will realize that she doesnt love you and yearn for that other guy EVEN STRONGER. so the fact of this matter is IF SHE DOESNT LOVE YOU, there is nothing you can do about it and better walk away........so your mission for the day is to find out if this gal loves you.

another clue: how long have they been "talking"? have they ever met? did he fukc her? if the guy said she loves someone else, that means SHE told him that she loved him......so thats a confirmation that it is NOT about wanting to see the guy off with pretence.....AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST there are two sides to a story, only a dumb person listen to one side, so if you really want to know what REALLY happened between the two then contact the other guy directly to let have his side of the story. i wouldnt be surprized if they wanted to get married but the parents rejected him for one reason or the other (or maybe they were dating and in love, he moved to India and she settled for you out of desperation). remember, dont believe EVERYTHING the other says foolishly, but evaluate the evidence!

btw: paying for the wedding could simply be a desperate move by a desperate person to GET MARRIED, dont be fooled!

1 trillion likes...

Footing the wedding bills, changing facebook name, telling you she loves you every second makes her either a madly in love lady or a very desperate lady.

Find out if she truely, willingly loves you, it could be dat you are just a better choice and she is forcing herself to love you.... Perhaps if she keep saying it, she ll come to believe it

MRbrownJAY: ^^^bro, i am sorry to say that what you are doing makes absolutely NO SENSE!!!!
there is an issue of insincerety, and YOU think that changing her FB name to yours will solve anything?! with all due respect, how old are you?!
here is a clue for you: it seems to me that the only reason she is with you is because YOU ARE HER PARENTS BEST CHOICE out of the two, and not HERS.

you better dig deeper because desperate women are very good at pretending to be who they are not, in order to get their "happy" marriage blessed by their parent. the sad fact is that after a few months, the gal will realize that she doesnt love you and yearn for that other guy EVEN STRONGER. so the fact of this matter is IF SHE DOESNT LOVE YOU, there is nothing you can do about it and better walk away........so your mission for the day is to find out if this gal loves you.

another clue: how long have they been "talking"? have they ever met? did he fukc her? if the guy said she loves someone else, that means SHE told him that she loved him......so thats a confirmation that it is NOT about wanting to see the guy off with pretence.....AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST there are two sides to a story, only a dumb person listen to one side, so if you really want to know what REALLY happened between the two then contact the other guy directly to let have his side of the story. i wouldnt be surprized if they wanted to get married but the parents rejected him for one reason or the other (or maybe they were dating and in love, he moved to India and she settled for you out of desperation). remember, dont believe EVERYTHING the other says foolishly, but evaluate the evidence!

btw: paying for the wedding could simply be a desperate move by a desperate person to GET MARRIED, dont be fooled!

ShIKENA!!! Mods, pls close this thread!!

I'm glad you made up with your girl. You won't believe how many times a girl lies to a guy just to be able to successfully break up with him without hurting his ego. What did you expect her to tell the guy? That he wasn't good enough for her? That's harsh. People tell all kinds of lies in facebook inbox, you shouldn't be taking anything you read there serious, you shouldn't even be going there in the first place. But all that's over now. What really got me interested in this thread is the fact that the girl is sponsoring the wedding. How come you are okay with that? Doesn't it feel like she is the one marrying you instead of the other way round? Are you Indian? How come you couldn't take half of the bills and let your girl take half? Is she gonna sponsor the marriage after the wedding or you have plans to resume some of sponsoring rights? aint you one day gonna regret letting her marry you? you know men and their unreliable ego.

zangiff: Just dis morning she moved her tins to ma house, clainming she loves me and her parent but i pretended as if i didnt see anything....but its disturbing cus even till now she inbox the guy say she tried she could do but it cant. Life is funny but i want to take action but yu guys are great with ur wisdom...am very grateful

don't blive everytin you see on the social network,the guy is in india...or has she ever travelled to india?

zangiff: Pls ma girlfriend and i are about fixing our introduction and registyr by december. Just dis evening, i ran through her fb messages because she forgot her phone and i read some conversations with a guy on facebook. The guy is in india and she told the guy she will be having her wedding very soon. But the guy said, she jilted him big time, and that its not her plan for she got someone she loved. But i never let her know that i saw it and and i keep reading. She loved the guy but her parent did not support the relationship but they prefer me. The funny tin is that, she bought all the wedding tins without me spending a dime, telling me she loves me. Pls should i ignore or cut the show?

Ignorance is bliss. Keep snooping and one day you'll los your head.

Most Indians on wap are just crazy pervs, don't believe everything you see on net.
Why is she the one marrying you sef? Are u like broke or something? What happened happened to males with ego
Dey there make pant dey wear you.