milychocs:



Done. Ready.
Stay happy for all of us, okay?
Cheers

milychocs:
Hello guys, this is my 1st topic on nairaland, hope people respond to it
I had a waking thought about 4 days ago, and I want to share it

If you were given these 2 options below, and you absolutely had to choose I, which would it be-

1. You get married, have a dream wedding, the best ring, possessions, etc....but you are NOT in love, BUT, your feelings may or not change with time, and yes, the guy is good looking, and there will be no divorce, and you must live together, kids may or may not be there...( remember, you can grow to love or loathe this guy o)....people envy you, but do not know the true state...remember, social doors are opened to you here, etc

2. You have a dream love affair, the stuff of movies, the guy lives in same town, reciprocates your feelings, you are in love, and would want all to know...BUT, you CANNOT get married, in fact NO ONE knows you are in a relationship, they offer to hook you up with people, look at you with derision, pity or whatever. (Remember you are in love and this relationship is for as long as you are alive, BUT no one knows, no marriage, some social doors are shut to you, etc)

I know it is theoretical, probably implausible, but think on it and let me know...
Total honesty required please...it does not matter if you are currently married/single, happy or not...no rationalising allowed

I posted this because I asked 1 of my 2 best friends and our answers differed
The other best friend said she won't answer cos I have become even more fanciful since joining nairaland...that I should face my dissertation instead
I agree, but this question has been niggling at me like tomorrow no dey

Thank you all

chigoizie7:




How is question 2 possible? What re the limitations why u can't marry him?

milychocs:




The questions are hypothetical
For instance the man could be a really older widower with grown kids the lady's age who could whip her silly
Or the man could be a real younger guy who the lady cannot marry, or cannot marry her
He could be a known thug or something...I dunno
I would remove this thread if I knew how to

This topic bugs me anytime I come to my profile
The lack of response that is...I thought it was a great topic for NL
SMH

Daseed4:
To delete the thread: visit the section and check mail mod icon. Copy and paste the link of d thread for d mod to delete.

milychocs:
Hello Rocktation, thanks
But I do not remember my NL password

Rocktation:


But I don't see why deletion should be the only option. I'm pretty sure there's an option to reset password and another to change e-mail on NL.

Rocktation:


But I don't see why deletion should be the only option. I'm pretty sure there's an option to reset password and another to change e-mail on NL.

milychocs:
Hello guys, this is my 1st topic on nairaland, hope people respond to it
I had a waking thought about 4 days ago, and I want to share it

If you were given these 2 options below, and you absolutely had to choose I, which would it be-

1. You get married, have a dream wedding, the best ring, possessions, etc....but you are NOT in love, BUT, your feelings may or not change with time, and yes, the guy is good looking, and there will be no divorce, and you must live together, kids may or may not be there...( remember, you can grow to love or loathe this guy o)....people envy you, but do not know the true state...remember, social doors are opened to you here, etc

2. You have a dream love affair, the stuff of movies, the guy lives in same town, reciprocates your feelings, you are in love, and would want all to know...BUT, you CANNOT get married, in fact NO ONE knows you are in a relationship, they offer to hook you up with people, look at you with derision, pity or whatever. (Remember you are in love and this relationship is for as long as you are alive, BUT no one knows, no marriage, some social doors are shut to you, etc)

I know it is theoretical, probably implausible, but think on it and let me know...
Total honesty required please...it does not matter if you are currently married/single, happy or not...no rationalising allowed

I posted this because I asked 1 of my 2 best friends and our answers differed
The other best friend said she won't answer cos I have become even more fanciful since joining nairaland...that I should face my dissertation instead
I agree, but this question has been niggling at me like tomorrow no dey

Thank you all

ayokunlei:

.2 for me

milychocs:


Lol How did you see this? Me too @ number two Cheers

milychocs:

ajanaku2:
Milychocs

It's me Femi...

I really need to chat with you. I was researching about chevening scholarship and studying in the UK on Nairaland when I came across a UK-students-visa thread. I saw your posts there.

I sent you a PM but you are yet to reply. Can I drop my phone number and BB PIN on here and delete them after you must have acknowledged the receipt of this message?

milychocs:


@ ajanaku2
Hello Femi
I saw your message and could not reply...I forgot my NL password so cannot receive (read) PMs
Your phone number is better ....I no longer use bbm...
Cheers

milychocs:
Okay....will do that tmr...
Cheers...
You may delete your number now

ajanaku2:


Tomorrow loun loun?

Milychocs don turn oga madam.

No wahala, I go dey wait. Thanks, anyway.

milychocs:




Lol
...and you are welcome
Phone not here with me

ajanaku2:


Okay

Meanwhile, this your thread no dey pass page 1?

Since 2012?

Some of these mods are just heartless?