Hi,,i nid lyk serious advise,,my bf n i r lyk best of friends we do evrytin 2geda but recently i dnt seem 2 understand him,,lyk his dis different person duo he tells me evrytin,i just discovered dat his not actually wat i wnt 4 myself,,
1) he says stuffs dat hurts me without him knowing it duo he appolozies but he stil says he did not actually do anytin rong but just appolozied 4 peace 2 reign.
2) i hv not slept wit him,but evr since he stated talking about sex d relationship went south...(duo i luv him but just not ready 2 get intimate wit him)
3) i told him 2 describe me n all he could say was dat am civilized,,,,n den i told not 2 cal me till he has a better definition of me n figures out what i reali want......
Am seriously confused,did i do d right tin ??

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I'm seriously confused with your post.


If you are confused with your relationship,I think it's about time you broke up(He is tired of you,so leave now before it gets worse,trust me,it will only get worse).

So let me see if i've got this right...
1. He's insensitive to your feelings and doesn't accept when he's wrong.

2. He's demanding intimacy you aren't willing to give.

3. He knows basically nothing about you. How does he even describe you to his friends? Civilised??

Personally I'd say it's time to dump his dumb arze and move on but since you're in love with him, maybe you should talk about it first and if nothing changes my first opinion still stands.

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aimmy: Hi,,i nid lyk serious advise,,my bf n i r lyk best of friends we do evrytin 2geda but recently i dnt seem 2 understand him,,lyk his dis different person duo he tells me evrytin,i just discovered dat his not actually wat i wnt 4 myself,,
1) he says stuffs dat hurts me without him knowing it duo he appolozies but he stil says he did not actually do anytin rong but just appolozied 4 peace 2 reign.
2) i hv not slept wit him,but evr since he stated talking about sex d relationship went south...(duo i luv him but just not ready 2 get intimate wit him)
3) i told him 2 describe me n all he could say was dat am civilized,,,,n den i told not 2 cal me till he has a better definition of me n figures out what i reali want......
Am seriously confused,did i do d right tin ??

Please learn to write properly, even if you want to use shorthand you don't have to go extreme with it until it looks like gibberish.

_{How the phock did 'though' become 'duo'}

Lmao!U didn't act wrongly,dear.u knw, as a curious young girl,asking questions is inevitable on your part.buh since the guy isn't telling u wat u wanna hear,maybe u shud also ask him why...and whats with the 'duo'?

aimmy: Hi,,i nid lyk serious advise,,my bf n i r lyk best of friends we do evrytin 2geda but recently i dnt seem 2 understand him,,lyk his dis different person duo he tells me evrytin,i just discovered dat his not actually wat i wnt 4 myself,,
1) he says stuffs dat hurts me without him knowing it duo he appolozies but he stil says he did not actually do anytin rong but just appolozied 4 peace 2 reign.
2) i hv not slept wit him,but evr since he stated talking about sex d relationship went south...(duo i luv him but just not ready 2 get intimate wit him)
3) i told him 2 describe me n all he could say was dat am civilized,,,,n den i told not 2 cal me till he has a better definition of me n figures out what i reali want......
Am seriously confused,did i do d right tin ??

Dump the guy and go out with me.

aimmy: Hi,,i nid lyk serious advise,,my bf n i r lyk best of friends we do evrytin 2geda but recently i dnt seem 2 understand him,,lyk his dis different person duo he tells me evrytin,i just discovered dat his not actually wat i wnt 4 myself,,
1) he says stuffs dat hurts me without him knowing it duo he appolozies but he stil says he did not actually do anytin rong but just appolozied 4 peace 2 reign.
2) i hv not slept wit him,but evr since he stated talking about sex d relationship went south...(duo i luv him but just not ready 2 get intimate wit him)
3) i told him 2 describe me n all he could say was dat am civilized,,,,n den i told not 2 cal me till he has a better definition of me n figures out what i reali want......
Am seriously confused,did i do d right tin ??

y r u cnfusd?.. Ofcz u dd d ryt tn... I dnt undrstnd ow a guy whu claims 2 lv u cn b so insenstv 2 ur filns... Sriously? Lyk d only tn he knws abt u is dt u r cvlzd? Gawd! Nd y cnt he w8 til u r rdy 2 ve s*x instd of coercn u.... U fil smtn 4 hm or u wnt b cnfusd, so sit hm dwn, tlk 2 hm nd rily mk hm lstn, if he dosnt change, sit, tink nd rily dcid if he is wort it. U wear d shoes aftral!

aimmy: n figures out what i reali want......

What do you want?

I would have loved to hear the guy's version of this tale. But what do you want out of this r/ship and from this guy. When you answer this then you sit your guy down and talk with him and which way to go.

I lost reading interest when I noticed d "duo", is that trending now or u just too lazy to spell right?