Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,247 members, 7,957,593 topics. Date: Tuesday, 24 September 2024 at 03:28 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Culture / Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? (21528 Views)
Poll: Yes or no?Yes: 75% (78 votes)No: 25% (26 votes) This poll has ended |
Nigerian Man Turns Woman: Mr Dapo Adaralegbe, Now Miss Stephanie Adaralegbe / Tips On Dating A Nigerian Man / Can a Black man Be Racist Towards Fellow Blacks? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by yvskc(f): 7:41pm On Feb 09, 2008 |
[/color]loads of banging and in an english woman [color=Black]would u care to clarify your point dee02? |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Feb 09, 2008 |
yvskc (you should have taken a simple name like Ngozi or Nneka ) The mere fact that when you look around you,you see hundreds and hundreds of failed marriages of people that spoke the same language and even rode the same double decker buses growing up shows you that true love in marriage has absolutely nothing to do with being of the same tribe or race. Don't waste your time in the "what ifs" the list is endless. Enjoy your marriage. He knew you couldn't speak Igbo or cook ofe nsala when he married you I have an uncle here in the States married to an African American for over 25 years now and they are one of the happiest couples I know and I'm yet to hear her say "Ndewo or nno" |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Feb 09, 2008 |
faketan: I never hear this one o |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by yvskc(f): 11:34pm On Feb 09, 2008 |
babyo ty for the comment. yvskc are the initials of my children my husband calls me onyinyechi as he says that means more to him than my english name true say what if can mess with your head |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Feb 09, 2008 |
you have 5 kids? bless you dear. The man ain't going nowhere then. You already have him on lockdown ROFL |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by yvskc(f): 11:39pm On Feb 09, 2008 |
lol that's true |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Feb 09, 2008 |
I love this thread. Many times on nairaland there's this bashing of Igbo men. There are many women of all colors and creed married to lovely Igbo men and I'm one of them. I love me my Igbo men |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by spoilt(f): 12:04am On Feb 10, 2008 |
@ original poster you are worried because you dont speak his mother tongue? relax! you've come this far without speaking igbo. @ 4him you're right . leilah is not married to an igbo man @ Leilah if you state that you know many nigerian men who treat their wives like shit one more time, i'll scream. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by Nobody: 4:03am On Feb 10, 2008 |
Leila's brute needs to stripped naked and flogged in Ogbete market. She picked the worst of them all. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by TheSly: 4:05am On Feb 10, 2008 |
Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? [size=15pt]YES[/size] |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by mamaput(f): 9:54am On Feb 10, 2008 |
That's how I'm unlike you too, I may be 'English' but I am a (mixed race) black woman. that you are mixed dose not make you better than white Leilah. you cannot speak the language and you cannot cook the food. were is your village? Leilah if you state that you know many nigerian men who treat their wives like shit one more time, i'll scream i know many nigerian men who treat their wives like shit Leila's brute needs to stripped naked and flogged in Ogbete market. so now its her fault happyness is in the eye of the beholder all that talk of my king and my queen after five kids sounds like new wedds or brainwashing.all all your kids for the same man.? there is somethg funny about this story. you mean after 5 kids (min 5 years) you still cannot cook. you are still worried that he will stay. you have not spoken to his mum? |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by NINETOFIVE(m): 10:26am On Feb 10, 2008 |
@ mamaput, I noticed from your write up that you are quite troubled, you need to start asking the right questions. @ yvskc, You 've got a good head on your shoulder, you sound pretty much unlike an average western woman, am impressed. the fact that you don't understand the language don't mean nothing, am talking from experience, watch out for mamaput, the next thing she would tell you might probably be about feminism. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by EastnEuSis(f): 10:43am On Feb 10, 2008 |
mamaput: This is veeeery painful to you, innit?
|
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by egoldman(m): 10:51am On Feb 10, 2008 |
To the poster , from the way u described your marriage , i do not think you should worry about anything . off topic ; Babyosisi laughter is about to kill me cos of the picture in your profile ooooh |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by mamaput(f): 11:05am On Feb 10, 2008 |
NINETOFIVE: yes am troubled. a woman with five kids i assume is married for like 10 years. then why should she be asking the stupid question she is asking. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by mamaput(f): 11:11am On Feb 10, 2008 |
EastnEuSis: get real how can anything anyone writes on the www be painful to me. i have a life |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by egoldman(m): 11:13am On Feb 10, 2008 |
Mamaput let it go |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by mamaput(f): 11:39am On Feb 10, 2008 |
let go of the rat i smell. i smell a big fat rat. good mother even of twins, good cook, good job good christian, good wife with good husband never seen a better profile in my life |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by spoilt(f): 2:36pm On Feb 10, 2008 |
i dont get it? is it shocking that all 5 of her kids are from the same man? so what if she cant cook? this cooking issue is over flogged and overrated. apparently they havent all starved to death yet! If a woman cant cook, she cant cook. No need to bring out the cross, nails and hammer. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by mamaput(f): 2:58pm On Feb 10, 2008 |
the poster is 34 her oldest children the twins are 13 that means she had them at 21. that means she must have married at 20 that means she must have met her husband when she was at about 18/19. that means this topic is useless. are you telling me she dose not know the man she married by now. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by mellow(m): 3:41pm On Feb 10, 2008 |
mamaput: Methinks there is reason in this. How come after all this years she became worried all of a sudden? After 5 kids? Really, i doubt if all are from the same honourable Gentleman Igboman. Why the sudden fear or anxiety? How come it is now she knows she cannot talk the talk or walk the walk? I am mixed too though, My father is Delta and my mum is Edo and i never spoke a word of Igbo language, being in and out of EngiAmerican schools all my humble life, wonder why i am yet to graduate. Nonsense Imo River .[/color][color=#990000] |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by Albato(m): 4:07pm On Feb 10, 2008 |
Where true love exists, cultural differences will become secondary issue and will be resolved with time. Several Nigerians live happily with English ladies. I had this friend who is married to a "whitie". He admits he is lost for what to say or do when he attends parties with his wife among her people but one way or the other he always gets through it. His wife has admitted to the same thing. Attending Igbo functions with the husband is a drag too because she cannot understand half of what is being said. What matters is that this couple have lived for many years together. The best part is the half caste kids they got. The greatest joy is when you have beautiful children. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by oziomatv(m): 4:23pm On Feb 10, 2008 |
lol |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by tilewill(m): 7:51pm On Feb 10, 2008 |
@poster Love wins! so, you've got absolutely nothing to worry about. l'm equally a nigerian with Canadian born soulmate {thou, soon to be together}. You just be positive with him in the areas of your responsibilities. Be focused and help things with prayers. goodluck. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by romeo(m): 8:29pm On Feb 10, 2008 |
oziomatv: Point of correction!! Some Deltans are Igbos and some are not |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by spoilt(f): 10:54pm On Feb 10, 2008 |
Albato: ?? |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by Nobody: 12:35am On Feb 11, 2008 |
egoldman: I'm glad I made you laugh. bless you dear. mamaput: and so what ? She never said she did not love her man or that he didn't love her. It's only natural to think those thoughts,she's a human ain't she? Everyone here has reassured her that Igbo or not is not an issue my brother ninetofive on this thread is married to a Russian woman who I'm sure cannot carry on a conversation in Igbo. 4 him has Igbo mom and Yoruba dad. Even you are a product of an Igbo dad and a German mother. Same race and tribe is no guarantee to marital bliss. don't be too hard abeg |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by Leilah(f): 4:11am On Feb 11, 2008 |
VYSK or whatever you call yourself. I HAVE been to Nigeria and I DID meet all my husbands family. I never said THEY didn't appreciate me, |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by soccerchic(f): 4:35am On Feb 11, 2008 |
Is this story for real?? , just wondering cause I know people can be very creative when they want to |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by tpia: 7:42am On Feb 11, 2008 |
personally, I'd be very uneasy if people suddenly started raining praises on me the way they're doing here to the OP while abusing Leilah. Very very uneasy. But that's just me. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by mamaput(f): 8:23am On Feb 11, 2008 |
thankyou @ the the last two posters. @ babyosisi let me spell it out . the lady is telling lies |
Re: Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife? by mamaput(f): 8:39am On Feb 11, 2008 |
am not talking about a relationship working out or not. people that are happy in their marrage do not talk about it. and do not laugh at other people like Leilah like she did something wrong. this trend is disgusting |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply)
Lies About Oyo Empire / Which Tribe In Nigeria Speaks The Best English. / Voice-recording Of People Speaking Igbo And Bini in 1911
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 40 |