yvskc:

No Romeo,I did not!And would not ,I love my fellow woman
Which is why I am extending a hand of friendship to mamaput and hopefully
end all this nonsense.
mamaput u are prob right that people here are younger than you and I,although I don't know how
old u are, at 34 I am too old to be scrapping with a woman I do not know.We should set example
for younger generation eh?
And as Christians have a more forgiving heart.
What do u say?

Can a Nigerian man be happy with an English wife

Tales by moonlight

mamaput:

ok but there is nothing to forgive. the shit that hit the fan did not hit my face.

spoilt:

[b]mamaput abeg put rice for me ! [/b]ok. im kidding. relax now. wetin yvskc do you?

nwando:

with or without?

mamaput:

almondjoy when some fool rains you with "blessings" you will not wish your worst enemy you say thankyou ABI-
The fool will be sitting in his church on sunday singing Jesus is god at the top of his voice and sleep with his bible under his pillow.

romeo please i have soap and water even disinfectant

spoilt:

mamaput abeg put rice for me !
ok. im kidding. relax now. wetin yvskc do you?

R-Dynamite:

I won't say much on this topic but seriously it doesn't make sense to me that after 15 years of marriage with 5 kids, a woman will ask "Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife"? I must be sincere, it makes no iota of sense.

R-Dynamite:

I won't say much on this topic but seriously it doesn't make sense to me that after 15 years of marriage with 5 kids, a woman will ask "Can A Nigerian Man Be Happy With An English Wife"? I must be sincere, it makes no iota of sense. I mean, this is the kind of question your kids should be asking themselves seeing how their parents go about their marriage.(someone correct me if I'm wrong)

If there's nothing fishy about your marriage then you need to work on your paranoia Or what were you expecting to hear? That a Nigerian man won't be happy with "an English" woman?

Most Nigerians can be happy with anyone as long as YOU make them happy(this could be in many forms).

As for him cooking and all that blah blah, haha! You better PEEP beyond this! Nigerians can be very loving but very harmful on the other hand. Nothing you say can make me eat my words though so. . . . People are just strange. It's only a matter of time and circumstance.

However, enjoy your marriage. I'm happy for you.

romeo:

She wanted to know more about Nigerians and i believe she came to the wrong place though, Too many igbo haters and ignorants of igbo cultures! They will not offer you good advice but they will spend more time trying to find faults in your post to prove their " i too know disease".

Some people always want to be smart where they shouldn't be

tpia:

can you plz go back and follow this thread from the beginning instead of posting prejudiced comments.

99% of the posters/responders here are either Igbo, half Igbo or married to Igbo. So who are the Igbo bashers and where are you seeing Igbo hating?

The only person being bashed unequivocally that I can see, is Leilah. People were raining abuses on both her and her husband. And she was told the quality of her own man is less than others, since nobody on Nairaland or even Nigeria itself has ever done anything her husband may be doing.

I don't know what you are reading here.

yvskc:

Maybe I should have re-phrased my question as it seems to have puzzled some as to my motives.I don't understand why to be honest.

yvskc:

My thread should have read something like "Does not speaking the local dialect really matter?"

yvskc:

I did not pose my question expecting to find the answer to whether or not I should have married an Igbo,I don't need guidance or
advice in that area because it's true that after 15 years I am where I belong,and neither one of us wants out.

yvskc:

My mother asked me the same question,about how I would feel being around Igbo speakers
all of the time. I still find it hard to be in a room with people and not understand what they are saying!

yvskc:

We are proof that an English woman can make a Nigerian happy and vice versa ;

yvskc:

And I understand where u are comin from R-Dynamite, but our children would not be asking that question
because they don't see us as Nigerian and English,they see us as mum and dad

yvskc:

Maybe I need advice from foreign men and women married to Nigerians who actually live in Nigeria.

tpia:

can you plz go back and follow this thread from the beginning instead of posting prejudiced comments.

99% of the posters/responders here are either Igbo, half Igbo or married to Igbo. So who are the Igbo bashers and where are you seeing Igbo hating?

The only person being bashed unequivocally that I can see, is Leilah. People were raining abuses on both her and her husband. And she was told the quality of her own man is less than others, since nobody on Nairaland or even Nigeria itself has ever done anything her husband may be doing.

I don't know what you are reading here.

almondjoy:

It is like you were reading ma mind! I just decided to leave it alone because I do not like to visit the same issues twice! This precious "igbo" blood--na only some people get am for this Nairaland I swear!

I hope he can answer you!

romeo:

She wanted to know more about Nigerians and[b] i believe she came to the wrong place though, Too many igbo haters and ignorants of igbo cultures![/b] They will not offer you good advice but they will spend more time trying to find faults in your post to prove their " i too know disease".

Some people always want to be smart where they shouldn't be

romeo:

I know what i am saying when i mentioned "igbo haters" .
I said she came to the wrong place " Nairaland"
I am not new in this nairaland and i know them all

Maybe you're the one that needs to read from the first post, with just a single post you're now telling me to follow the thread, LoL


No dey look for back up , and i have answered him

I am qouting myself here, i am sure you're paying attention tpia

Mixed as in Hausa/Yoruba or Bini/Efik ? Who will not claim to be igbo again here!! In and out of English schools in Nigeria or outside Nigeria? small children of nowadays


@topic
Pay more attention to your family and leave all those old women giving you advice here because a good wife does not spend all her time on internet forums. If you had not stated that he took you to Nigeria to meet his parents, they would've told you to run away from him!

Egusi soup, pounded yam or Kedu is not what a man needs!! A man needs 24hrs support of the wife and vice versa

wawa:

Mamaput
Abeg are yopu mixed race or hardcore naija? No offence intended?

Meanwhile, I need ogbono soup with egusi, put okporoko, and isi ewu?

You get nkwobi? Ok good give one plate to yvskc, then another nkwobi plate for leilah.

I think Almondjoy will like one plate too.

Ok give malta guiness to everyone or 5-alive if they prefer that.

In fact give them whatever they want eeeh
How much ?

oziomatv:

do you serve ofe owerri?

Obviously they know you guys are their parents but what do you tell them when they ask where they're from and obviously figure out that you're mixed and he's black?

mamaput:

you tell them nothing because they will not ask.
They did not wake up one fine morning to find out they were mixed. after all they know the name of their fathers village and that they are Nigerians.

Naijadr:

make enough for everyone, and your house will be forever full with family "well wishers" who will sing praises of this their oyinbo wife!!