Today I hit my girlfriend because she kept nagging (not that I'm trying to justify hitting her),I've never hit a lady before but now that I did I fear I'll become a monstar. I've been having temper issues ever since I've known,but I did manage to always check it before I snap. Ever since I lost my mum a few months back my anger became rage. What should I do please?

Simple.
Be proactive.

Be responsibilty,choose the way you respond to situations,dont allow your emotions to control you by default.

Your honor is greater than your mood,understand it's your reaction that matters.

That is bad...here is what to do- Apologise sincerely to her and promise never to do it again.Treat her like a queen for the rest of the week and try to make her happy and 'delicate' in every way possible. Also tell her you would love her to quit nagging over an issue when the whole thing settles down.Then,treat ur self by managing ur anger issues,be slow to act,look for the positive side of evything she does...jst try to be a beta guy

It is probably related to the stress from other sides in your life, and that makes you not able to handle your anger as well as before.


Talk to her, explain to her why you lost it. Explain that this is not the husband you wish to be, and show her that you mean it.
Next time you get angry, tell her in a calm voice that you are getting angry, and that you need to cool down, so your anger dont go on her. And explain her this as well up front, so she know.

U only hit her, what's the big deal?Beat her blue black bend and she will cry for more. Next pls.

Do whatever it is that you aren't doing right, that's making her nag.

Jallowbalde: It is probably related to the stress from other sides in your life, and that makes you not able to handle your anger as well as before.


Talk to her, explain to her why you lost it. Explain that this is not the husband you wish to be, and show her that you mean it.
Next time you get angry, tell her in a calm voice that you are getting angry, and that you need to cool down, so your anger dont go on her. And explain her this as well up front, so she know.

Work related stress? Oh please don't make excuses. If his mother(no offence) did the same thing will he slap her?
Msheeeew

I sympathize with you on the loss of your mum. You really have to dig-deep and work the solution from your inside. Such happens but be aware that your emotional stress isn't an excuse to lose your girl. Most ladies have nagging-in-built. It's often borne by jealousy or caring for you. At the point of anger outburst and hot-exchange, most principles aren't remembered to be used. Hence, you play-the-fool by remaining silent or move away. That will assuredly save you from naughty reactions. Be good and try not hitting her again.

@190-the-clown I don't wanna say I laughed at your post but hell I did (it wasn't a slap,I gave her a right hand jab and I park a punch blaad)
@Mynd_44 offence not taken,but if its my mum I don't have to hurt her physically I guess (I play mind games)
@rocktation I think I'll have to learn how to cook if she is to stop nagging(telling me how useless I am because I don't cook and its not as if I care if she cooks or not,I eat out)
@jhydebaba your way no pure blaad lol
I'm never hitting her again and I'll start boxing to push my anger on some unlucky sparring partner

Mynd_44:
Work related stress? Oh please don't make excuses. If his mother(no offence) did the same thing will he slap her?
Msheeeew

Who talk about work? He lost his mother, and says he normally controls his anger. This time he did not.

I normally control my anger, but if I have extra stress in my life, I bite more. That is no excuse, it is an explanation.

Thtas better oo

Im not going to judge you. But please brother, learn to control your temper before you seek a relationship.