* You can not chase money and women at the same time - even when so many fathers have made such mistake in their youthful days they still end up failing to tell their sons that one can not hunt for money and women at the same time. It is either one makes money and then start chasing women or the other way round.

* A man gets more respect based on his pocket - This point is not trying to encourage crime and ungodly acts in other to make wealth but facing reality, it is a known fact that both within the home front and the society at large, a man is respected the more according to how comfortable and financially free he becomes.

* Women can make or ruin you - So many fathers even when they know the truth of the power of any woman still shy away of enlightening their sons on the critical hidden powers a woman possesses. From the days of Adam, Samson, Solomon, Abacha and other notable names we have heard, a man can either Rise or Fall through the power and influence of a woman. A man should thread as softly as possible when dealing with a woman.

* A Woman can smell a successful man from miles away - Women naturally have an hidden instinct of knowing a man who is successful or have the tendency of being successful in the future. So many women have stuck to a struggling and upcoming man against their parents wish of marrying an already made man. A woman will say things like "he has a bright future", "he has potentials" or "He will be a great man in future". Ladies who have uttered such words and stuck by their men have never gone wrong. Example is how Michiel Obama stuck with Barack through thick and thin.

* A Woman Doesn't Like A Weak Man - When fathers tell their sons never to give in to a woman's pressure they mostly advice their sons to be physically forcy on issues to prove he is the man of the house. When in reality women prefer men who say less and do more rather than keep talking and do less. The lather is the typical meaning of a weak man but fathers always advice to do such to prove he is the king of the house.

* Women Appreciate Men With Fatherly Character - Most men always miss out in this and as such never advice their sons to be a father figure to their wives. Women are best at doing this but every woman want a man who sits her down to advice her, reason with her, give her constructive criticism and above all, believe in her.

* It Is Easier To Catch A Cheating Man Than Catch A Cheating Woman - Most men till date don't know that it is far easier to get caught cheating as a man than catching a woman who cheats. A Woman can make a man father every single child she present to him as his children but deep inside her she knows who the real father is. While a man can hardly keep it as a secret from his wife when he has a love child outside the matrimonial home.


To Be Continued......

@OP
I don't know where you got the idea that men don't educate their sons on women. It was during my generations time that we had to learn about women ourselves. My sons have been told the truth about women from an early age.
Oh and by the way, you still seem ignorant of the truth about women. You don't chase women, you make money and entice women at least in Nigeria, just by being "visible" in their circle of consciousness.

acidtalk:
* You can not chase money and women at the same time - even when so many fathers have made such mistake in their youthful days they still end up failing to tell their sons that one can not hunt for money and women at the same time. It is either one makes money and then start chasing women or the other way round.
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its weird telling ur son this sought of things

Mcheew! My father never told me a single thing about women. To even look woman sef in his presence is suicidal.

Johndoe100: @OP
I don't know where you got the idea that men don't educate their sons on women. It was during my generations time that we had to learn about women ourselves. My sons have been told the truth about women from an early age.
Oh and by the way, you still seem ignorant of the truth about women. You don't chase women, you make money and entice women at least in Nigeria, just by being "visible" in their circle of consciousness.

The truth remains that men don't feel safe telling their children such sensitive things about women. Believe it or not a man will only share some very obvious points like "work hard so your wife can respect you." Or "Real men don't touch women". The above are hidden secrets they practically learnt from their own experience.

Chasing in the real sense doesn't just point to a man doing all the moves.

speeder:
its weird telling ur son this sought of things

It depends on the bond between the father and his son. Once there's a very strong bond, there's absolutely nothing they can't discuss.

Freeopod: Mcheew! My father never told me a single thing about women. To even look woman sef in his presence is suicidal.

Its now left for you as a father to tell your sons as many things as possible you have learnt about them.

Let me get this straight, a father should teach his teenage son all these things or after his grown up (20 and above)? You'd be surprised that many fathers are even more ignorant than their sons when it comes to women affairs!

Okija_juju: #Fact: Women may be the physically weaker sex, but they are the stronger sex in every other thing.

#Fact: Hell has no warth like a woman scorned..

Sharrap! Wrath not warth

[quote author=Freeopod]Mcheew! My father never told me a single thing about women. To even look woman sef in his presence is suicidal. [/quote
Lwkmo! Dat means u didn't hve a cordial relationship wid ur father

Okija_juju: #Fact: Women may be the physically weaker sex, but they are the stronger sex in every other thing.

#Fact: Hell has no warth like a woman scorned..

Can't see any relativity btw the topic and ur comments.

Abujafood: Let me get this straight, a father should teach his teenage son all these things or after his grown up (20 and above)? You'd be surprised that many fathers are even more ignorant than their sons when it comes to women affairs!

Yes many fathers dont know enough about women to really teach their sons properly.



Plus some men have very warped opinions about women, and these are only what they can teach their sons.



I think the topic should be: "What Every Man Ought To Know About Women."

This is the best post iv ever read on dis forum. Same thing iv been trying to explain to some knukle head people in my life. Op nice one

... Speechless ...

The ONE Fact my dad never told me is that a WOMAN will marry 'A MAN' once without shoes who will one day become the PRESIDENT of Nigeria.

Abujafood:

Sharrap! Wrath not warth

correct am well na so dem train u 2 de correct person I tire 4 some piple here common correction dem go curse person as if dem 2 sabi

Ucheosefoh: correct am well na so dem train u 2 de correct person I tire 4 some piple here common correction dem go curse person as if dem 2 sabi

Okay since you're too serious to read between the lines, odabo! No vex!

Abujafood: Let me get this straight, a father should teach his teenage son all these things or after his grown up (20 and above)? You'd be surprised that many fathers are even more ignorant than their sons when it comes to women affairs!

Thank you my friend!

@acidtalk

We all have this very wrong idea that it only takes money to get women. Getting chics with money is lame.

Remember the way your temperature rises when you see a hot chic, don't you think there's also a natural polar equivalent in women?

No disrespect meant, but do you know that for an older woman like Ita Giwa, her reality will also be that it only takes money to get guys. As a men, there are SPECIFIC, UNFAILING attributes we all posses, but habitually fail to use, that will make most women get wet on the spot.

Our own equivalent of curvs, big tits and a$$ .

This is a good one.....typo or not...but then most fathers are not close to their sons, and even if they are, well they dont tell., such is life.. nice one.

A Woman is more bitter (worst) than death, the Bible warns.

. . ."and I find something more bitter than death: the woman whose heart is snares and nets, and whose hands are fetters. He who pleases God escapes her, but the sinner is taken by her".

"For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword.

Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. She gives no thought to the way of life; her paths are crooked, but she knows it not".

Infact op please post the source of this article so I can bookmark it

•̸Ϟ•̸y father told ♍ƺ that for things to be rosy in a family the man must be hardworking and always be able to provide for the family.
He gave ♍ƺ a real life instance when he first retired before stabilizing and told ♍ƺ he didn't take it serious and was just telling ♍ƺ so I can hussle hard and be a man.

acidtalk:

Its now left for you as a father to tell your sons as many things as possible you have learnt about them.

Ah! They will hear stories o! I know av tried wt ladies!

slyfoxxjoe: Infact op please post the source of this article so I can bookmark it

Na wa oh!
Can't a brother use his brain no more. Well, the source is my brian.
Take a look at the time I posted this, that's the time I was still up working and those thought just came through my mind and I scribbled them down and thought I should share.

99.9% of my post are from within.

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ifyeky:

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Naaah! I dnt, i flow well wt ma mum

Freeopod:

Ah! They will hear stories o! I know av tried wt ladies!

But never ever teach them or build in them how to belittle or hate women. Groom them to be very responsible and God fearing. A good man deserves a good woman and vice versa.

Okija_juju:


Thanks... #Typo

which wan b Typo again na

Abujafood:

Okay since you're too serious to read between the lines, odabo! No vex!

lol I make a case out of nothing I have had enconter with de I 2 sabi piple here so I tink u are among, no vex

Abujafood: Let me get this straight, a father should teach his teenage son all these things or after his grown up (20 and above)? You'd be surprised that many fathers are even more ignorant than their sons when it comes to women affairs!

It true even many fathers don't know these things. And some that do are too shy or timid to share them with their sons.