My aunty who is 60years old wants a divorce after 35years of marriage.She said she has endured all the years of her marriage and she wants to be happy before she dies.Her husband is a serial cheater and disrespects her.The man believes wants a man does his responsibility, a woman should not be bothered about his cheating.

The man never takes my aunty out, instead he takes his girlfriends.The man runs her down to his girlfriends and so they don't have any regards for her.
Her husband said he is cheating on her because she cheated on him 34years ago when they were dating.

My question now is that is it worth divorcing at her age and is her husband justified for cheating on her?

women? they can never change . having endured for 35 years...she stil pressing to go. mama stay make u look after ur children and grandchildren . wetin she want again at this age...

jenny78:
My question now is that is it worth divorcing at her age and is her husband justified for cheating on her?

If it's worth it to her, then it's worth it. At least she won't be looking for another husband to marry so she won't have to face vilification for remarrying from all the righteous people around her. Every one deserves peace of mind and happiness, even 60yr olds. As they get older, their physical needs increase, their health deteriorates, how do they handle that when they both hate each other. I've seen a case where one aggrieved partner tortured the other when they became invalid in their old age and the other one had to care for them. It was torture till death o. Payback time. Not a healthy environment for either.

Is her husband justified for cheating on her? No.

Dunno why women or men ever marry people they cheated on while dating? Na to run 440 o. Some people are so vindictive, they will marry you to make your life hell. Or keep deceiving you because they can't get past the hurt. The abuse now becomes very huge. Goodluck to her sha.

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What has age got 2 do with anything? If this is what she desires 4 her life, then let her go 4 it. Better happy and single than married and miserable.