HeIllo nairalanders,
I need your matured advice on this as I am completely devastated right now.
I was with my gf couple of days ago and I stumbled on her messages after I sought for her consent. I was marvelled when I read this message sent to her ex: "I may nt get to c u as often as I lyk.I may nt get to hold u in my arms all tru d nyt. Bt deep in my h@t I truly knw, u're d 1 dt I luv, n I cnt let u go."
when I challenge her she was not remorseful of her action, but claimed it not what I think.
She revealed the Genesis and revelation of there relationship when we met and she made mi believe that they're just friends when I once discovered that they still communicate and even get to see each other.
Besides,I read a message whom the guy sent to her referring her as my love,ife mi etc. when I asked why these names from the so called ex she said it was just a nickname he use to call her then.
Pls guys what do I do?...

I hate it wen girLz use guyz as puppets



Mah guy, break up wiv d gurL, shez pLaying u, shez using ur head.


Buh wait, wah did she store ur name as?

She gave u her consent to check her phone!I find dat part hard to believe.

dopeJemi: I hate it wen girLz use guyz as puppets



Mah guy, break up wiv d gurL, shez pLaying u, shez using ur head.


Buh wait, wah did she store ur name as?

She stored it with my real name

U see.



Shez pLaying u brov



Dump her b4 she breaks ur heart

luvmijeje: She gave u her consent to check her phone!I find dat part hard to believe.

Yes dear, she does but I stylishly sought for her consent because I purposely sent her message and I inform her straight away that I just sent her a message that an gonna read it just to infiltrate on her phone messages.
Because I have been smelling dead rat instinctively.

dopeJemi: U see.



Shez pLaying u brov



Dump her b4 she breaks ur heart

Thanks sir, let mi add I have proposed to her and she agreed thereby I knew almost her family members and they also know about our relationship.
Am just so confused

If she gave u her consent to check her phone then dat means she has nothing to hide.
If she is worth it,fight 4 her.Just let her know what she's going to miss if she choose d other guy.

Mehnn! GurLz n deir Ego


D thing z dat I don't want u 2 be-little urself begging her 2 stop seeing d guy n if u confront her, she mite get angry


Herez wah u'lL do

Sit her down n av a talk wiv her, let her knw its nat rite 2 store her ex's name wiv "my love" ask her if she'lL like it if u do d same, ask her if she realLy loves u n stilL wanna get married 2 u, u'll get d reaL ansa in her expression n d way she repLiez u

Op,I'm sorry,the fact that you are asking us this question shows that you are love struck.

Cases like this are straight forward,you dont need anypne to tell you by now that her appointment as your gf must have been terminated by now.

Only a fool will think you currently stand as her number one man,it's obvious you are just an option.


IMHO,I dont think this thread is necessary because I expected you to have sacked her by now,anyone telling you otherwise is only being plain stup.id and if you believe otherwise too,it shows that you are a dunce by default.

luvmijeje: If she gave u her consent to check her phone then dat means she has nothing to hide.
If she is worth it,fight 4 her.Just let her know what she's going to miss if she choose d other guy.

Thanks, I love her so much and she also love mi too but the issue I'm faced with is just appalling and I am so fckin confused.
We have not spoken since.

Poster
If she stands 4 what she wrote then u have nothing 2 do with this girl bcuz her heart belongs 2 another guy. U can go through hoops 4 this girl and it won't change a thing. So u might as well move on with ur life and find a girl of ur own bcuz this one isn't it.

Thanks guys for your wonderful contributions

I think you should leave that girl alone and move on with your life. That message clearly shows she never loved you as claimed but using you to tend her emotions.

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luvmijeje: She gave u her consent to check her phone!I find dat part hard to believe.

what if she doesn't? I will check your phone if u are my girlfriend and u can get your fucck out if u can't live by dt rule!
And yes, check mine too!
What d fucck is the matter with y'all? If she's clean, the guy'll probably find nothing on her phone!
Now, is your question of any relevancy?

After confrontation, meanwhile, the message was originally sent by me to her. she disclosed that she only forwarded the message to him to show that she is happy with her present relationship after the ex claimed that she can never see anyone that'll love her much as he does. However, they still communicate and he's still persistent to own her back but she allegedly said she has moved on.