debrief08: Lol Uju, You want to give some people High Blood Pressure you this "westernaised" wife, "soon someone else will serve your husband, maybe the maid self and snatch him, then you will come here and be crying, instead of you to take a teacher or civil service job that will give you time to prepare every meal, keep the house clean and sparkely, and be dressed in the s3xiest nightgown waiting for him when he gets home you are here saying you can't serve your husband. Don't you know that a womans life begins and ends in the kitchen cooking and serving? Don't you see all the desperate women doing night vigil for husband? Do you think having a husband is easy? Stay there and be doing oyibo, one day your husband will be served food and will mumuily enter a land of no return"
Hope I said it right. Uju, a word is enough for the wise, better resign and look for a job that will allow you serve your husband you are here doing oyibo, this is not America oh, Nigerian Men have no self control, and God forbid that he cooks or brings dinner home and serves you, you are looking for trouble, they will snatch your husband oh, na serve and follow, any woman you allow to serve him will carry him and go.
I don't blame you sha, You didn't get the "How to be a Nigerian Wife Manual"

ba7man: Maid walks into the living Room from kitchen wiv a tray of "Oga's" food....Looks left and right, the kids aint in sight...Knows madam is still in the kitchen. She starts to sway her hips as she approaches "Oga" sitted at the dinning table....she makes a brief eye-contact wiv him and shyly looks away....she bends xtra-low so he can have a good view of "Bobby Brown". Oga stares... swallows spit...,she turns and walks away shakin them hips. Next meal, the story continues.

ba7man: Maid walks into the living Room from kitchen wiv a tray of "Oga's" food....Looks left and right, the kids aint in sight...Knows madam is still in the kitchen. She starts to sway her hips as she approaches "Oga" sitted at the dinning table....she makes a brief eye-contact wiv him and shyly looks away....she bends xtra-low so he can have a good view of "Bobby Brown". Oga stares... swallows spit...,she turns and walks away shakin them hips. Next meal, the story continues.

Shinatu: I wonder why people think having your husband 'snatched' is the worst thing that can happen to the woman?

Joyeux: ^^^^^^^
Not true.

Efemena_xy:

Na wa o!

Kobo, if you don't mind my asking...why're you always so angry on the threads?

debrief08: Thank God for real men sha who don't mind cooking an actually serving others, and who have better things to occupy their minds thaan being served hand and foot while they read paper and watch ball.

debrief08: Thank God for real men sha who don't mind cooking an actually serving others, and who have better things to occupy their minds thaan being served hand and foot while they read paper and watch ball.

ekt_bear: What is the big deal as long as the man gets served?

Nigerian men get spoiled sha

Me, I have to cook my own meals or buy them myself.

Even if a girl(friend) cooks for me, I have to serve it myself.

Na wa for una

Efemena_xy: It's quite simple really.

The bit in bold got me wondering.



You're lashing out. Why?

torres2: please i have seen people talk about maid serving the husband on this...what your view on this? Right or wrong

Shinatu: I wonder why people think having your husband 'snatched' is the worst thing that can happen to the woman?

ifyalways: Biko, what do we mean by "serve" ? I be proper Igbotic girl and needs it broken down to avoid asiri .

Is it cooking? Or dishing out food? Abi doing eba and heating up soup? Or na to put food, drinking water, toothpick, serviettes et all on the dining table then walk sheepishly to say " Oga sir, your food is ready"

The husband that's waiting to be "served" (whatever that means) is he physically challenged

ifyalways: Biko, what do we mean by "serve" ? I be proper Igbotic girl and needs it broken down to avoid asiri .

Is it cooking? Or dishing out food? Abi doing eba and heating up soup? Or na to put food, drinking water, toothpick, serviettes et all on the dining table then walk sheepishly to say " Oga sir, your food is ready"

The husband that's waiting to be "served" (whatever that means) is he physically challenged

Xano: its wrong. If the wife is not at home,the husband should prepare food. In my opinion, he should know how to cook some kind of food,if not all. The husband should prepare food for his wife when he's home early. The husband and his wife should help each other.

Solozzo:

Correct theoretically but most Nigerian women have been brought up to cook and do the housework without question. They feel threatened by a husband who does those things for himself.

miredia: however what would rather be bizzare is having my wife cross her legs, without being indisposed, no house help at home and expect me to go grab my meal. I will shout o.