please i have seen people talk about maid serving the husband on this...what your view on this? Right or wrong

it is wrong, d maid may help in d preparation of d meal but its not good for d maid to serve d head of d house, its d wife's duty.

Maid? No. Personally, i think i'm responsible for my husband's meal. I'll cook for him and serve him. The maid can help take care of other chores, but the cooking FOR MY HUSBAND is my duty (non-negotiable). #winks#

But if i'm indisposed and my children are still very young, my husband will have to do the cooking or improvise.

Is the husband a busy dollar millionaire that he needs a maid to serve him? If he is, then I see nothing wrong with a maid/man servant serving a husband. I mean it is not like the maid serves him with her V-jay-jay in the husband's face, or is it?

What would the lady of house be doing while the maid is serving her husband?

^^^ watching movie magic

It is wrong

Na wa oh, Nigerian Men una dey enjoy sha.

Kobojunkie: Is the husband a busy dollar millionaire that he needs a maid to serve him? If he is, then I see nothing wrong with a maid/man servant serving a husband. I mean it is not like the maid serves him with her V-jay-jay in the husband's face, or is it?

Na wa o!

Kobo, if you don't mind my asking...why're you always so angry on the threads?

Efemena_xy:

Na wa o!

Kobo, if you don't mind my asking...why're you always so angry on the threads?

I will attempt answering your question right after you tell me how come you assume my asking simply straight up questions imply ANGER of some kind on my part. Are you sure you are not projecting some fear you have of questions on my person in some way?

It's quite simple really.

The bit in bold got me wondering.

Kobojunkie: Is the husband a busy dollar millionaire that he needs a maid to serve him? If he is, then I see nothing wrong with a maid/man servant serving a husband. I mean it is not like the maid serves him with her V-jay-jay in the husband's face, or is it?

You're lashing out. Why?

Efemena_xy: It's quite simple really.

The bit in bold got me wondering.

What in that leads you to believe there is ANGER in the question? the question at the end of that statement? The V-jay-jay reference? What exactly is it?

Don't play dumb with me.

You're intelligent enough to get my meaning. Why not just answer the question?

Why the coiled up, unleashed anger? Who'se cheesed you off this much?

Efemena_xy: Don't play dumb with me.

You're intelligent enough to get my meaning. Why not just answer the question?

Why the coiled up, unleashed anger? Who'se cheesed you off this much?

I am playing dumb? For pete's sake women, you accused me of being angry and I am asking you how to came to that conclusion when nothing in my post suggest anger of any kind.

I don't deny my intelligence, no I do not. What causes my confusion here is how you can, without ever meeting me, knowing my person or having access to my emotion-meter can conclude from mere words in my question there that I am angry. You are not even assuming this . . you CONCLUDED it is the case, from those mere words, and I want to know how you could do that, since all I did was type out my view and questions like I do everyday and flipped over to the next page.

Kobojunkie:

I will attempt answering your question right after you tell me how come you assume my asking simply straight up questions imply ANGER of some kind on my part. Are you sure you are not projecting some fear you have of questions on my person in some way?

Just saw that bit. No, sorry to disappoint you.

Kobojunkie:

I am playing dumb? For pete's sake women, you accused me of being angry and I am asking you how to came to that conclusion when nothing in my post suggest anger of any kind.

I don't deny my intelligence, no I do not. What causes my confusion here is how you can, without ever meeting me, knowing my person or having access to my emotion-meter can conclude from mere words in my question there that I am angry. You are not even assuming this . . you CONCLUDED it is the case, from those mere words, and I want to know how you could do that, since all I did was type out my view and questions like I do everyday and flipped over to the next page.

Point of correction.

I haven't accused you of anything (yet). I'm asking you why you're so angry?

And what's with the epistle you just typed up there? Why're you being so evasive? Or are YOU afraid to answer the question? Does my question force you to look into the inner you and confront what ever "demons" there are that are "tormenting" you?

Pls don't take the quoted words up there literally. You know, I really am fascinated. I think you could make for a good case study, psychologically...

so finally they now agree that one of the easiest way to a mans heart is through his tummy.

addictiv: so finally they now agree that one of the easiest way to a mans heart is through his tummy.

We've never disagreed. Not applicable to all men though

addictiv: so finally they now agree that one of the easiest way to a mans heart is through his tummy.

That certainly does not apply to all men. You are probably referring more to those pot-bellied trouts you call men when referring to the Nigerian ones. ROFLMAO!!

Kobojunkie:

That certainly does not apply to all men. You are probably referring more to those pot-bellied trouts you call men when referring to the Nigerian ones. ROFLMAO!!

Thank God for real men sha who don't mind cooking an actually serving others, and who have better things to occupy their minds thaan being served hand and foot while they read paper and watch ball.

Caracta: Maid? No. Personally, i think i'm responsible for acidosis's meal. I'll cook for him and serve him. The maid can help take care of other chores, but the cooking FOR MY HUSBAND, acidosis is my duty (non-negotiable). #winks#

If he doesnt want to be served by the maid, then he's free to get the food himself!

Besides, who still 'serves' food these days

Lol Uju, You want to give some people High Blood Pressure you this "westernaised" wife, "soon someone else will serve your husband, maybe the maid self and snatch him, then you will come here and be crying, instead of you to take a teacher or civil service job that will give you time to prepare every meal, keep the house clean and sparkely, and be dressed in the s3xiest nightgown waiting for him when he gets home you are here saying you can't serve your husband. Don't you know that a womans life begins and ends in the kitchen cooking and serving? Don't you see all the desperate women doing night vigil for husband? Do you think having a husband is easy? Stay there and be doing oyibo, one day your husband will be served food and will mumuily enter a land of no return"
Hope I said it right. Uju, a word is enough for the wise, better resign and look for a job that will allow you serve your husband you are here doing oyibo, this is not America oh, Nigerian Men have no self control, and God forbid that he cooks or brings dinner home and serves you, you are looking for trouble, they will snatch your husband oh, na serve and follow, any woman you allow to serve him will carry him and go.
I don't blame you sha, You didn't get the "How to be a Nigerian Wife Manual"

Acidosis What on earth ...? Why did you edit my comment? Lol

Caracta: Acidosis What on earth ...? Why did you edit my comment? Lol

why use the word "husband" when you already know my name ??

Acidosis, i'll report you. Just wait and see.

Caracta: Acidosis, i'll report you. Just wait and see.

Don't deny me jor.. lol

WRONG JO

Why will the made be serving the man when the wife is there? Dam it!!!

well as a man , i think its right especially if the maid's body particulars are complete(you know what i mean)

No big deal

Very Very Very Wrong, she might start serving your husband another thing apart from food...

In other news, Mr. Ibu has spoilt business for some Man Of God this December https://www.nairaland.com/1123279/stop-worshiping-pastors-john-okafor