Why are African men so unromantic and unaffectionate ? All they want their women to do is cook , clean , take care of kids and be a wife ,but they are so unromantic, unaffectionate and Cheap to their wives and girlfriends. Is it because of African culture , their parents do not sure the kids affection when they were growing up unlike the western culture.They don't take their women to nice resturant , if they do it is like pulling their teeth. They will complain about the money that they are spending.I don't date African men because they are stuck in the 1900s.

If u don't date them as u claim, then why are u ranting like a wounded dog? Continue with ur oyibo men whom u date IN YOUR DREAMS ONLY and shut the hell up! Mtchewwwwwww

i agree wt you sis they so laid back,but not all of them.

Op no be all of them.

if you don't like them, don't date them. simples


Stop whining and stop generalising


Since you claim not to date them, then what is the point of your thread? silly

Whats with all this romance sheet you guys are obsessing recently, this is a genuine case of a lady that will pick a romantic guy over a responsible one, just like that thread on front page, if i were to check her post there she'll choose responsible, while here is spewing garbage about romance..
We are africans, our tradition is different from oyibo, and we are not changing for nobody, not adopting alien tradition all in the name of civilization...
If e pain you, knack your head for wall.

How many African men have you dated? How many African men exists?

Stop being silly

Op.
There are romantic Nigerian men. Just that it can be like searching for a needle in a haystack.

It's not even about culture being responsible. How many people still incline totally towards culture?

The thing is; the average young man is thinking of how to make a living and survive and feels that all that romantic yada is just a waste of time.

But romantic naija guys do exist! And I've seen them...in my family and out of it.

Shut ya mouth there, everytym u compare. Dis is 9ja not america or europe!!

Wot nonsense

How many times can one man kiss my body??

Sooooo true! Na only to sleep wid woman dem know! As if she is one sex machine. Treat her like a Queen.

SpicyMimi: Sooooo true! Na only to sleep wid woman dem know! As if she is one sex machine. Treat her like a Queen.

Because Mustapha has been sleeping with u and treating u like a sex machine doesnt mean Adebayor will do the same.

Joliecoco: Why are African men so unromantic and unaffectionate ? All they want their women to do is cook , clean , take care of kids and be a wife ,but they are so unromantic, unaffectionate and Cheap to their wives and girlfriends. Is it because of African culture , their parents do not sure the kids affection when they were growing up unlike the western culture.They don't take their women to nice resturant , if they do it is like pulling their teeth. They will complain about the money that they are spending.I don't date African men because they are stuck in the 1900s.

So african parents dont show their kids affection abi?? You must be very very stupid..
What's your defination of affection??
Abeg carry your tokunbo body go date romantic oyinbo guy.. U hear..

I have met a few that are romantic and affectionate

Joliecoco: Why are African men so unromantic and unaffectionate ? All they want their women to do is cook , clean , take care of kids and be a wife ,but they are so unromantic, unaffectionate and Cheap to their wives and girlfriends. Is it because of African culture , their parents do not sure the kids affection when they were growing up unlike the western culture.They don't take their women to nice resturant , if they do it is like pulling their teeth. They will complain about the money that they are spending.I don't date African men because they are stuck in the 1900s.

Am a guy and i agree with u but it would be careless to soley blame d guys. Some girls are at fault, they chose a guy that is hard, unromantic and unaffectionate over a nice,sweet,caring and romantic, tagging him as cheap,boring and weak. As a result d these guys are left heart broken,regretful of their affectionate,romantic and sweet attitude and become d hard,emotionless and unromantic husbands u find today.

Joliecoco: Why are African men so unromantic and unaffectionate ? All they want their women to do is cook , clean , take care of kids and be a wife ,but they are so unromantic, unaffectionate and Cheap to their wives and girlfriends. Is it because of African culture , their parents do not sure the kids affection when they were growing up unlike the western culture.They don't take their women to nice resturant , if they do it is like pulling their teeth. They will complain about the money that they are spending.I don't date African men because they are stuck in the 1900s.

I don't agree with you.
African men can be very romantic and very affectionate. Ask me, ask my friends.
Some Western men will take you to a restaurant and expect you to split the bill 50 / 50. Is it romantic?
Apart from that, most Western women are responsible for the house chores and child care. You may not believe it but very few Western men stay at home when children are born. They are still an exotic species.

African men are not romantic and yet they get married everyday. Have you thought that perhaps the women love them like that?

@op but u ve nt tried me, while generalization.

If they don't why can't you teach them cos i think love is all about understanding and complimenting each other

Like I said dumb and ugly, we don't want you get used that.
What a dumb thread, no wonder the dude dumped you