k2039: It simply means they are just being stingy.

Besides, I know of wifes who buy gifts for their husband, infact I have seen more of men who just dont buy gifts for their wifes.

Also I have seen more girls buy gifts for a guy than the reverse.

tunad4rari: are u now telln me nw dat girls buy gift more dan men

dmcdad: It's really not bizarre and startling when some gurlz say such.. The fact is, there are gurlz who are ready to do anything for their man, ranging from buying gifts to minor things like buying recharge cards.

There are many(not all) gurlz though that are guilty of the aforementioned. These gurlz are driven by selfishness, greed, and incomplacency. They are only concerned about what you can give to them 95% of the time and not what they can give to you.

If a gurl claims she loves a guy, and she ain't ready to take care of some infinitesimally responsibilities like getting gifts, recharge cards or some few groceries every once in a while, then it means the gurl is being foolîsh thinking she's being wise.

There is an exception. If a gurl is not financially capable of measuring up with getting stuffs (whateva it may be), then I think that's understandable..

Buh seriously, a lot of gurlz need to change their mindset towards certain thingz, as they ain't helping themselves.

Abali1: A girl once told me that, she can never call me with air-time bought by another person (presumably a guy), and that was the beginning of the ending. In less than 2 months she became an EX.

Abali1: A girl once told me that, she can never call me with air-time bought by another person (presumably a guy), and that was the beginning of the ending. In less than 2 months she became an EX.

Mynd_44:
That's cold. But I guess some ladies are like that but you must realise that not all of them are

Abali1:

I was spending on the girl, taking her out and even topping up her air-time sometimes. When I asked why she can't even use 10seconds to call and maybe tell me to call her back, she then gave me that reply.
Such girl is the very type OP is talking about. Girls who believe that they owe their boyfriends anything (apart from sex), but the boyfriend is responsible for their little financial needs.

Abali1:

I was spending on the girl, taking her out and even topping up her air-time sometimes. When I asked why she can't even use 10seconds to call and maybe tell me to call her back, she then gave me that reply.
Such girl is the very type OP is talking about. Girls who believe that they owe their boyfriends anything (apart from sex), but the boyfriend is responsible for their little financial needs.

tunad4rari: dont misquote me,i am not sayin all d girls or my girlfriends dnt buy me gift.my girl can giv me everytin she has even if is her eyes. i am talkin abt d practical example of wot i discovered.i work wit a marketin firm wia we sell tins lik clipper iron e.t.c.i av met women on so many occasions persuadin dem to buy dose tins as a gift for their husband,but i hear d same reply that if their husbands need clipper they shud buy for themelves, even single ladies say d same tin..so i now deduce my oppinion that most women dont like buyin gift for men.

Lordave:

The gurl just de chop u mugu, she never loved you.
Thank God ur eye don open sha.

Abali1: A girl once told me that, she can never call me with air-time bought by another person (presumably a guy), and that was the beginning of the ending. In less than 2 months she became an EX.

Mynd_44: OP, if you can make an assertion like this, then I am sorry but you have been hanging around with the wrong girls. I have seen women give more than a lot to guys.

I have seen girls who pay their BFs school fees. I have seen expensive phone gifts and the likes. Perhaps in the circles you travel in, they ladies love being cheap

Abali1:

So taking a girl out sometimes & topping up her air-time equals to "chopping mugu" in your dictionary? Poverty they say is a Diseas.

Lordave:

spending money on a girl that doesn't reciprocate is utter stupidity... U may call it enough swaggs though.
We shouldn't be arguing it cuz the act potrays how dumb you are to realize that u are not loved.


Don't be decieved by the amount of money u have.

Flytefalls: @OP Really? I'd rather buy him the world than receive it. That's how both partners should enter a relationship. Perhaps these women are frontin'

this is why i wont trade you for nothing

Mynd_44: OP, if you can make an assertion like this, then I am sorry but you have been hanging around with the wrong girls. I have seen women give more than a lot to guys.

I have seen girls who pay their BFs school fees. I have seen expensive phone gifts and the likes. Perhaps in the circles you travel in, they ladies love being cheap

Sijo01:

Jah bless you!

seunfly:
No dout girls do even more than what you ve mentioned. Huuuum! We all know that only very few of our girls do such thing may be 2%-5% of them and it is usualy the mature/older girls or very comfortable girls. The rest are parasite my dear.