tintingz: abi nau. . .maybe she just got dis-v and checking out men thought on it

op if you know you have spread ya legs and dis-v. . .a guy will still marry you even me sef dont be worried ok...

ayurdavid: @ huni, u don spread ur thin legs loose ur virginity finish come dey look for sympathy abi. Yeye thing

D-Explorer:

Now that's my girl. Give me a hug

swtdarling: i wonder why women are more castigated for not being virgins than men.if a woman is called immoral for loosing her virginity,so should the man!

huni_naija:

Pride in being a virgin? When certain women are even stigmatized for being virgins! The world in which we live in doesn't value anything moral anymore including virgins, even the men who want to marry so called virgins would be the first dis-virgin her without any form of commitment whatsoever if given the chance.

d light: the fact that the society doesn't reckon with moral values does not translate to mean that moral decadence is the acceptable way of life. The fact that everyone indulges in an act does not make it the right thing to do. Nigeria as a country is so bedeviled be corrupt politicians this does not in any way justify that act we all still condemn it but almost all of them are rogues

huni_naija:

Believe what you want about me, shows the kind of person you are! No time jare i am who i am

huni_naija:

True, but those that have realised they've committed a wrong act and repent of such, should they then still be castigated and set aside is the question here?

lord kpakpando: Weder she is a Virgin or not let her just tell me the truth before marriage becos if not it will definitely lead me to divorce

KateSpade: if you aren't a virgin, you are a loose woman. its a fact. no man wants to marry a trollop.

a woman's virginity is her special gift. it holds together all her morals and dignity.

mondi_cheeks: getting married is best thing u can ever achieve Lmao the same men u are talking of have tasted all shapes and sizes and they will continue to do so especially when they are married to women who think that marriage is all there is to a girl becoming a woman ur moral and dignity do not lie between ur legs my dear

KateSpade:

I said I was being sarcastic

huni_naija:

Learned what?

achina boy: i think it`s a big mistake for any guy to think of getting married to a virgin, the advice i would give to any girl including my daughter,is to have fun,date as many men as you can,then get married when when you are ready

swtdarling: i wonder why women are more castigated for not being virgins than men.if a woman is called immoral for loosing her virginity,so should the man!

lola.luv:
While I practice abstinence myself, I'll state categorically that no one should judge a girl who isn't a virgin.

Y'all know the pressure you men put on girls from a young age!
I know how on campus, guys would tell girls 'you either allow me, or it's over', and these girls are at an age where they are emotionally immature and want to please their boyfriends.

Some of my earliest toasters as a mere child were grown arze men - pedos!

In junior secondary, I was about 10, 11, on my way to church a Unilorin lecturer (he showed me his ID) followed me and asked me to be his girlfriend.
You can imagine a 10 year old girl being the one telling an old man that what he's saying is bad, that the church teaches us not to have boyfriends?
Tell me who should know better between the man and the child?
Assuming at that young age, I was ignorant, what do you think would have happened?

Then the Ibo guy who was always waylaying me on my way to school at 12, calling me his wife (na so dem dey start). I reported that one to my huge uncle and he avoided me after receiving a stern warning.

Those are just a few examples. Girls are pressurised from a very young age by men who should know better. If you escape those men, your age-mates who are boys are waiting with their love letters.
Escape those ones, your uni relationships will demand it from you.
Escape that, nysc.

And some willingly give it up for love.

And not to forget, the battle against self. When your own body fights against your will to do what you feel is right. Because let's face it, women have hormones and intimate needs too.

It's a constant struggle, I tell you. You have to be tenacious to escape unscathed.

Please don't judge anybody, except you've walked in their shoes.
Women are human. Prone to choices, circumstances, mistakes, needs, pressure and the likes.

lindabon: Both men and women are s/exua/l creatures with temptations to overcome every now and then. Its human nature and Ideally, everyone loves intimacy. . . . . . .
In life, you "get what you give" and when you judge a person by the same "supposedly" bad qualities that you are guilty of, it easily puts you in a ridiculous, hypocritical and compromising situation.

Finally, whether you're a man or a woman, just live your life and do what makes you happy. If you need 1001men or 1001women to be happy (as long as its mutual and you're not hurting anyone one), its your life and your choice. Enjoy it! Have fun! . . . . At the same time, if you need 0men or 0women and this is what makes you happy, its your life and your choice. Enjoy it! Have fun!

lipsyliscious: dis is d most sensible point here! I know virgins who watch porn, masturbate n give deir bfs bjs just 2 keep d virginity! N @ d end u're givin me crap about her bin holy! Lukin @ it religiously,it is a mistake bt societally y'all insistin on virgins cn go 2 hell! As fas as she's not a slut,dere is notin wrong in bin a non-virgin!she has a past just lyk u, move on! If a guy leaves a girl perfect 4 him just because she's nt a virgin den he's a stupid a**hole!