According to my observation, most ladies would prefer a man finding them sexually attractive than appreciating their characters.
To prove my statement, why do ladies care much about dressing sexy in public than behaving nice in public? Another proof is that a lady would feel very hurt and devastated if she learns that guys find her sexually unattractive but would not care much if guys say she behaves bad.
Now the question I want to ask is, why do ladies get irritated when guys desire their body and try to date them for sex when ladies prefer guys finding them sexually attractive than liking their character?

And why is it an offence for guys to desire a lady's body and dislike her character, but not an offence if guy desire a lady's character and dislike her body? Are both of them not the same in reserve order?

Sure! The next post has d answer.

Because character is a much larger trait. I can call you a bad person right now and 15 minutes be praising your moral ethics. Character praising can change at anytime depending on how you choose to react to certain situations but physical attraction is a new kettle of fish

Becouse they want you to look and don't tourch,tourch but dont take,take but dont eat,eat but dont swallow!

According to my observation, most ladies would prefer a man finding them sexually attractive than appreciating their characters.

because everything is about s.ex and n.udity these days.

see all the celebrities in singlets, tattoos, and the females shouting about six pack and admiring shirtless men and their muscle.

i personally dislike seeing all those pictures [i need to see your dress sense], but that's what most females are used to.

i wonder if this is one of the reasons why the dressing at most nigerian celebrity events fail to impress. There's too much emphasis on constant n.udity and most people dont know what constitutes good dressing anymore.

op are speaking for ladies in general?
Speak for ur lady(ies) not all, u hear ?
It's not my fault dat u never meet a sexy lady with good character .

Another proof is that a lady would feel very hurt and devastated if she learns that guys find her sexually unattractive

that's silly.

he finds her s,exually attractive, she becomes a booty call, carries belle or does abortion, how has that improved her life.

but would not care much if guys say she behaves bad.

d.aft

Now the question I want to ask is, why do ladies get irritated when guys desire their body and try to date them for sex when ladies prefer guys finding them sexually attractive than liking their character?

wrong priorities.

And why is it an offence for guys to desire a lady's body and dislike her character,

that's insulting, if you ask me, but i don old sha.

but not an offence if guy desire a lady's character and dislike her body?

then that means its just a platonic relationship, nothing more involved.

and definitely nothing to loose sleep over.

its normal.

tpia@:
because everything is about s.ex and n.udity these days.

see all the celebrities in singlets, tattoos, and the females shouting about six pack and admiring shirtless men and their muscle.

i personally dislike seeing all those pictures [i need to see your dress sense], but that's what most females are used to.

i wonder if this is one of the reasons why the dressing at most nigerian celebrity events fail to impress. There's too much emphasis on constant n.udity and most people dont know what constitutes good dressing anymore.

Post of 2013.

OP didnt gbagaun but his English is so difficult to comprehend.. Maybe it's your use of punctuations or u simply don't know how to arrange your words.. Shit!!!

tpia@:


that's silly.

he finds her s,exually attractive, she becomes a booty call, carries belle or does abortion, how has that improved her life.





d.aft





wrong priorities.






that's insulting, if you ask me, but i don old sha.





then that means its just a platonic relationship, nothing more involved.

and definitely nothing to loose sleep over.

its normal.

You made a better attempt to answer the question in your first post but came back to mess up with with your second up post. Why?
What makes you think a platonic relationship is when a guy finds only a lady's character desirable?
Part of what makes a guy fall in love is sexual attraction. Why should it automatically mean a booty call thing?
These are wrong conclusions.

Ijogz K: OP didnt gbagaun but his English is so difficult to comprehend.. Maybe it's your use of punctuations or u simply don't know how to arrange your words.. Shit!!!

Who else is finding it difficult to comprehend?

Infact some ladies brag about their flaws... I've heard some girls saying some stuffs about themselves like: I'm 22years old, sexy, elegant, tall, stubborn, proud & beautiful, short-tempered etc..

Op, you're sooo on point..

Ignorance is the problem.
Proper education is the solution.

Depends on what you want , wouldn't mind a beautiful but ill behaved lady for a booty call or friend with benefit but not for a girlfriend or wife

Blackteeth:


What makes you think a platonic relationship is when a guy finds only a lady's character desirable?

arent you contradicting yourself.

Part of what makes a guy fall in love is sexual attraction. Why should it automatically mean a booty call thing?

love based on sexual attraction is lust.

booty call is some people's understanding of your write up.