MY PERSONAL ADVICE TO LADIES, ESPECIALLY THOSE IN THEIR TWENTIES...

* Guys love to marry an Independent and Matured lady... So instead of sitting there and waiting to be bluffed by a guy, focus on getting a career that would take you out of the house wife category...
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* Never let the sweet talks of guys deceive you, most times they just want to go between your legs and run off thereafter.
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*Remove the mentality from your mind that guys will keep springing up to approach you. The older you get by the day, the less toasters you will have.
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*Playing 'too' hard to get is the worst thing you should ever start, remember, Nothing lasts forever. If you still doubt, check out the number of matured single ladies 'looking up to GOD FOR A MIRACLE'.
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*Never extort things from a guy you don't love, guys always have ways of paying a girl back, either through their FRIENDS or total 'PAID' STRANGERS....BE CAREFUL. .
*Never be deceived you can trap a guy through sex. A man will also return to his wife who sex starve him for years once he loves and trust her. You can never win a man over with your body.
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*If all you take to the relationship is the mind set to EXTRACT MONEY from him, don't complain if all he ask from you is your body. He has seen you have nothing else to offer...
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* Don't be fooled when Guys tell you they have never met a prettier girl, they will say that same thing to an 80year old woman they want to get intimate with.
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*A guy always taking you to the SILVER BED, FAST FOOD (pizza in or galitos), MALL AND EVENTS AT CONFERENCE CENTRE /NATIONAL THEATRE is no sign that he loves you, if he doesn't care to ask and PLAN YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER then you are just his 'SOCIAL MATE' and nothing else....
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*If the only time he invites you over is when he needs to cook, clean the house and do his laundry, then just know you are his "executive house help".
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*If he avoids meeting your family and close friends then it is an obvious sign he is just playing games with you.
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*Don't always change the tv station from NTV to CHANNEL O , MTV and Fashion TV. Take time to find out what is bothering him and how you can help out.
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*If the only places he doesn't frown when you enter are his bedroom and kitchen then know you aren't welcome (only being used).
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Have you noticed that most of the ladies that end up being emotionally abused are the ones at the receiving end... Always with open arms, requesting for something and ready to receive... The more you widen your arms, the more he widens your legs..
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. A grown up guy who gives the excuse about his parents being wild when he brings female visitors to the house is a sign that HE HAS A SERIOUS GIRL AND HAS INTRODUCED HER TO HIS PARENTS ALREADY... ADVISE YOURSELF...
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FINALLY, I ALWAYS SAY THIS AND WILL REPEAT IT AGAIN... It's better to be sitting in a taxi smiling happily than to be in your husband�s fresh airconditoned BMW x6 with bruised eyes wearing a fresh Gucci shades alongside a Burberry scarf...
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. JUST REMEMBER, THAT DATING A RICH MAN DOESN'T GUARANTEE HAPINESS IN MARRIAGE...MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING......
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MAKING RIGHT CHOICES IN LIFE IS WHAT MATTERS MOST

Special thanks and appreciations to Imo Youth

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Wow! I love dis, ds is 9c

I'll tell my wife

Wow, good one there. Op is seriously on point, i can bet dis guy is speaking from experience..

KNOWLEDGE!

vxtr: Wow, good one there. Op is seriously on point, i can bet dis guy is speaking from experience..

Seriously when they are ready to listen to advice is when we are just about starting to enjoy the fun
www.nairaland.com/546263/why-girls-wake-up-27

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Nice one!



sexkillz, I see you're about to ban me

Truetalk i feel you die!
10 KNUCKLEz!

Nice one Op. It's absolutely true and on point.

Nice write up.

@ Op, Baba, you too good.

@op...this is classy

@OP u re notin but a useless empty headed goat, is that how u go about stealin people's post and then change the topic?.. Better find a job,, this the original post
https://www.nairaland.com/1105284/advice-facebook-nairaland-ladies-especially

spywareczar: @OP u re notin but a useless empty headed goat,

All these just because someone created a similar topic to yours.
You are a product of a failed Nigerian value and educational system.
Your 'original' post , I bet was not done by you. And you just copied and dumped them on Nairaland without any added intelligence.
Can't you see how this post even looked more original and orderly and easy to read than your copy and paste.

SMH at someone calling God's most wondrous creation a 'goat' .
Let God be truth and every man a liar

spywareczar: @OP u re notin but a useless empty headed goat, is that how u go about stealin people's post and then change the topic?.. Better find a job,, this the original post
https://www.nairaland.com/1105284/advice-facebook-nairaland-ladies-especially

sexkillz:

Is that what you want?

Did he say so?

My own advice to the ladies in 2013: It is more honorable for you to be covered in bruises, gnashing your teeth in your husband air conditioned Mercedes Benz ML 63 AMG, with your red eye balls covered with a GUCCI glasses, and your mouth missing 16 teeth out of 32 than to be happy and smilling in one useless taxi. Money is every thing oo. A word is enough for the wise.