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Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by SisiKill1: 12:36am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Recently saw a documentary called Virgin Daughters. Here's the Synposis Cutting Edge explores the purity movement in America, where one girl in every six pledges to remain a virgin, or to save her first kiss, until her wedding day.------- In the video, the girls have a wedding like ceremony where they make vows. . .to their fathers to remain pure and chaste until their wedding day. I am full proponent of young girls keeping themselves but to have a big ol' ceremony and make vows to their daddies? Don't know about that.... Here's a Brief video talking about it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KdM5sDXPu9w Here's the Full Documentary https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4fZyuLtH4X4 Thoughts? |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Seun(m): 12:42am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Creepy. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by SisiKill1: 12:46am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Beyond Creepy!!!! Haba!! 1 Like |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Nobody: 1:07am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Different strokes for different folks.... we are very aware of the ball.... it's a sacred ceremony and a covenant- like bond between Dads and their daughters..... it's another way to have her keep her promise on her virginity.... of course she can change her mind but that's her choice and she will be aware of the consequences . Speaking of balls...... there are many organized father daughter balls where they all gather annually, these girls meet boys ( celibate) and date themselves . Kinda like Jonas brothers ( perfect example). 1 Like |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Nobody: 1:15am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Americans now take desperate measures to keep their girls away from the evils of too much freedom which they also cherish. There's always two sides to a coin. I wonder if such sacred vows has successfully kept the girls away from tasting the forbidden fruit. ***will watch the video later*** 1 Like |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by GeneralJ(m): 1:34am On Jan 03, 2013 |
5th to comment first comment in 2013 on the wierdest topic i've seen in a long ass time 3 Likes |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by 1shortblackboy: 1:34am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Na only girls dem dey worry to remain virgins wat of d boys 7 Likes |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by boolet: 1:38am On Jan 03, 2013 |
For fear of the unrelenting rods. 1 Like |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by OME1(m): 1:44am On Jan 03, 2013 |
The balls and chastity vows are just illusions in the minds of their fathers to reduce their fear over the girls, it doesn't stop the girls from breaking their 'vows' out of curiosity and breaking their 'vows' doesn't stop them from pretending and attending more balls. |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by SisiKill1: 1:47am On Jan 03, 2013 |
jidegirl12: Different strokes for different folks.... we are very aware of the ball.... it's a sacred ceremony and a covenant- like bond between Dads and their daughters..... it's another way to have her keep her promise on her virginity.... of course she can change her mind but that's her choice and she will be aware of the consequences .That's what stumps me. . .why does the father. . .the parents (Can we assume when boys take the vows, they take it with their moms?) have to be involved? Couldn't the kids take these vows. . .with their God? After all the exercise is based on HIS principles. Why in the world should a dad take his daughter on a date? A daughter telling her father, when you are with me I feel complete. My life until I get married belongs to you and you alone. . .What the?!!!!!!!!!! What's even more telling is the mother saying she is not jealous her husband goes out on dates with their daughter. . .if it was an innocent thingy, why should jealousy or the lack there of come into play at all?!! I know different strokes for different folks but mehn there are just some very very creepy strokes out there for regular folks to comprehend. By the way, you said "We are very aware. . ." Do you mean, you know people who have participated? If you don't mind my asking. 5 Likes |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Princess1982(f): 1:55am On Jan 03, 2013 |
The whole vow thing is odd but there is nothing wrong with a father taking his daughter on a date. |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by majortele(m): 2:03am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Princess1982: The whole vow thing is odd but there is nothing wrong with a father taking his daughter on a date.you r right |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Nobody: 2:04am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Ahh sisi don't let me clarify the 'we' Abeg..... too much info . ( I've shared waaay to much already ) Back to the topic; It's been established as phenomenon that Daughters prefer their Dad as confidants than moms ...... moms are kinda like critics As per Dad's and not God?....... these are girls under 18.... they need a kind of trustee and Dad suit this position best, some use their uncles just so you dont know.... and why not mom? Do a survey yourself on NL and ask mom that wants to do this or who they prefer ? Duh...Very simple analysis. |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Nobody: 2:10am On Jan 03, 2013 |
For Fathers: I (Daughter’s Name)’s Father, choose before to God to war for my daughter’s purity. I acknowledge myself as the authority and protector of my daughter’s virginity, and pledge to be a man of integrity as I lead, guide, and pray over my daughter and her virginity – as the High Priest of my home. For Virgins: I (Name) pledge my purity to my father, my future/husband and my Creator. I recognize that virginity is my most precious gift to offer to my future husband. I will not engage in sexual activity of any kind before marriage but will keep my thought and my body pure as a very special present for the one I marry. For Secondary Virgins (those who have engaged in promiscuous behavior and wish to recommit themselves to lives of purity): I (Name) re–pledge my purity to my father, my future/husband and my Creator. I now recognize that virginity is my most precious gift to offer my future husband. I deeply regret and will never again engage in sexual activity of any kind before marriage but will keep my thought and my body pure as a very special present for the one I marry. 1 Like |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by SisiKill1: 2:14am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Some Pictures The Entrance Taking the vow [img]http://2.bp..com/-tg9tBZB0M3E/UAReDydsPGI/AAAAAAAAFh0/9C6T2FDAx90/s1600/ball3.jpg[/img] Taking of the vow includes lighting a candle under a cross The couple has their picture taken after the vow has been taken, First Dance Younger Girls Bring the Cross in [img]http://3.bp..com/-y7VW-FqU3Q0/UARcXkyyWmI/AAAAAAAAFhk/2ALxEhHmpc4/s1600/Purity+ball+photo.jpg[/img] [img]http://iambilly.files./2009/07/purity_ball.jpg[/img] The Ring [img]http://4.bp..com/-_1mPnvR81KU/UARbKHu1PmI/AAAAAAAAFhc/mwd4FfuRf7A/s1600/Purity-Rings.jpg[/img] |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by AjanleKoko: 2:17am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Totally wack. Coming from a father who has a daughter. |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by SisiKill1: 2:18am On Jan 03, 2013 |
jidegirl12: Ahh sisi don't let me clarify the 'we' Abeg..... too much info . ( I've shared waaay to much already ) Rotflmao! You are such a tease!!!! You can't just leave that hanging naaa! Spill a little. |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Nobody: 2:18am On Jan 03, 2013 |
It should be incorporated into african tradition |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Nobody: 2:19am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Lol sisi I honestly don't see anything wrong with it and can't see anything creepy in it my life, my way period....I'm out..... let other people share their opinions |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Nobody: 2:20am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Sisi_Kill: |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by SisiKill1: 2:22am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Another thing is the fact that it does kinda perpetuate this idea that this is all women have to offer. Again I am not against the whole remaining a virgin until you are married, I just don't get this. . .this whole BALL, VOW, PLEDGE thing. 1 Like |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Nobody: 2:23am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Guys should whet their rods for girls saved in this attempt of purity balls. . Happy Islamic Virgin-like Year! |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by SisiKill1: 2:24am On Jan 03, 2013 |
jidegirl12: Lol sisi I honestly don't see anything wrong with it and can't see anything creepy in it my life, my way period....I'm out..... let other people share their opinionsLol! You haven't escaped oh. . Amma catch you later. |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by sundayid(m): 2:32am On Jan 03, 2013 |
Jan8: It should be incorporated into african traditionTah!!!! That wud give some fathers excuse to sleep with their daughters. Without being incorporated yet, you can see and hear what is happening; Fathers raping, marrying and even impregnating their daughters 1 Like |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Nobody: 2:40am On Jan 03, 2013 |
sundayid:Not only that, parents who practice that usually end up committing i.n.c.e.s.t - I guess! |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by greatgod2012(f): 2:40am On Jan 03, 2013 |
How i wish they actually keep to d vows and not just trying to satisfy their dad, because of the affection between them..........we've heard of notorious virgins, desperate virgins, and even, wicked virgins. |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Nobody: 2:42am On Jan 03, 2013 |
greatgod2012: How i wish they actually keep to d vows and not just trying to satisfy their dad, because of the affection between them..........we've heard of notorious virgins, desperate virgins, and even, wicked virgins.While some are willing to trade theirs for money during desperate times in South America? |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by zangiff(m): 3:23am On Jan 03, 2013 |
..........waka |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Ewoma45(f): 4:09am On Jan 03, 2013 |
D movie "american virgin" |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Nobody: 4:13am On Jan 03, 2013 |
So-called "Purity balls" are an absolute waste of time. Not to mention that they are also bloody creepy. 1 Like |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by Medley(m): 4:25am On Jan 03, 2013 |
can anything good come outta america when it relates to ones private life and sexuality? Well lets hope in change. Since they are the most civilised and believe nobody shld be restricted in the way he/she wants to live. soon the lady may out grow his dad, even we human beings have failed on our once promised allegience to God. This one they are using some 'ritual like' method, it does not change anything the law for maintaining the state of virginity will keep condemning the lady until she fails. They just remembered the value in keeping. |
Re: Virgin Daughters & Purity Balls by azimibraun: 4:35am On Jan 03, 2013 |
UndUe pressure! Me wanna knw the concequence of a violation of the Code. 1 Like |
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