STRAIGHT ON POINT...Ladies, do u think it's OK for u to approach a guy u feel for? ...n Guys, how would u react if a lady approached u?

I actually don't see anything wrong with it...actually my own babe approached me and from there we started though i know many would voice out their opinion that it should be the other way round

Ajibel: I actually don't see anything wrong with it...actually my own babe approached me and from there we started though i know many would voice out their opinion that it should be the other way round

....my neighbor's friend actually likes me but she was scared of telling me, so she told her friend 2 let me knw which d friend refused....The friend only told me yestaday afta 2 months o, am now datin buh afta a rethink i was lyk "would i have accept her if she had told me on time"

That is arrant nonesense,i will never do it and will not even start it even if he is everything.HOWEVER if i like a guy i will never ask him out INSTEAD i'll study him from afar,get friendly with him, once i create the friendship,that will break the barrier,invite him for lunch,get familiar and all but if i see his iq is not compatible with mine or he wants to start making sexual advances (because guys are fond of taking advantage of a ladys familiarity) i wont hesitate to break the friendship,but if not,i will leave him to ask and if he doesnt,o well,ill just make do with the friendship and kill the urge for a relationship in me

If a man/woman cant go 4 wat he/she lyks..then,he/she wil av to settle 4 wat fate throws at him/her

olumaxi: If a man/woman cant go 4 wat he/she lyks..then,he/she wil av to settle 4 wat fate throws at him/her

GBAM!!!

Okworigeorge: ....my neighbor's friend actually likes me but she was scared of telling me, so she told her friend 2 let me knw which d friend refused....The friend only told me yestaday afta 2 months o, am now datin buh afta a rethink i was lyk "would i have accept her if she had told me on time"

lol, aw

Okworigeorge: ....my neighbor's friend actually likes me but she was scared of telling me, so she told her friend 2 let me knw which d friend refused....The friend only told me yestaday afta 2 months o, am now datin buh afta a rethink i was lyk "would i have accept her if she had told me on time"

telling my friend to tell him is the last thing I will do. I'll rather initiate the friendship myself than going thru a friend.

sexkillz: It is over appropriate sef. Thank God for these kind of girls. . .

Ashewo oniranu

No big deal in telling a man you love him now! Must men do everything all the time?

ijebabe:
Ashewo oniranu

I told him to take me to Paris (admittedly as a joke). He was there the next day . We went for a long drive (top down) and here we are today

sexkillz:

you're always so hilarious.you have a good sense of humour.a very entertaining somebody indeed

Very appropiate by me. But hmm,very,very hard to find such a generous lady. They are really scarce as most ladies are
1. too scared to approach or fear rejection.
2. too stuck in the ancient past belief that it has to begin from the guy.
3. scared she 'll be taken for a ride.
If she will approach me, i prefer a little friendship first so as to get to know her below the surface.
If i like her, then, no games, i will say Yes. And that would be a special girl to hold on to, don't u think?
If i dont like her, then i give a polite No. Her secret is safe with me,i don't run telling the world about it, i respect her privacy. She s' done something a lot of girls wrongfully believe would lower their esteem. That deserve gratitude and approval not ingratitude and betrayal.

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I think it's no biggie 2 approach a guy if u really really love him and can't afford 2 loose him dan 2 approach him because ur lonely or he's wealthy.

sexkillz: It is over appropriate sef. Thank God for these kind of girls. . .

....lol, dey r hard 2 find indeed

kulyie: [b]That is arrant nonesense,i will never do it and will not even start it even if he is everything.HOWEVER if i like a guy i will never ask him out INSTEAD i'll study him from afar,get friendly with him, once i create the friendship,that will break the barrier,invite him for lunch,get familiar and all [/b]but if i see his iq is not compatible with mine or he wants to start making sexual advances (because guys are fond of taking advantage of a ladys familiarity) i wont hesitate to break the friendship,but if not,i will leave him to ask and if he doesnt,o well,ill just make do with the friendship and kill the urge for a relationship in me

can you see how you're contradicting yourself what would make you as a woman approach a guy in the first place is if you like him.. if you don't, you'll never approach (same applies to guy) in other words, what you just wrote here means you would approach a guy you this stubborn lady

Its cool and appropiate but the lady has to be ready for rejection too. Remember that guys get rejected when they approach a woman so a woman can also get a rejected if she approaches a man.

Woman don't expect everyman you approach to accept u. Rejection isn't so bad. It just means, one option out of the way and still keep him as a friend if th friendship is that important. One thing I hv noticed though is that some guys can't deal with it and hence even caught off friendship.

Babes just have a tough skin, and do it. Its cool to know u have d power and can ask and receive rather than ait and hope he notices u.

sanb: This is the 21st century; and the earlier we ladies wake up and smell the coffee, the better!!! There's nothing wrong in a lady approaching a guy. It's not as if the lady would just ask the guy "can I date you". There are things that she'll say to him in a subtle way that'll give the green light; hence nothing inappropriate there....

It's sad that some ladies think that their self-respect will be lost cos she told the guy how she feels. It seems as if some ladies would rather suffer in silence than take this approach all in the name of it's the guy that should do this and not me!!!

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sanb: This is the 21st century; and the earlier we ladies wake up and smell the coffee, the better!!! There's nothing wrong in a lady approaching a guy. It's not as if the lady would just ask the guy "can I date you". There are things that she'll say to him in a subtle way that'll give the green light; hence nothing inappropriate there....

It's sad that some ladies think that their self-respect will be lost cos she told the guy how she feels. It seems as if some ladies would rather suffer in silence than take this approach all in the name of it's the guy that should do this and not me!!!

Solid points. Good to know this is coming from a lady.

Nothing wrong if a lady approach a guy..and introduce her self l see it as classic and matured..This remind me of a particular lady she fancy me but lack the courage to make move...started displaying a lots of green light but l just pretend l didn't notice..Reason l have one which l focus my mind to win 'licking tongue' allowing this easy one l persive it as a distraction to lose my target..That's life for u..hahaha!.

sexkillz: It is over appropriate sef. Thank God for these kind of girls. . .

Yeah, thank God for them. They always turn out to be the most helpful. They stand by you through thick and thin; they love you unreservedly!

I will feel very happy and cherish her for life. Ain't u bored of chasing the pretenders?

@Poster

That would be nice. I will appreciate her very much

tpacalipse: I will feel very happy and cherish her for life. Ain't u bored of chasing the pretenders?

....bored? nt yet o...i noticed dat only d average class ladies can do it

mudistr: @Poster

That would be nice. I will appreciate her very much

....even if u dnt love her?

That is the best thing dat can happen to me, becos i believe she has seen certain qualities in me to make dat move. Also all i have to do is reciprocate dat love to her. Most of such ladies are 85 percent faithful, cos they found what they r looking for. I will cherish such a lady. My candid opinion!

Okworigeorge: ....even if u dnt love her?

I will first appreciate her, then after that, we just might fall in love if we date. But I wont think that it is a bad thing