bukatyne: And the man didnot do those things while he was living alone abi?


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he comes home with pretty damsels who GLADLY do the chores & warm his bed. If you are too busy to take up responsibilities, they sure can't wait to take yur place.

I personally think this issue has been overfloged.
I can say that in nija majority of men are more of traditional type, only few men are modern guys. traditional does not mean he is not modern but rather he still hold cultural values to heart. the key to enjoying life is living a balanced life, not the extreme, extreme of cultural guy is male chauvanism where a man is absolute lord and blives that a woman shld be seen and not heard. many of our guys are chauvanists. on the other extreem 4 ladies are the modern day 21 century women who believe they are equal to man, therefore they cant do the cultural things women do like runing a home, cooking, kids welfare etc. but the truth is that this is africa, and we must follow our culture. I am 4 balance no extreem of male chavanism or the othr extreem of women libratn, rather a man that upholds his culture, is in charge in his home but at the same time knows hw to thoroughly lavish love on his wife, be there 4 her, help her in chores when his help is needed. and also a woman that with all her modernity, her msc or phd, her peruvian hair, loiusvutton, prada, etc but still retains that cultural sense to know her duty as a wife, mother, home maker and totally respects her man.

Okija_juju: So because you have a job and contribute to the household funds, you and your husband are now mates abi?!


Thats why you wont cook or clean the house abi?!

Thats why you cant run him a bath or do his laundry?!




What kind of life is this sef?!

men can be so inconsiderate o, you both leave the house early in the morning to come back late in the night and you expect the woman to still run you a bath?. doesn't she deserve someone running her a bath as well? Abi she no be human?.

debrief08: So you want a lady who you haven't married to come and cook, wash, clean have s3x with you and iron your clothes?
Let me ask you all the ones who have done that for you how many of them have you married?
So after doing househelp for you, you look for someone else and dump her with the slightest excuse.

Women, let me advice you, if you are not a wife, don't go and be acting like one.
If he comes to your house feed him, if you go to his house and he decides to live like a pig clear a space and sit.
Value your self, a man who loves you will respect you

Those of them shouting our mothers and grandmothers, did your mothers tell you that they were cooking and cleaning for your fathers and grandfathers and sleeping with them before they paid their bride price?

that's the point. I love this comment.