Okija_juju:
See yourself... Which kind night school you go..

50% of the house rent not 50% of her earnings.. I dont care if she does blood money, prostitutes herself or steals the extra.. Shey she wants me to share in her duties and we are equal.. 50% stake.. Then she should be ready for the responsibilities that comes with that kind of majority shares.


Some of you women think your lives are hard.. Come and see what men go through..

Vikin:
What do you go through? Tell me!
As for the earnings, you won't have a problem if she earns 500k and you earn 50 k.

Anyway, I have a perfect babe for you! She dey my mother village..when u are ready let me know. Her name na nwanneka!
See pics attached for your perusal and approval

BABE!:


That one na culture abi courtesy?



You're thinking too much. That's most people's problem these days. You're carrying the world s problems on your head.

Why not just find your perfect wife and forget about the other girls, and if you can't, join the modern craze. I you can't beat them, join them.

coogar:

slimyem: @Vikn..
^lmao..
Nwanneka is pwerrie..
Proper traditional woman!!
I'm sure she can cook Ofe-nsala properly and in Okija's style too!!

coogar:

if you cannot take care of the mother of your kids then you shouldn't be married in the first place. men are supposed to take charge of the home, pay the bills and generally bring the bacon home. you are physically stronger than your wife, put those muscles of yours into good use before you become overweight with the ridiculous protruding belly nigerian men carry these days. since many nigerian men hardly go to the gym. taking part in the house chores is a good way of burning some fats accumulated via drinking gulder and isi ewu peppersoup

slimyem: @Vikn..
^lmao..
Nwanneka is pwerrie..
Proper traditional woman!!
I'm sure she can cook Ofe-nsala properly and in Okija's style too!!

I go slap u o!!

Okija_juju:

slimyem: This is all jabber!
Mordern women are getting married everyday to equally mordern men.
Keep living in 1925!!

Mavor: I will avoid a selfish woman in my life. Amen.

slimyem: @Pato405,could you please describe what your traditional woman should look like and what you expect from her as a to-be wife and wife eventually?
I'm curious to know..

pato405:

YES! it is jabber!

and that is why their marriages are also JABBERS!

They soon head to the courts to annul it and denounce the luv claim. Divorce rates are sky-rocketing.

some even re-marry as much as 3 tyms without it working. think mate! ask yourself what could be wrong - it's way beyond irreconcilable differences.

Freiburger:
So you will prefere going back to the 1920s when Just to avoid your so-called JABBERS marriage.

coogar:

pato405:

It's not a thing of age. values are ageless mate!

Like I said, if I take part in house chores,
she must take part in bread winning..
Period.

Okija_juju: What this thread has succeeeded in doing is revealing why there are so many single over-aged women in Nigeria.. They want to be like Oyinbo women, but yet they want to marry Nigerian Men.. FA-FA-FA-FOWLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

Okija_juju:

pato405:

If the tenor of your argument here is anything to go by, I bet you don't strike me as one.

slimyem:
I don't think i have a problem with this argument.
If she's a working wife/career woman,you cannot expect anything traditional from her!
While she's managing to cook your food after a long day's work, you should be changing the baby's diaper and rocking him to sleep too!
...and all will be well!!

slimyem:
I don't think i have a problem with this argument.
If she's a working wife/career woman,you cannot expect anything traditional from her!
While she's managing to cook your food after a long day's work, you should be changing the baby's diaper and rocking him to sleep too!
...and all will be well!!

coogar:

this is your punishment for calling me a witch.......

WHO YOU FLOG!!!?!

ME!!!!!!



A MAN!!!!!!

pato405:

this sounds so nebulous.I want to believe that you didn't mean to type this. Perhaps you were just kidding. if you mean what you just typed, them I'm afraid to let you know that you've got a long way to go dear. So, because she works, no traditional duty should be performed by her?

Okija_juju:
WHO YOU FLOG!!!?!
ME!!!!!!
A MAN!!!!!!

Okija_juju:
So she dosent make any reasonable money, yet cant take care of my house?!!
What is the difference between her and an Ashawo?!

coogar:

look at your father christmas hat and wrapper....shaking my head!!

slimyem: Okay..
Maybe that was a bit over the top but your definitions of traditional still need to steer me here.I'm waiting for them.
...and No,i don't have a long way to go.i'm almost home!

BABE!:


Stop being irrational. If a woman is living alone, won't she do laundry? Won't she cook for herself? A married woman will do house chores so far she's not Kate Middleton. However, with the advancement of technology and time, things are made easier for the mums and wives. Washing machines. Dish washers. Robotic vacuum cleaners, baby sitters and so on.

Okija, you should understand that you're a man and your woman is a woman. You're not the same! Anatomy isn't the only difference either. You're paying her bride price (she's not paying yours) for a reason. You're the head of the family and the provider.

Your wife is getting the job done (even if it's with machines and aides) despite the fact that she's working 9-5! And guess what, she's still supposed to look good for you! Nice body, nice hair, nice skin just to make sure your dîck wakes up when you see her!

What's your point of existing as a man if all the you do at home is get fûckèd, watch soccer and still split the bills 50/ 50 with your woman (you earn more than her)?

I have nothing against 50/50, so far it's a reasonable deal! In some households, men don't even let their working wives pay nada. The woman's money is for her weaves, pedis and heels!