coogar:

he did well considering the circumstance.....
like your story revealed - he tried to settle with the sister, he told her not to enter the house but she insisted on making trouble. i think the sister deserved what she got. a man must protect his wife from any threat(foreign or local)!!!

coogar:

events don't just turn messy - several insults would have been fired before things become physical. if i go somewhere to settle fights and i am locked outside, i would go back home immediately. what kind of fight am i settling where i am not wanted?

how's the wife guilty? she avoided a possible disaster by locking the in-law outside and called her protector to come and sort the issue. husband arrived and the sister refused to leave. the wife is blameless and it's the woman who assaulted them first. yes - attempting to harm or threats is also an assault! it's not until you slap someone that you have assaulted them. if the sister sues the brother should counter-sue for affray, assault and attempted burglary!

J12:
Nigga please, this is her younger brothers house, not the house of a random stranger or even a friend. If his elder sister erred in anyway during the heat of that period, he shouldn't have resorted to beating her black and blue. So I ask again, what if she died due to complications from the manhandling he gave her? Will you kill your sister because she has a misunderstanding with your wife?



violence solves a lot if its not misguided......
do you think this sister would ever try such nonsense again? i didn't think so......some people act like goats and until you give them the goat treatment they wouldn't stop acting like goats. she must have landed the first blow on her brother or said something very insulting......


There's nothing violence can solve that dialogue and compromise can't solve. Violence adds salt to injuries, it opens more wounds and creates undesirable effects. Yes, she won't come to her brothers house again but it is that the kind of relationship he wishes to maintain with his family? Not only that, his relationship with his parents and his siblings would be severely damaged, his relationship with his children and his sisters children will also be strained and lastly, he'll lose the respect of his sisters husband just because of this singular act. He's now like an outcast.
This is the aftermath of violence


how's the wife guilty? she avoided a possible disaster by locking the in-law outside and called her protector to come and sort the issue. husband arrived and the sister refused to leave. the wife is blameless and it's the woman who assaulted them first. yes - attempting to harm or threats is also an assault! it's not until you slap someone that you have assaulted them. if the sister sues the brother should counter-sue for affray, assault and attempted burglary!
The root cause of the problem can be traced to his wife, she's trying to isolate him from his family, keeping malice with his family members and all. . . She's a malicious woman, it ain't hard to tell. Such women should be avoided at all cost..

HUH!!!!?

COOLDUN:
If he resorted to beating his senior sister, then what is difference from her sister beating his wife? Mr. Evil supporter, as a peace maker he would have continued with the pleadings till he gets his sister’s heart calmed. Beating his sister meant that he had already taken side with his wife. I love my wife but never in the level of losing my family because of her, because she herself has a family which she will not like to lose too. His wife is a member of his family no matter what is going wrong in the family; all hands should be on deck to settle the matter and move the family forward. The question is this, now he has turned back to his family because of his wife, will his wife do the same to her family because of him?

Marriage is 90% family affairs and 10% personal. Your family, your wife’s family are all directly involved in your marriage, for you to make things match, you have to share your love between your both families. The wicked wife always jam the heads of her husband’s family together, separate her husband from his family, before she will embark on her wicked mission, when she knows that her husband will not be rescued by any one.

I love my wife and my family because all are important to me. One can marry many wives, but you cannot have other family members. I have come a very long, good, bad and ugly ways with my family. No one will ever separate us.
My love to my wife is agape, while my love to my family is unconditional. He has no right to beat up his senior sister, who might be another man’s wife because of his wife.

J12:
Nigga please, this is her younger brothers house, not the house of a random stranger or even a friend. If his elder sister erred in anyway during the heat of that period, he shouldn't have resorted to beating her black and blue. So I ask again, what if she died due to complications from the manhandling he gave her? Will you kill your sister because she has a misunderstanding with your wife?

There's nothing violence can solve that dialogue and compromise can't solve. Violence adds salt to injuries, it opens more wounds and creates undesirable effects. Yes, she won't come to her brothers house again but it is that the kind of relationship he wishes to maintain with his family? Not only that, his relationship with his parents and his siblings would be severely damaged, his relationship with his children and his sisters children will also be strained and lastly, he'll lose the respect of his sisters husband just because of this singular act. He's now like an outcast.
This is the aftermath of violence

The root cause of the problem can be traced to his wife, she's trying to isolate him from his family, keeping malice with his family members and all. . . She's a malicious woman, it ain't hard to tell. Such women should be avoided at all cost

coogar:

this is sheer tunnel vision.
he did not beat the elder sister for his wife - he beat the elder sister cos she probably insulted him or she landed the first blow. what kind of narrow-mindedness is this one?



the wicked wife? how's she wicked?
did the wicked wife instruct her husband to beat his sister of the sister stepped out of line and got disciplined? according to the op, the elder sister assaulted her brother first and she got the beating of his life. the wife had nothing to do with the fight!




your love to your wife is agape? are you daft or you are being paid to be one? so you mean you don't have sëx with your wife cos agape = selfless love minus sex. why did you marry her then if the love to your wife is agape? biko, some nigerians are cretinous!

honeric01:
I think that family is screwed up, if a younger bro can beat an elder sister, then that family is SCREWED all over.

joymary7: the bible has notin to do wit this, as an elder sis to my bro i ensure he gets everytin he wants, our parents are nt rich but im married and i try to do a lot for him all tru his university education to his service yr to his day as a job seeker..... After all these sacrifise he beats me up becos of his wife? If i no kill am tht day i will curse his entire generation. Wife ko wife nii... I will never allow my husband beats any of his sis for my sake

honeric01:
Assumptions, your ELDER sister insulted you, you end up beating her up to the extent of seeing her bleed.

This is your elder sister here.
I think that family is screwed up, if a younger bro can beat an elder sister, then that family is SCREWED all over.

dayokanu: I didnt know I would see a day a man would beat a woman and it would be applauded as a good thing by other women

You beat a woman till she was bleeding then you better have a good lawyer

Okija_juju: ANYBODY WHO BELIEVES THAT THIS BEATING IS AN ISOLATED CASE IS DEADAZZ WRONG!!!

I believe that this issue must be long standing. This quarrel must be atleast some weeks old and re-occuring. I want to believe that this elder sister must have caused so much strain in this marriage that today was the breaking point!

Except it can be proven that the man is mad..