donchris369: Wow, beat my sister because of my wife even to the extent of dripping blood. Wow... When we were struggling together from childhood, going to primary school, secondary school and even university, pulling things through together where was my wife. When we were drinking garri together in our struggling days in a very harsh condition, where was my wife. When people were making carricature of my family, even taunting us where was my wife. Now am a made man, rich and get myself a wife, i should now turn against my family. Beat my elder sister for what? If i didnt make it in life, will my wife look my way at all, but, i guess my sister will still put effort to make me a made man. Op did you say my elder sister? my elder sister is probably a senior to my wife, so why should my wife say nasty things about her to disrespect her? Wow.... I love my wife but, i will never turn against my family because of her. GOD forbid bad thing. Oya, i know all the married women in the house will want to take on me now. But, ask yourselves if your junior brother you sufferred for beats you up because of his wife, no matter the reason how you will take it.

Okija_juju:


Point of correction:: I never said it was the only way, but its definitely an available option that is almost always certain to yeild positive results.

Okija_juju:



[b]lol

Yes I am proud of my mother.. She fought for her marriage. Not just her in-laws but her father and siblings as well. She showed strenght and character that many women lack. She fought for what she believed in. Her fight kept her marriage. She fought a good fight!

Erm.. I dont get the weakling part! so I will ignore..

I will not be stupid to say it was a good thing that happened, but its neither a bad thing. If that fight saved her marriage, then my god she should have used a weapon. Its her marital home. If she cant fight to save it, then she dosent deserve to be there.

My claim that they grew successful kids.. DUDE!! You take yourself too seriously. I am successful. Heck, I have money enough to get prefrencial treatment in 3 banks. My sisters are succesful engineers working on two separate continents. I could keep pointing out all our successes but hey!! This is the internet, what does it matter.

Point is this.. My mum had to fight not just her father, but her mother in-law in order to not only have peace but save her marriage over 30 years ago. She is still happily married to the same man today. She and that mother-in-law are very close today. She has had not just a successful marriage but also successful children both male and female. Today even her own father now respects her husband (whom he used to refer to as 'that poverty stricken rat).


_{My Child, fights are an integral part of life. You have to choose and pick your fights wisely. I will fight anybody.. I repeat, anybody to protect my wife.. My kids inclusive.. This is how my father raised me.. this is how I am made. FOR BETTER, FOR WORSE, TILL DEATH.. Thats not a vow to be taken lightly..}

Before you judge my parents who have lived and enjoyed a happy, fruitful marriage.. why not focus on yourself and pray that you can have a happy marriage.. [/b]

freecocoa: What makes you think the wife is a trouble maker?

wlex:

His family would love to have him and his wife separated if possible and this has been going on for a while, they believe she is not a good wife.

Recently, his wife and his elder sister had exchange of words somewhere, later the same day, the sister came to their house with intention to fight with the wife over the nasty things she said about her

wlex8:

Already in the post that the issue has been going on for a while "His family would love to have him and his wife separated if possible and this has been going on for a while, they believe she is not a good wife"


One of the issues they have with the wife is that she doesn't want any of husband's family to come to their house

ileobatojo:





She seems ever ready to be at war with her entire husband's family.

ileobatojo:





She seems ever ready to be at war with her entire husband's family.

wlex8:

I need you guys to comment on this, how right is it for one to beat up his elder sister for his wife?

This is a true life story

His family would love to have him and his wife separated if possible and this has been going on for a while, they believe she is not a good wife.

Recently, his wife and his elder sister had exchange of words somewhere, later the same day, the sister came to their house with intention to fight with the wife over the nasty things she said about her

The wife kept the house door locked so she could not gain entrance into the house to avoid further confrontation, she later alerted her husband on the phone that his sister has come to kill her

When the husband eventually came and met his sister outside, he tried to settle their quarrel all to no avail, he also insisted the sister must not enter the house

This resulted in a fight, he finally whipped and beat up his elder sister (another man's wife) to the extent that she was dripping with blood

Question: Can you beat up your elder sister for your wife, how can this issue be resolved as every member of his family are against him including his mother, should he go and beg them or not?

dammytosh:

Dude, I am not judging your parents and the fight did not save her marriage, God did.

What i am saying is that the act should not be celebrated because your mum might just be one of the very few lucky women that will do that unchecked in this part of the world.

I will defend my immediate household with the last blood in me but guess what ? I trust my wife with my last breath that she will wait for me to come and deal with my mum or my siblings in my own way not fight them or talk to them any how. (That is exactly what the woman in this original post did)

I am not surprised, because i don't allow her talk or treat her parents or siblings any how too and I will never be rude to them for any reason at all.

There is a boundary to which outsiders can make decisions that will directly impact my family. That is reserved for My Small Mummy and I.

On a lighter note, prefential treatment in 3 banks is no success, Banks try to treat all customers with respect irrespective of your account balance. As a corper, i had four accounts in four different mega banks totalling to #245.00 Two hundred and forty five naira only.

Your lighter note really got me rolling on the floor with laughter..

ehie: What a stoopid man
1.blood is thicker than water
2.sadist,fighthing till she was dripping with blood is sadistic and heartless
3.fighting a woman...what a joke
4.i would never marry a man who will forget his own blood because of kitten,i could die and he would replace me but can he replace his sister...i like people with principles..he is a joke
5.what are they teaching their children,its ok to beat your brother and sister,its ok to beat women ,its okay to fight..
6.he is a stoopid man

2buff:
Some people prefer to keep it real, be it like or dislike.

kaze4blues:



So u can also beat ur own elder sister?


Common, dat means if ur mum slap ur wife, u wil slap ur mum back....


Are we stil in naija sha....


Why can ppl b so daft

kitty kat: Do you then think that a sister of a man has the right to go to the man's house and beat up the wife?

coogar:

her own husband must be irresponsible to have allowed his wife to go to another married woman's house to cause trouble. if this was on a neutral ground, i can understand! what right has a woman to go threaten another married woman in her home?



there's no sentiment here.
i would not tolerate such nonsense as well - if my sister respects me, she won't come after my wife to threaten her. in a nutshell, if you threaten my wife, you have also threatened me and i would do anything within my powers to put you down. she's lucky she wasn't fed to the dogs. respect begets respect - no individual has any right to go into another person's house to threaten them.

Okija_juju:


Are you your brothers wife?!

If you think because of all these sacrifices you made for your brother, it gives you the right to butt in on his marriage, then I see a good beating awaiting you in the future.. A marriage is sacred. A Union between a man and his wife.. You my dear are third party, it dosent matter wether you even gave your brother a kidney in the past!!

SIMPLE!


Na sisers like una dey struggle una dead brother property with ehn wife.. Better stay in your husbands house and mind your business o!!

joymary7:
lol, forget all those tins ooooo, i only spoke my mind and my younger brother wld nt even try such because him and dat his wife go run leave planet earth for me. I trust my husband sha....eid my brother trys it ehn!!!

2buff:

bro, learn to be intelligent and to see holes in a story where things don't connect.
Do not assume that people are wild beasts to be demonized based on the result of sketchy, incomplete stories.
A lot of elements of the story are missing, especially the events detailing the emotional state transition between "Please sis calm down" and "take this roundhouse kick b**ch!".

Aside from that, I have been extremely plain that I do not understand what someone is doing going to another person's house to start a fight with his wife AND I have made it doubly plain that I support a man defending his wife and immediate family from in-laws and whoever attempts to attack them in my house deserve what's coming to them. I believe in the protocol of reporting to me what it is you feel a member of my family has done, and not trying to barge into my home to cause them harm.

If my stance seems unclear or unstable to you, I assure you it is not as a result of a lack of clarity/focus of my posts, but as a result of your own perspective/understanding, which Isn't something I control.

joymary7:
lol, forget all those tins ooooo, i only spoke my mind and my younger brother wld nt even try such because him and dat his wife go run leave planet earth for me. I trust my husband sha....eid my brother trys it ehn!!!

donchris369: For all the men claiming to be very lovely and caring to their wives than i am are all big hypocrites. You can kill your siblings and your parents for your wife, that is all your businesses. As for me, i still stand by my word, never and i say again never will i beat my elder sister because of my wife. What makes me a man is to be able to manage love, marriage and reason to the betterment of myself and wife. What if something happens to me(God forbid), then the wife will now go back to her own family abi? I laugh for all you men who beat up ur parents and siblings because of your wife. Yes, you have to love and protect your wife, but, be a man, never you resort to violence because, it is still that your wife that will suffer the aftermaths.

Okija_juju:

[b]Your lighter note really got me rolling on the floor with laughter.. Like I said, this is the internet, whatever I say here dosent count for shiit!! So lets just enjoy the thread ..

Now!! On a serious note, you say God saved her marriage, I say she fought to keep it. Whatsoever is worth keeping is worth fighting for.

I again repeat that it is not a good thing as an act in itself, but it was a good fight without a doubt.. Many marriages have ended on far less confrontations than that my mum had to suffer through.

I love the fact that you will defend your household, but what I am not so sure of is how far you will go. If you have a problem with the Man in the story beating his sister up, then that means you have a limit as to what you will be willing to do to save your marriage.

I grew up in a house where my father had to counsel many couples.. My brother, you will be surprised how far outside interferance can reach. Many marriages have been ruined for very very flimsy reasons..

My take is this.. Anything/anybody outside you and your wife constitutes a third party.. Your sister and mother inclusive.. And if it takes a beatdown to keep them out, then a beatdown it is.. [/b]

coogar:

it always baffles me how hypersensitive imbëciles tend to live long....shouldn't you have kicked the bucket last year instead of enebeli elebuwa? if you want to preach morals, take pilgrimage to the chapel of nazareth - you homoerotic pleb!




you are a consummate rëtard with poop for brains....
the single most important question is - what was the sister doing in their house? why did she come to threaten someone else's wife? what right has she got to be there? even after the husband showed up, he refused to leave when asked to and the original poster said she slapped her brother first - what does she expect in an animal kingdom country like nigeria? she deserves every platelet of blood she lost in the ordeal. next time, she would act accordingly!

stagger:

Maybe you should get married and have your husband's sister trying to teach him how to treat you and interfering in your marriage at the slightest provocation.

wlex8:

I need you guys to comment on this, how right is it for one to beat up his elder sister for his wife?

This is a true life story

His family would love to have him and his wife separated if possible and this has been going on for a while, they believe she is not a good wife.

Recently, his wife and his elder sister had exchange of words somewhere, later the same day, the sister came to their house with intention to fight with the wife over the nasty things she said about her

The wife kept the house door locked so she could not gain entrance into the house to avoid further confrontation, she later alerted her husband on the phone that his sister has come to kill her

When the husband eventually came and met his sister outside, he tried to settle their quarrel all to no avail, he also insisted the sister must not enter the house

This resulted in a fight, he finally whipped and beat up his elder sister (another man's wife) to the extent that she was dripping with blood

Question: Can you beat up your elder sister for your wife, how can this issue be resolved as every member of his family are against him including his mother, should he go and beg them or not?

Truckpusher: I wouldn't be surprised if you hug him because I'm dead sure that folks like you would always interfere in your brother's marriage ....my question is can't peeps just let couples be on their own ?..and if they want to sink let them sink after all both of them will live with their mistakes.