most ladies wouldn't go out with their mates, some said its not right, some said its not wise, some said its not safe.. wat do u think?

na shakara dey cause am. just wait make dem click 30yrs plus, na dem go dey tell you say age is just a number. SMH

Ladies go out with their mates wella.......it's a matter of choice

Check it out in higher institutions.. They don't. You will see 100level tripping for a 500level or corper..

stick to pre degree girls or jambites for now

Be matured,affluent(money-laden), good looking and eloquent(sweet-tongued)...as long as u are above 18yrs with these qualities,you can date any lady no matter her age.

If u like have everything if a lady doesn't want you. All is vain..

binger: Be matured,affluent(money-laden), good looking and eloquent(sweet-tongued)...as long as u are above 18yrs with these qualities,you can date any lady no matter her age.

If u like have everything if a lady doesn't want you. All is vain..

Girls mature faster than guys, so they prefer to roll with those older than them and when they are 30+, age becomes just a number to them.

I think you're making good point.. Yeah..

djeezy: Girls mature faster than guys, so they prefer to roll with those older than them and when they are 30+, age becomes just a number to them.

I think you're making good point.. Yeah..

ikechukz: stick to pre degree girls or jambites for now

hahahaha.. Classic!
Seems the OP's crush prefers to roll with older guys. Don't blame her, dats why boiz are programmed to go after younger ladies too. I guess it's in human nature.

Honestly, I see guys my age as kids and most times they prove me right.

smiling: If u like have everything if a lady doesn't want you. All is vain..If u like have everything if a lady doesn't want you. All is vain..

You're a greenhorn in the game,kid. I don't expect u to understand.

vivian chinaza: Honestly, I see guys my age as kids and most times they prove me right.

how exactly do you mean? Kids ke?

binger: You're a greenhorn in the game,kid. I don't expect u to understand.

so you believe its a game? Na una ladies de play lik soccer

smiling: so you believe its a game? Na una ladies de play lik soccer

Life itself is a game. I break the rules & i don't care,as long as it gets me a win.

binger: Life itself is a game. I break the rules & i don't care,as long as it gets me a win.

its a pity you don't know how those who call themselves winner as u proclaimed, put their hands inside their eyes looking for water.. Guy, be wise

smiling: how exactly do you mean? Kids ke?

Yea, what I meant is our levels of experience are not usually the same. I lead a kinda accelerated lifestyle. While most guys my age's lives are still dedicated to fun, mine is dedicated to actual responsibilities.

I think im a lady and I dont want to go out with my mate

because . . . .. . .. fill in the gap!

Gudintent: I think im a lady and I dont want to go out with my mate

because . . . .. . .. fill in the gap!

bcause u dont wanna look lik his mum

It depends on the individual. The age gap btw my gf nd i is just 7 days nd we have been together 4 almost 2yrs. She has been a blessing to me cos i never believed a good woman like her ever existed in naija judging frm past experiences. She s everything i want in a woman. She has been a friend, a mother, a sister, a lover, and a partner in crime....i just love her so much and by his grace would love her to meet my folks this yr. Just a little bit worried that they may nt like her cos of the age nd tribe she comes from. My folks re very traditional nd it really sucks

Dating ur age mate can really be fun if u knw where to draw the lines. As long as you respect them and tolerate em when they misbehave...

binger: Be matured,affluent(money-laden), good looking and eloquent(sweet-tongued)...as long as u are above 18yrs with these qualities,you can date any lady no matter her age.

Not really.

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Not really.

no mind am, na by that?

addictiv: Dating ur age mate can really be fun if u knw where to draw the lines. As long as you respect them and tolerate em when they misbehave...

age doesnt matter... some women are older than thier men... yet respects themselves.......

Ladies nowadays, don't go for age, love, peace of mind, wat matter to them is money.. Haa. Why na?

See kweshion
Why is it that guys don't want to go out with their mates and prefer younger girls? Start from there.

Rotmyt: See kweshion
Why is it that guys don't want to go out with their mates and prefer younger girls? Start from there.

hmmm.. You are making sense sha.. But all the same.. Man differ from woman

Remember that at the end of the day,men assume the lead role here. Most men wouldn't normally go for their age mates all in the name of seeking "fresher blood" while most women wouldn't mind dating their age mates but these men are not even around to ask them out! So, they go for older and more mature men who are of course on the lookout for younger women. It's an endless cycle. You can only blame the men.

Rotmyt: Remember that at the end of the day,men assume the lead role here. Most men wouldn't normally go for their age mates all in the name of seeking "fresher blood" while most women wouldn't mind dating their age mates but these men are not even around to ask them out! So, they go for older and more mature men who are of course on the lookout for younger women. It's an endless cycle. You can only blame the men.

Endless cycle? No i disagree.. Even from the Bible.. Woman started it all.. Adam accepted wat God created for him.. But if na Eve God create first, she would say that God should recreate another one.. Isn't it?

They just aren't on the same page as we are. If a girl decides to settle down now, there's no way a guy her will be ready when she is. Older men are always a better choice....people who move at the same pace as we do(for those planning ahead not playing hanky panky).

I guess it is cos they want someone who is matured and has more life experience than them. Alot of Women expect men to take the lead in a relationship and older guys seem to do that better.
But it should be known that not all women feel this way

Women.. And thier matter..