biolabee: what is her hope for the relationship and why does she not want to sleep wit him

PS we have been waiting for you on the guy who stayed away from his kids

baby_123: OP

You again!? Go back to the wahala thread you opened some questions are waiting for you there. Not even going to get sucked into this one

baby_123: OP

You again!? Go back to the wahala thread you opened some questions are waiting for you there. Not even going to get sucked into this one

debrief08: Kuylie, calm down na, the venom too much.

The only problem I have with your friend is wanting to receive money from a man she isn't married to. She should live within her means and stop looking on any man to meet her needs.
Apart from that I have no problem on her needing to stay off s3x.
However its hard to expect a man to fund your lifestyle when you are not giving him anything back, that's why we encourage hard work and self sufficency, so when you say NO, You can say it with confidence.
Its hard to take a stand and go cap in hand begging for money.
Imagine the content of the mail where he lists her various demands, if she NEEDS those things she can work extra hours and get them. Or else she will have to sell her body to get them.

[b]“Look baby, you can’t date a 37yrs old man who has been se.xually active for the past 12 years and tell him you want to date him without se.x. What am I supposed to do when I want to have it- look for a LovePeddler? Yet you want me to be faithful to you? You don’t want se.x but you want me to buy you gifts, hair weaves, give you money, take you to restaurants and concerts like other girls. [size=20pt]What do I get - texts : ‘luv u’. ‘miss u’, ‘gotcha’, ‘lol’, ‘lmao’,[/size] etc when I am not sure you do?

[size=25pt]For your info, ladies who want to wait till they marry don’t date.[/size] They marry by ‘God’s will’ through prayers, prophesies, and miracles. If you can’t take care of me, I can’t do same for you either. [size=29pt]You told me you are not a virgin. [/size] I am tired of girls like you who take advantage of good men who respect women, but when you meet a ‘bad boy’ who beats you, slaps you, treat you like an object, you cry for him, beg him, kneel down to lick his thing, and do anything he says, and say “he beats me because he is jealous because he loves me..it’s my fault” . You’re a typical ‘smart’ naija girl! America hasn’t changed you. Please the rule is ‘if you don’t give, don’t ask’. Anyway I don’t blame you” (end)[/b]

Gambrosia: LET HIM GO!

I don't believe in 'unequal yolking'!

The reason I think these 'so-called CHRISTIANS' are hypocrites!@
Imagine a so-called born-again who does not wanno phock hooking up with a nother so-called born-again who wants to PHOCK!

What a curse!

chaircover: You cant have your cake and eat it.

You either take money from a man and be at his mercy and beck and call or you live within your means no matter how little and you raise your head up high.

I dont know where all this a man must buy me weave and phonecard came from. God help me if I came home with something that my parents hadnt bought for me. I was doing biz and making my own money in higher institution. Women should stop selling themselves for bits of horse hair. We are worth a lot more than that.

ITbomb: In the suggestions. I didn't see anyone saying they should get married.

Woged2005:

Like any relationship. Nothing is certain in these days. People are getting jilted even at the alter. Mariage promise is no by mouth in African tradition..