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Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by worldstevo: 2:54am On Jan 24, 2013 |
For over 2 years i have been married with no child.Even though i don't trouble my wife over this (tests done prove that her and not me have minor fertility issue) yet for over a year her attitude towards sex has been nothing to write home about.What i mean is that i practically have to beg her for sex.This terrible situation has caused several fights between us despite the fact that i have calmly had a chat with her on this matter on several occasions; trying to make her understand the temptations she is exposing me to of which she promised to change.Yet, she has repeatedly done otherwise; inspite of her initial promise/agreement not to deny me sex before we got married and uses any slightest disagreement,issue or excuse to frustrate my touch. Apart from my job which i lost of recent,i hardly have any problem that a right thinking woman would complain of.I don't smoke,drink nor womanize and i help her in virtually everything domestic all in the name of love. Now,my love for her is dwindling ; my patience over her childless state expiring and i am at the brink of searching for a mistress or more accommodating lady KINDLY ADVICE ME COZ AM GOING NUTS HERE! I totally love sex. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Acidosis(m): 3:25am On Jan 24, 2013 |
Draft a fake sms on your phone about how you enjoyed s. ex with another woman... "hi sweety, when do I see you again? I still want a feel of yesterday's *** *winks*" All you need is another new sim... Keep exchanging provocative sms with the line and make sure the sim is safe.. 1 Like |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by seedord247(m): 3:43am On Jan 24, 2013 |
Acidosis: Draft a fake sms on your phone about how you enjoyed s. ex with another woman... Do you read the part the man said he lost his job.. Do you want the woman to send him out nakedly 1 Like |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Acidosis(m): 3:52am On Jan 24, 2013 |
seedord247: I read that part... but Op needs that thing badly... Every action deserve an explanation. Op would have to explain to his wife, the reasons behind the sms.. btw, loosing a job is nothing to cry over... I'm sure he's working towards getting a better one.. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by seedord247(m): 4:05am On Jan 24, 2013 |
Acidosis: I dont think am gonna buy that idea.... Getting a job is not that easy it may take months for him get one unless he has a fast alternative, mind you, some women can send you to your early grave if you lost your job. I'd rather advice the OP to leave the woman for now and look for this cheap local strumpet and excrete those akpwu out. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 4:40am On Jan 24, 2013 |
seedord247: Not a good ideal. Acidosis just give the perfect solution. Trust me I am a woman that will work perfectly. As soon she gets to know somebody else is doing what shes not doing, she will step up her game asap!! @poster, if you have a female friend even perfect have her play this game with you. 1 Like |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by seedord247(m): 4:57am On Jan 24, 2013 |
rokiatu: Play which games??..Too much of vivica fox movies is disturbing you. Cant you read in btw the lines that the said woman is tired of the hopeless marriage. Bcus .... 1. He cant make her a mother. 2. He's jobless. Those are the 2 things that count you as a man in your marriage and since the OP cant meet the requirement of those 2 things, the woman is ready to be the chief controler of the marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by greatgod2012(f): 6:27am On Jan 24, 2013 |
@op, i really sympathise with you, its not an easy thing for a man to be denied of intimacy.......for almost a year........chai.....it can drive married guys mad....i tell you. However, i want to ask you some questions............. Has d fertility problem you said you have is from your own side or your wife's side.? If its from your own side, have you treated it, is it preventing you from getting your wife pregnant? If it your wife's side, has she been treated, can it prevent her from getting pregnant for you! If any of d questions above is affirmatively answered, then your wife is depressed and frustrated, as well as tired of childless marriage. On another angle, about d job you lost recently, what are you doing presently?......are you always at home from morning till evening? If so, look for something to do, no matter how petty it is, so that you wont be seen as a liability by your wife, just have something to engage yourself while also looking for jobs.....hopefully, you will get another job very soon. Finally, talk with your wife, she is your wife, not a stranger, tell her how she is hurting you both mentally and physically, invite God into your marriage, i didnt say call pastors o, i said, God..... He will restore your marriage with every joy you both deserve.....pray together, family that prays together stays together. May God help us all. 3 Likes |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 6:52am On Jan 24, 2013 |
All of you unmarried people here are yarning balls. Only a married person can advice thia fella. And here is the advice: OP, the best way to get her attention is to treat her ecactly the way she treats you. Ignore her and don't beg her for sex or anything. Act nonchallantly. You will see results after a week or 2. Please remember to say thank you. 7 Likes |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by seedord247(m): 6:59am On Jan 24, 2013 |
pDude: All of you unmarried people here are yarning balls. And you married if i'm rightt. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 7:02am On Jan 24, 2013 |
seedord247: Didn't you know With pikin sef You think say I be ya mate |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by seedord247(m): 7:09am On Jan 24, 2013 |
pDude: No vex sir.. Hope you don collect your papers finish. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 7:10am On Jan 24, 2013 |
seedord247: What papers |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by vallycan: 7:13am On Jan 24, 2013 |
First all ya married undeniable sex mode was actvated,yes. Secondly She's d one havin infertility issues abi? Thirdly, ya jobless, pity! Solution: let her undastand dat d is notin bad like denyin ya husband his rite, dont starve him wit s*x least he founds pleasure in anodas eye: 2: do u knw dat d cud b a possibilty of u bein pregnant out of dis numerous s*x encounter miraculously,wen will u start makin babies?; cos it will b shameful to ya generation dat @ d age of 65yrs ya first child is on 5yrs ya name wil automatically change from daddy to papa or grandpa; 3: so pitiful ya jst jobless, u betta act fast as a man or ya honour will b deduce to useless,strive hard also to put smiles on her face by puttyn good for on d table may dis mit impress to start milkin children for u: cos d are some children who doesn't want to come or set dier foot on poverty ground,family or world as dis mite want to hinders ya child bearin: rememba marriage is for betta n for worse as children wre ment to b a blessin of marriage, as it's says "Go b fruitful n multiply" so of who will bear ya name wen ya Gone, take a decision as u act fast abt it: dis are ma advice tak it: |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by seedord247(m): 7:13am On Jan 24, 2013 |
pDude: USCIS will be of help... And hope you are not plannin on leaving her after permanent |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 7:17am On Jan 24, 2013 |
seedord247: See you mouth. My wife na naija born and bred. Hardcore Igbo girl wey get sharp mouth and naija sense. We grew up together and schooled together in our early years. Her bro is my good friend. So bruv, nor be visa runz o. This is for life |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by seedord247(m): 7:27am On Jan 24, 2013 |
pDude: Ohh ok. God bless your union. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 7:29am On Jan 24, 2013 |
seedord247: Bless you too bruv |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 8:19am On Jan 24, 2013 |
pDude: All of you unmarried people here are yarning balls. You are right. Make her believe you dont care a dime about her non-challance. I wonder why some ladies are like this. Btw she started this behaviour before Op lost his job or the issue of childlessness came up. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 8:21am On Jan 24, 2013 |
seedord247: As in 'particulars' and 'change of ownership'. Hehehe. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Princess1982(f): 8:25am On Jan 24, 2013 |
Maybe you should try asking her why she doesn't want to have sex with you, there maybe a reason behind it. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by MyneWhite1(f): 8:25am On Jan 24, 2013 |
i like this, all the best @OP greatgod2012: @op, i really sympathise with you, its not an easy thing for a man to be denied of intimacy.......for almost a year........chai.....it can drive married guys mad....i tell you. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Princess1982(f): 8:28am On Jan 24, 2013 |
Myne White: i like this, all the best @OPThe poster said his wife has the fertility problems. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Meegadough: 8:52am On Jan 24, 2013 |
Are you sure, she's not possessed? Her spiritual husband at work. She needs deliverance man. T.B Joshua can be of a help. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by KINGwax(m): 9:00am On Jan 24, 2013 |
rokiatu:wow!! Dt's if she wanna. I once knw a girl who has so much pride dt idea will make it worse!!! I'm with seedord, and reason is: if the lady sees it nt detrimental to open his hubby to temptation, aint nothin bad in d hubby fallin into it. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by worldstevo: 10:09am On Jan 24, 2013 |
pDude: All of you unmarried people here are yarning balls.Thanks guys. i will go with this view.I guess i must have given her too much attention in the past.However, if she persists in her behavior, then i just might consider having a mistress or re-connecting with my ex-girl friend who suddenly called me of recent.And although i might be jobless at present but definitely not poor;at least i buy her clothes sometimes and pay the expensive house rent. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Adaeze003(f): 11:18am On Jan 24, 2013 |
Combine pdude and acidosis' advice.#violence taketh it by force.. 1 Like |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 11:31am On Jan 24, 2013 |
Le lei gidigan! Get yourself a mistress but first threaten her mildly with it. |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by freecocoa(f): 11:46am On Jan 24, 2013 |
Na wa o. Do these things really happen? How can someone deny her hubby 5ex for that long? OP you sef wan tell us say you never nack anybody since that time? |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Davico(m): 11:48am On Jan 24, 2013 |
My man... U don't av to panic, u just av to sacrifice and endure but I av few questions to ask u: 1. Do u think she is not having extra marital affair? 2. Was dat her attitude b4 job is gone? 3. Are u really pressing towards getting a job? 4. Can u get a place where u can get food 4 a time? Try to deny ur self, never ask her 4 sex again Continue the help u render to her Stop eating her Food and get d place to eat 4 nw as adviced Relate with her with love but never accept anything she purchase 4 u whatsoever Don't b a too much home man, get out of d house n find pple to relate with Never go extra marital pls If u even get a little money 4rm ur movement outside, buy a small gift and give her Don't fight her wen she brings fight against u Live in peace with her and reduce ur play with her It is a matter of time, adopt this sacrifice and she will b broken. Though painful to adopt, endure to get ur home back. 1 Like |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by Nobody: 12:55pm On Jan 24, 2013 |
My brother, the best way to fight fire is with fire. Abraham Lincoln told his son's teacher to "teach him to be gentle with gentle people, and tough with tough people". If someone gives you bullshít, immediately return the bullshít 2X. Once people know you have the potential and capacity to return their nonsense - they sit up. Once you're timid, supplicating and ball-less, certain kinds of people smell blood and go for the kill. Don't pretend to have a mistress, get a mistress. Stop helping her with stuff. Live in the house but do not be in the house. IMPORTANT: You are not doing any of these to get a reaction from her. You are not doing this for her to change. NO! you're just coming at it from the position of one 'door closes...another door opens'. You have a díck, which by it's very nature must be poked into some dark places. Now, whether it's with her or with another party is entirely up to her. NEVER beg for séx. 6 Likes |
Re: Help ! My Wife Continuously Refuses To Have Sex With Me by jaybee3(m): 1:45pm On Jan 24, 2013 |
You might as well start helping yourself by 5 Likes |
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