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ASK HER BACK. . IF SHE WANTS YOU BACK, SHE'LL COME BACK. . .NOW IF SHE HAS BEGUN TO HAVE FEELINGS FOR THE GUY, TOO LATE!! ^{"Too Little Too Late "}

well these days we've been talking and she tells me alot about "the guy", thats what she calls him, she acts as though shes just carring out family obligations. She says she wants to see me that when ever the are making love (well the guy turns out to be a maniac) she's always wanting to say "Timmy stop, i'm tired", like she thinks of me while he does it,

well one fact remains that, i didnt let her go cos i didnt care, the whole thing was just telling on me and i was kinda freaked out, pressure i assume,
we started dating at age 20 and 19, i really do miss her and we can go on for hours now over phone just talking. The guy says she should delete my pix and number of her phone, but she knows it like hell as a matter of fact she got my my first econet line year 2000 ,

il keep yu all posted.

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Been there, done that ok. 9years . . . . Now she's the mother of two kids to the "Prefered guy" Happy or not, i can't tell all i can say is that BLOOD is very strong. and is this prefered guy happen to have cash., . . . . my brother. . . .

Sincerely, i would strongly advise you to start your healing process from the heart break now. I know that the thoughts of never being with her again is sickeningbelieve me i know but you have to let go.

I know that its not a sexual attraction that pulling you back, b'because if i can safely assume that you love her like you claim, you can be with her without sex 4 eva just to spend the rest of your life with her.

4 your sanity of heart and mind. Let her go now.b'because believe it or not,she gone already

Thats from correct exp,nice post!

Timmy
I ll advise you esp if THE NEW GUY IS RICHER to start planning the new life.
Life can be harsh at times,but there is always a NEW START.

idiot