Please guyz help me look into this issues. I'm 21yrs old boy a native of ENUGU STATE DANIEL BY NAME.
I'm having a friend for the past one yr and some months now she is a girl. We have been doing as if we were brother nd sister/husband and wife, we do everything in common:as in we pray together, eat, help each other infact do everything a boy can do for a gal or a gal can do for a guy she is so nice to me but we never see each other before, we are just doing al this on calls and mostly 2go chat. Its our dream to see each other but we never knw when the dream shal come through. Last yr she got admission into a high institutn, and she is now inviting me to come for her matrick nxt month which am nt prepared for, i dnt even have money to buy her gift for the ceremony, i just wönder how she wil feel if i disappoint her by nt going or i went their empty handed. Please my fellow nairaland i want u to advice me on what to do, should i go empty handed or never to go. NB this wil be a golden oppuntunity to recongnise whom i av as a partner nd as a friend. Thanks

My advice.
Go back to school, learn english and pick it up from there.

I think ur presence should be enof!forget about the gif,it's ur accomodation u should be worried about

Love is mostly abt sharing gift buh guys try to over do because we want to impress, let er know ur financial state for now and if realy loves u am sure she will consider u for telling er the truth, she might just want to c u and xpress the truth of what she has been feeling abt u
Buh at least hold a little and surprising gift for er, am sure u can't tell er you don't have 2k to buy er a small gift or are you the type of guy that doesn't believe spending for girlz is not good buh you like getting things from er, am sure if you are to pay b4 service when you feel the huge, you wont hessitate doing that.respect er and witH the little you have

She invited you because she wants you there. You showing up alone would suffice. Besides, you would just be seeing each other face-to-face for the first time. If you want to buy her a gift, wait till you get to know her more and your r-ship develops a little bit more. You don't want to start introducing gifts into your r-ship now; it is unnecessary. Go as you are. Also, this would further allow you to test the type of person she is: whether she would be displeased because you show up without a gift or whether it wouldn't matter to her and you being there is simply enough.

op, una dey pray for 2go?? hmmm. dis una love strong o.
anyways, if u ve money for ur transportation and accomodation, den go. ur presence is wat she really needs. .. but if u r broke, just tell her so,don't borrow o since she sees u as her bro, she ll understand




u can still go for her convocation nah. no worry too much.

outrage: My advice.
Go back to school, learn english and pick it up from there.

Seconded

How do you eat on 2go and other social media?

You mean she posts the picture of the food and you look at it?

tpia@:
How do you eat on 2go and other social media?

You mean she posts the picture of the food and you look at it?

I wonder ooO. Lol

It is your presence that counts and not your gift. When will guys start realizing that?

outrage: My advice.
Go back to school, learn english and pick it up from there.

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Seconded

Thirded!

outrage: My advice.
Go back to school, learn english and pick it up from there.

BEST ADVISE!!!!!!!!!!! Though may sound unacceptable to you.

outrage: My advice.
Go back to school, learn english and pick it up from there.

is this wat he askd u 2 giv him. If u dnt no wat 2say get out of nL and get bussy wit ursef young man

Plz this post should be posted to τђΞ joke section, I've been laffing My nutts off reading comments on this hilarious thread ...

Yield: She invited you because she wants you there. You showing up alone would suffice. Besides, you would just be seeing each other face-to-face for the first time. If you want to buy her a gift, wait till you get to know her more and your r-ship develops a little bit more. You don't want to start introducing gifts into your r-ship now; it is unnecessary. Go as you are. Also, this would further allow you to test the type of person she is: whether she would be displeased because you show up without a gift or whether it wouldn't matter to her and you being there is simply enough.

God bless u my dear..why is that real ones are hidden under the sea!.

Mehn.. Eee don tey i hear say distance r/ship dey exist ooo. Make sense.
Me, i 4 lk to kw whr u dey, whc sch she dey and whc knd of gift u dey plan to giv her, weda na book, flower abi na r/charge card.
On matric day, she'll be xtremly buzy, why did u pick dat day?? Abi you want to meet her parents??

Dats nt what i want from u guy! I know if sm1 ask u for advice u insult that person instead. Lol

outrage: My advice.
Go back to school, learn english and pick it up from there.

do u gv insult 4 d person dat ask u 4 advice? To bad lol

eazy12: I think ur presence should be enof!forget about the gif,it's ur accomodation u should be worried about

appriaciated.

bimmyartworld: Love is mostly abt sharing gift buh guys try to over do because we want to impress, let er know ur financial state for now and if realy loves u am sure she will consider u for telling er the truth, she might just want to c u and xpress the truth of what she has been feeling abt u
Buh at least hold a little and surprising gift for er, am sure u can't tell er you don't have 2k to buy er a small gift or are you the type of guy that doesn't believe spending for girlz is not good buh you like getting things from er, am sure if you are to pay b4 service when you feel the huge, you wont hessitate doing that.respect er and witH the little you have

nice talk

Yield: She invited you because she wants you there. You showing up alone would suffice. Besides, you would just be seeing each other face-to-face for the first time. If you want to buy her a gift, wait till you get to know her more and your r-ship develops a little bit more. You don't want to start introducing gifts into your r-ship now; it is unnecessary. Go as you are. Also, this would further allow you to test the type of person she is: whether she would be displeased because you show up without a gift or whether it wouldn't matter to her and you being there is simply enough.

my guy u really make sense. Thanks 4 ur advise!

tpia@:
How do you eat on 2go and other social media?
You mean she posts the picture of the food and you look at it?

u wana know how we do it? Eheheh

Don't try too hard to impress her during your visit, besides you never know what to expect when you guys meet since it's ur 1st meeting

Interesting caption! After a whole yr, how's she still an unknown friend, am I missing someting? She knows how rich your're dude, so go and support her even without a gift and I wish you well