dick hardener: Pls read through first before advising,My cousin's husband tells her when he's mad to cheat if she likes but she should not contract any disease suggesting she uses condom 2. She should not let him catch her. 3. She should not rub it on his face. Pls strongly NOTE he is not gay and has no extra-marital affair, this is confirmed. I personally don't know what to tell her because I know he loves her based on what he tells me privately.