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LADIES!!!!! 3 Habits That Could Be Keeping You Single by NessaFresh(f): 10:47pm On Feb 16, 2013
Listen up my NL ladies. I know a little constructive
criticism can hurt sometimes; but its time to fix
those detrimental mistakes that are crippling your
love lives. None of us are perfect when it comes to
dating. But that doesn’t mean we can’t and
shouldn't strive to be when their is room for
improvement.
Instead of wondering why you just can't seem to
land a boyfriend, take a self-reflective look in the
mirror and try to fix the problems in your love life.
Here are 3 habits that may unintentionally be
keeping you single:
1. Talking too much.
Let’s face it. Women in general are talkers. Two
women can theoretically sit at a dinner table for an
hour and spit out over twenty thousands words on
their favorite pair of shoes.
Men, not so much. While we love to hear women
talk, and on the whole, try to be good listeners,
there is a fine line between making good
conversation, and talking to the point of overkill.
Men want to be a part of the conversation when
dating, not just the audience. So be sure to give the
guy you are dating his fair share of time to
contribute to the conversation.



2. Coming on too strong, too fast.
Most men love the idea of finding a woman that
they can settle down with and spend the rest of
their lives with. As much as men love the thrill of a
good chase, true love outweighs this notion for
most of us, despite what men will have you believe
with their actions.
The problem is when women act too clingy early on.
Men want to feel as if they can get to know a
woman without all the pressure of marriage and
kids being felt within the first couple months of
meeting someone. It is hard enough for many guys
to give up the prospect of never being with another
woman again. Adding pressure will only make
things worse and scare us away.
Give the relationship time to develop naturally, or
you may just find yourself missing out on a great
guy.


3. Not prioritizing your love life properly.
Let’s face it, trying to land a boyfriend can often feel
like a second job. Dating often involves staying out
later than one may prefer, going out more on
weekdays, and all in all, having to clear up much
more free time for this new person in our life.
The problem is that many women fail to prioritize,
failing to realize that their schedules need to
change. When someone important comes into our
lives, gone are the days where work and friends
trump everything. Being serious about having a
relationship means getting serious about
prioritizing the important things in our lives. So
make the choice, friends and career, or happy love
life!
Re: LADIES!!!!! 3 Habits That Could Be Keeping You Single by Nobody: 11:49pm On Feb 16, 2013
Ok. I af heard
Re: LADIES!!!!! 3 Habits That Could Be Keeping You Single by patwhizkid(f): 12:02am On Feb 17, 2013
Ok. undecided
Re: LADIES!!!!! 3 Habits That Could Be Keeping You Single by OkikiOluwa1(m): 12:19am On Feb 17, 2013
Single ladies, una don read am?
Re: LADIES!!!!! 3 Habits That Could Be Keeping You Single by yuzedo: 4:37pm On Feb 20, 2013
Happy birthday NessaFresh!

.. I have something special for you kiss kiss

.......... In a secret place. wink wink wink
Re: LADIES!!!!! 3 Habits That Could Be Keeping You Single by NessaFresh(f): 3:39pm On Feb 21, 2013
yuzedo: Happy birthday NessaFresh!

.. I have something special for you kiss kiss

.......... In a secret place. wink wink wink

Awwww Yuzubaby...I had a blast yesterday...thanks a lot...mmh u can still give it to me today?
Re: LADIES!!!!! 3 Habits That Could Be Keeping You Single by yuzedo: 3:57pm On Feb 21, 2013
NessaFresh:

Awwww Yuzubaby...I had a blast yesterday...thanks a lot...mmh u can still give it to me today?
Na wa o! Forgive and forget the gift na?!
Sigh.. Ok, how do I contact you? Lemme try dis PM shït..

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