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. by MegaG: 8:17pm On Feb 18, 2013
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Re: . by Nobody: 10:49pm On Feb 18, 2013
u need to let her/him know, dis will not improve the relationship, and it hurts when sum1 open dead wounds.
Re: . by greatgod2012(f): 2:58am On Feb 19, 2013
This is his own weak point, no perfect person, and he may not even know that he is hurting you, so, communication is what you need, discuss it with him, tell him how bad you usually feel each time he opens dead wound........no perfect marriage anywhere, because, we are not perfect beings......all marriages have their ups and downs, but effective and meaningful communication is all we need to make our feelings known to whoever we are dealing with.
May God help us all.
Re: . by baby124: 5:21am On Feb 19, 2013
This is what happens when you don't do your due dilligence and marry an immature person. In dating stage you should have tested him to see if he can handle the truth without abusing it or judging you. Then you would have had the chance to escape. I will advice you to ignore him and not show any feelings at all when he uses it against you. Just smile and say "sure sure, good for you". And then walk away. He knows it gets to you. He has shown he cannot be trusted, so keep your mouth shut henceforth. Just tell him what he needs to know and nothing more or personal. I wish you a lot of luck. It takes a very special and mature person to handle our secrets. Am sure you told him 100% while he told you 2%. Oversabi don turn to wahala.If he sees the taunts don't work on you anymore, he will find another way to hurt you. This is the method of emotional abusers and babies getting married.

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