juliluv: let her be,may be she feels u're becomming a thorn in her flesh,since she said nothing is wrong just allow her. dont even bother calling her again unless u hve another intention ,lolz

Emoticon:
I'd rather die single than having some1 like u as a friend (not to talk of wife). And to think that a man out there is waving ur flag round town as his gf/wife (SMH. I feel for that man) How I wish men could see how DARK their so called gf/wives heart is.

alj harem: Nigerian WOMEN, SEX IS NOT A CURRENCY IN EXCHANGE FOR FAVOUR. Just be yourselves and stop being ingrates and hungry.

DDNICE: Wow! Thumbs up for the matured minds in the house and for this thread. This is what it should always be and not the first to comment babies u find when u open most threads

alj harem: another one Nigerian women

Sisi_Kill: Rotflmao! See the way they are talking about not helping a girl anymore.

If y'all had the great power of helping like you think you do. ...why are majority of your brothers still walking the streets unemployed?

Hey here's a thought....if your helping didn't have strings attached to them, why not help the guys then. Forgot the girls and help the men instead. ...you can't can you? How can you when the chances of getting your abunna wagged is slim to none (except of course you play for the other team )

lagerwhenindoubt: @OP what were you expecting.. you said you helped her, did you ask for something in return? that she has not given you, if not leave the matter be.. your reward is somewhere else

lasunray: After Helping Her To Find A Job She Boned Me

Hello Nairalanders,
Happy New Month,
I Helped a very close friend of mine to find a good job that pays close to hundred thousand naira, after her first pay she Just stopped calling, texting, keeping in touch as she does before. Its not that she is that busy because she does 2days off and 3days on (Mon to Fri).
I don't need her money; if she gives me any, I will definitely not collect.
I still try to keep in touch but she ain't reciprocating.
She gists me about the work place and other things but if I ask now, she always has nothing to say.

NB: Am still schooling.

How would you feel if you are in my shoes? I want to learn here so you candid advise will be appreciated.

I'ld feel like a good boy like u. What a good boy u re, don't worry ur reward is in heaven.

Can u help me get a job that pays between 400000 and 1000000 a month.

lynpetra: Except she suspects you have a sketchy character,I don't see the reason why she is ignoring you.Besides why is it so important to you to the extent that you are asking for public help?If you help someone out of free will,you don't need to be the person calling,texting,etc.It shows you are stalking her!!! She is meant to be the caller not you.You have done a good deed by getting her a job,leave her thé hell alone to work for her pay! Abi you won still help her for her shift? Friends with benefit I guess.

Orikinla: [size=18pt]She has used your assistance to get a job and once her aim has been achieved, she did not need you again.
Don't bother about her or expect something in return. Close her file.

I have helped many young women in Nigeria and other countries and even one from Kenya, but I never bothered continuing further communication with them. In fact, I told some of them to stop using my assistance or help to be closer to me.
I don't help people, because I want something in return. In fact, I beg them not to patronize.

Your problem is you were helping her to expect her to pay you back somehow.
You think she owes you since you helped her get the job, but hello! Are you the one doing the job for her?
Delete your bitterness against her, because it is unhealthy.[/size]

lasunray:
Alryt. thanks. I ve heard. As for ur CV, I hope u r not a girl?

..."just kidding"

PM me

Idirabata: @op, somewhere along the line i believe she must have appreciated you. One thing u must accept is that she is no longer on the same level as you. You can still keep in touch but dnt overdo it otherwise u can become a pest.

life_style: That's why some guys will demand for se.x before helping cos once they got the job, you become history.

Sorry Bro just move on...

Idirabata: @op, somewhere along the line i believe she must have appreciated you. One thing u must accept is that she is no longer on the same level as you. You can still keep in touch but dnt overdo it otherwise u can become a pest.