Is it just to ruin d man's marriage or to gain some material favours or to bargain if the man could take her as a 2nd wife?

What are really the main intentions cos i believe a single lady supposed to stay clear of a married man having known he's married and seek to have a single guy for herself.

What do u say about this?

Whc kind mumu qustn b dis?? Your dad get gfrnd??

Digitalgeorgy, search urself well. U are d one that's d mumu and not d question as u couldnt understand d question well. Dont u see single ladies in ur area dating married and family men.

Same reason boys date married women. Or should I say men?!

married women make good love...

Op I have notice u and I ve notice every thread u had opened for the past 1 week is to denigrate women.
Young man,u need help preferably u need to see a psychologist coz u ve a very big issue with women.

@luvmijeje, lols absolutely no issue against women particularly in dis very thread. I only seek to know why some single ladies date married men when they are supposed to search for thier single life partners. A married man is already married and so what are u still doing wit him. Stay off of such men and seek for singles like u.

U wil only condemn me on this ONLY if u are one of them. No offence!

This statement 'A married man is already married,so what what are u doing with him' by u shows u are biased,bitter and have issued against women.
Fine,some singles dated married men becos they believe they are more caring.
But have u ever think that there are some singles that were deceived,and never knew the guy was married coz the guy drop his ring somewhere else.
Also have u ever think why would a married man ask a single lady that has the same anatomy as his wife out,if not for indiscipline,greed,convetousness.....
Op,that is why I said u issue with women.

@luvmijeje, i don't see anything wrong with the Op's question, if he has been biased in other threads i think his question makes sense, even if the man lied at start that he is single what keeps the girl there when she finds out he's married, because its always messy at the end and the man will most times choose his family(wife) over the girl.

Pattyclues,I have to admit maybe if it is some1 else that ask those questions I wouldn't have reacted that way.
I reacted that way maybe becos I knew the Op antecedent or maybe becos I ve been on NL long enough to be sensitive to innuedoes raise by guyz to stroke their ego.
Back to the issue u raised,some men go back to their family,some don't after eating 'efo-riro' but the damage,emotionally and phsychologically has been done to that single lady even if she back out.

luvmijeje: the damage,emotionally and phsychologically has been done to that single lady even if she back out.

That doesn't mean she should stay and fight a wrong battle. The earlier she leaves the better for her.

digitalgeorgy: Whc kind mumu qustn b dis?? Your dad get gfrnd??

[size=18pt]U R A BIG I.D.I.O.T the poster asked an intelligent question[/size]

luvmijeje: Op I have notice u and I ve notice every thread u had opened for the past 1 week is to denigrate women.
Young man,u need help preferably u need to see a psychologist coz u ve a very big issue with women.

luvmijeje u need help also, instead of giving answers to the question, you prefer to digress and attack his personality
I pity for girls like you because i can confirm that this particular question got to you.
Better stop chasing married men and go look for your own man
A,S.H,A.W.O

some people don't know how they should be treated and look for love anywhere even if its fake even if its fleeting.

KateSpade: some people don't know how they should be treated and look for love anywhere even if its fake even if its fleeting.

Ur post will soon be deleted

*sigh* am definitely going to ignore him.

...virtually a larger percent of married men keep mistresses...polygamy?why?

So from what u've said, dis kind of practices shld be allow to rampage in our society just because d wife must persevere in her marriage?

Why do we accept d wrongs to be rights dis days?

To commit fraud that will lead the man to destroying his family. The ladies that go after married men go for killing. Ask Nigerian actresses all over. They cannot go for single guys. Ask Geneiveieeeee and their colleagues how they destroy homes. They go for the rich and famous married men who got cash