1. Most Men cannot have sex exclusively with just one woman, for the rest of their lives.
2. Men are created with varied sexual appetite, some men can do without sex for a year, others cannot do without sex for a week.
3. A man who's madly in love with one woman can still have sex with other women but still love his 'woman'.
4. Some of the best husbands have concubines or mistresses, these extra marital affairs play a role in keeping the man sane and free of sexual tensions, especially during mid-life crises.
5. If your man is just having sex with some sweet sexy teen or babe, DO NOT WORRY. But, if your man starts? making midnight calls and exchanging text messages with another lady at odd hours, BE VERY WORRIED.
6. Before you choose your man, ensure he believes in AIDs, STDs and protected sex. That way, chances are that he will not bring HIV and other STDs into your life.
7. Most chronic wife beaters are faithful husbands, they hardly have extra marital affairs.
8. Most 'extra' loving husbands have concubines, these concubines keep the man abreast on new ways of making women happy.
9. Your man's mistress or concubine is most times not interested in you or your home. Shehas already seen your pictures and those of your kids via your hubby's phone. She and your hubby just have a sexual understanding or partnership which helps both deal with peculiar individual issues.
10. As a woman, if you go all out in a bid to catch your husband red-handed cheating, youWILL succeed. Then what next? If you listen hard to your domestic servants in their private discussions, you will certainly hear them insult you, so why listen?
11. Judge your man by his responsibilitie ­s towards you and the kids, and NOT by who he's giving 'doggie style' to in the office.

@poster
The man whose picture you have created must be as irresponsible as they come. Unfortunately, you don't know.
And, have you considered your last number, (No.11), critically. I think you shot yourself in the leg there.

Anyway, no matter how legal times have made cheating look, it is wrong and totally unacceptable.

if a woman has an affair they will say she is a prostitute but its ok for a man abi. in this age things are even changing so if he expects her to condone all the trash u just listed he shouldnt be jealous if madam has a bit on the side.

And I was thinking there I have seen the lower limit of bullshît....NL just keeps throwing more up and keeps me in awe of the silliness and backward thinking of the OPs

As far as i am concerned This thread is just full of sexism.so you feel it is ok,proper, and acceptable for men to cheat and women to accept it and not get jealous but is is highly irresponsible for a woman to cheat even if the man is cheating abi? This things you wrote up there can work in cases where the woman does not love the man,the woman did not marry for love or she is in an abusive marriage,stop polluting women and men's minds by desecrating marriage and making it look ok for a man to have extramarital relationships like whether she knows or not it will not affect the kids.am sure you did not remember to put that,am sure you are aware that every extra marital relationships always affect the kids negatively take it or live it.the parents of the woman entrusted the woman to you for her to be loves,taken care of and respected.if she cheats on you am sure you will say she does not respect your union so in like manner dont give what you cannot take

@op,

I want to believe your parents didn't teach you any of these.

Wher did u get all ds trash from

Just one word: NONSENSE!

Sumbarkaya: @op,

I want to believe your parents didn't teach you any of these.

^^That was a K.O punch. Op, u've so lost this match.