I have started this tread to help guys who find it difficult with women

NEVER say anything negative about one of your ex-girlfriends in front of ur new girl friend. Why? Because it is a very CHILDISH thing to do. A lot of guys like to bash their ex-girlfriends in order to boost their own ego or to "explain" to their newgirlfriends why they had broken up with their ex's. They want to put all the blame on their ex's so that they will be seen as the "good" guys. Look, It ALWAYS takes 2 people, not 1, to initiate a breakup.So no matter what happened with your last relationship, YOU still have to share HALF of the blame. For example,
1) If you tell women that your ex was a cheater, what you're REALLY saying is that you're not attractive enough to "keep" your ex.
2) If you tell women that your ex used you and then dumped you, what you're REALLY saying is that you're a doormat who can be walked all over. See how ANYTHING said about your girlfriend can be turned around and used against YOU? This is why you should NEVER say anything negativeabout your ex-girlfriends. If you absolutely MUST talk aboutyour ex-girlfriends, then be a gentleman and mention the NICE things. It's much more mature than simply bashing her! By the way,