As for me, I enjoy the respect I get where ever I go.
I also enjoy having my children call me 'mommy'(it's sooo heart warming).
Being married gives ma a confidence that I quite don't know how to explain in words.
Hmmm, 'sex' without the guilt of fornication hanging on my shoulders.
Let's hear yours

@op, your last point is my own first point..........enjoying intimacy without the guilt of adultery

2. The respect i get as a married woman.

3. The way im pampered by my hubby like a little girl.....lol

greatgod2012: 3. The way im pampered by my hubby like a little girl.....lol

Yes, and that too.

1.Definitely the no boundaries in bed matters, but I still got some issues with that.
2.As for respect, I already had that even as a single lady. God created me in a way that respect comes to me even without my asking or working for it.
3.The reduction in absurd male proposition. Now I can have a biz discussion with someone without them asking me out. I also clinch more deals now that they don't see me as a challenge anymore.
On the downside? I've completely lost my freedom :'

luvme2: As for me, I enjoy the respect I get where ever I go.
I also enjoy having my children call me 'mommy'(it's sooo heart warming).
Being married gives ma a confidence that I quite don't know how to explain in words.
Hmmm, 'sex' without the guilt of fornication hanging on my shoulders.
Let's hear yours

Hmmmm.....sex without guilt sounds interesting....so does sex without boundaries.

greatgod2012: @op, your last point is my own first point..........enjoying intimacy without the guilt of adultery

2. The respect i get as a married woman.

3. The way im pampered by my hubby like a little girl.....lol

Bless God 4 ur hubby lady, and pls hold Him tyt o...Hpe u get d drift?

luvme2: As for me, I enjoy the respect I get where ever I go.
I also enjoy having my children call me 'mommy'(it's sooo heart warming).
Being married gives ma a confidence that I quite don't know how to explain in words.
Hmmm, 'sex' without the guilt of fornication hanging on my shoulders.
Let's hear yours

so you didnt have self confidence in yourself before you got married,marriage brought th self confidence Ok o anyway different strokes for different folks

kulyie: so you didnt have self confidence in yourself before you got married,marriage brought th self confidence Ok o anyway different strokes for different folks

sincerely, its not about not having self respect, but as a married woman, d way people will address and deal with you will be quite different....believe me, not only in official settings, but also from friends and family setting as well, until then, you will understand me when you get there.......
Wishing you goodluck.

1. Not having to worry about money - That's his job!
2. Having legitimate children
3. Having someone to always depend on \
4. Not having to worry about unwanted advances from these useless men around
5. Finally, the 'searching' game is over!

PS: The oga's wife thing just annoys the hell out of me!

greatgod2012:


sincerely, its not about not having self respect, but as a married woman, d way people will address and deal with you will be quite different....believe me, not only in official settings, but also from friends and family setting as well, until then, you will understand me when you get there.......
Wishing you goodluck.

I honestly don't see people respecting me cos I'm married as a compliment!
If anything, I see it as degrading. So I'm nobody without him eh

@Ujujoan,That's just the truth,Nigerians seems to have more regards for married women.Even in NYSC camp they were accomodated in a different hostel(Where am serving).You are definitely someone without him lol,but we can't deny the fact that responsible married women are respected in Naija.Imagine a single lady almost 7years my elder calling me aunty,its just respect.

What I really enjoy most is the s3x and exploring. We have it without guilt. Then , the respect and carriage and calling of madam, Aunty has always been there since I started working.. So no, change there for nw.. Then, yeah to have someone to talk 2, and who knows me , so well.. No lonely moments.. It's interesting being married.

Why hasn't any man commennted on this thread?
Seems women are the only ones enjoying being married..

married men!!! Is it dat u guys enjoy nothing?? Haba, na wa o

Well, as for me, I must say I'm one of the lucky few. I have an angel for a wife.
I enjoy having 2 wake up every morning to see her beautiful face beside me.
I always look forward to coming home everyday because I know I'm going home to her.
I like the way she pampers me.
Oh yes, how can I forget the s3x without the guilt.
Infact, I'm happy being married and have never had any regrets.
I bless the day I found my loving wife.

baruwa@info:
Well, as for me, I must say I'm one of the lucky few. I have an angel for a wife.
I enjoy having 2 wake up every morning to see her beautiful face beside me.
I always look forward to coming home everyday because I know I'm going home to her.
I like the way she pampers me.
Oh yes, how can I forget the s3x without the guilt.
Infact, I'm happy being married and have never had any regrets.
I bless the day I found my loving wife.

Awwwwww dats soooo sweet.
Hardly hear of men talk about their wives like dis. kudos!
N pls take good care of her just as she takes care of u.

slimyem:
Why hasn't any man commennted on this thread?
Seems women are the only ones enjoying being married..

It has always been like that since the days of Adam and Eve.

victorian:
What I really enjoy most is the s3x and exploring. We have it without guilt. Then , the respect and carriage and calling of madam, Aunty has always been there since I started working.. So no, change there for nw.. Then, yeah to have someone to talk 2, and who knows me , so well.. No lonely moments.. It's interesting being married.

you and lies. 7 years after this lie you are not married or divorcee or widow. so what happened?

zmpp:


you and lies. 7 years after this lie you are not married or divorcee or widow. so what happened?

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Social media life vs real life

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zmpp:


you and lies. 7 years after this lie you are not married or divorcee or widow. so what happened?

Whats your concern about my private life many years back?

And you are asking as if i owe u ,an explanantion.

You go wait taya!

Or better still ask your ancestors.

Ode!

So someone 'resurrected' a very old thread just to expose a supposed liar? The internet truly never forgets... FBI agents everywhere... lol

victorian:







Whats your concern about my private life many years back?

And you are asking as if i owe u ,an explanantion.

You go wait taya!

Or better still ask your ancestors.

Ode!

and this one is suppose to be someones wife? see her response self husby go don recieve insult tire

Happyguy201:



and this one is suppose to be someones wife? see her response self husby go don recieve insult tire

Im not like most of you, who table your spouse or companion infront of faceless strangers here to lash and backlash by opening a new id for it.

No matter what i have gone through in my relationships be it good or bad at least i have rhe brain and foresight to solve it myself without public opinions from nairalnders.
Some of you may not like it and would wish to know every details in ones private life.

But its just the way i am.

Im selective on what to show to the public about my personal life . Its my choice.

I owe nobody the full detailed story of my relationships ,lovelife .

If you dont like it? Go fuvk yourselves!

ecolime:
So someone 'resurrected' a very old thread just to expose a supposed liar? The internet truly never forgets... FBI agents everywhere... lol

Call me a liar?

Im less concerned .

I wont reveal what happened 7years back. Bloody vultures!

Im not davido, nor tonto dike nor other celebs who loves to say it all and wash their dirty linens for all to see.

victorian:




Im not like most of you, who table your spouse or companion infront of faceless strangers here to lash and backlash by opening a new id for it.

No matter what i have gone through in my relationships be it good or bad at least i have rhe brain and foresight to solve it myself without public opinions from nairalnders.
Some of you may not like it and would wish to know every details in ones private life.

But its just the way i am.

Im selective on what to show to the public about my personal life . Its my choice.

I owe nobody the full detailed story of my relationships ,lovelife .

If you dont like it? Go fuvk yourselves!

send me your nude pics dirty w.h..o.re

Happyguy201:



send me your nude pics dirty w.h..o.re

E pain am !



Undiluted village Ekpa!

victorian:






E pain am !



Undiluted village Ekpa!

old cargo send it na

victorian:







Whats your concern about my private life many years back?

And you are asking as if i owe u ,an explanantion.

You go wait taya!

Or better still ask your ancestors.

Ode!

I wonder why you guys lie a lot on social media ,do you who must have been so depressed and probably committed suicide seeing that another lady is having a lovely time in marriage not knowing you were not married at the first place.

No wonder I don't believe facebook stories. Those are lies lies lies.

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Lol. Na so!

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Send me your nude vic

victorian:





Call me a liar?

Im less concerned .

I wont reveal what happened 7years back. Bloody vultures!

Im not davido, nor tonto dike nor other celebs who loves to say it all and wash their dirty linens for all to see.

Even if the marriage hit the rocks thereafter, the impression you created is regrettably far from reality. If it was the way it was presented, I don't think it would ever pack up.