I decided to post this here cos I know there are a lot of matured and empathic people in this section. I'm a 25 year old Virgin due to get married December . I've dated guys before but we never got to that extent. I have to mention I've never had anything go down there before except when I tried to insert my tiny finger. There was some resistance but it went in eventually . Recently, I've been trying to have s*x with my fiancee but it just couldn't work. I don't want to give gross details but It practically felt like It was blocked or sth despite the whole lubricant and relaxation . He's a very loving man and patient with me. I was crying yesterday cos I was confused and wondering if sth is wrong with me. My friends said it was a bearable pain but I just couldn't bear it. Please, I need useful advice. Could it be that the hymen is too thick or sth else is wrong?

See a gynecologist

Let him keep on poking it, it will surely give way.

Engage in a lot of pre-intimacy and use lubricant if need be.

hmm, let me invite the professionals, Itsquinn, trapqueen,dollyjoy,cococandy,ishilove,Karchisbarbie,madamexcellency, abeg make unah come help this lady o,@ o.p, i don call them, be rest assured they will look into your matter and give appropriate response.
Just be patient.

Ok this happens to be sorta my area of expertise as it happens.


Young lady, bring your seat and draw closer.

One congrats in advance on your wedding. But you could have waited a few more months to tie the knot before embarking on the journey. But since you are doing it already o well.

Now, it natural that your center of excellence is that tight because no man has gone there - according to your story.

But don't be afraid, the center of excellence is naturally supposed to expand. Think about it, if a baby could exit from there, a dongoyaro no matter how big could penetrate it. And like the child birth, your center of excellence needs to be in a right mood to trigger the expansion.

As a started, make sure you are very lubricated but you and your partner. Then do not attempt doggie because it will be diffcult. Missionary style is recommended. Your guy should thrust slow and steady.

I don't know how big he is not that i want to know but tell him he should not go all the way. Steady thrusting will eventually makes your center of excellence to be wet and more accommodating to his dongoyaro..

Cheers my dear!
Don't forget to invite me to the wedding


*** I see alot of comments here about seeing a doctor, so people do go to see a doctor to help them break there hymen Forgive me please but that's stupid. Is hymen a brick or am iron Its just a " thin" flesh people.. Haba

If it your first time doing it.. You need to get in the right mood.. Your organ naturally secrets bombom juice to make it wet and allow penetration.

You could invest in ky if you could afford it or actually regular water. Your partner wet his dong with water and he helps you apply water on your V. Then slow and steady from your guy.. He should not attempt to go in all way. For those of us rotten apple that watch porn, when those dudes wet there dong with there saliva and spit on the girls V then use his hand to wet the whole V....that why they do that.

The fact is whether the hymen is broken or not.. Your V will not automatically expand to accommodate his dong. You need to be aroused for your V to relax and open the door for him to enter.

Cc: Angel303

and this just remind me of why minimum of two years experience are preferred by employers

Tnx for your responses. I think I should see a gynecologist to rule out any medical issues. Also, I heard about using lidocaine for numbing. I dunno how advisable it is

Collenshy2020:
hmm, let me invite the professionals, Itsquinn, trapqueen,dollyjoy,cococandy,ishilove,Karchisbarbie,madamexcellency, abeg make unah come help this lady o,@ o.p, i don call them, be rest assured they will look into your matter and give appropriate response.
Just be patient.

Professionals in hymen breakage?

carmag:
and this just remind me of why minimum of two years experience are preferred by employers

I have to mention that I don't regret in anyway keeping myself for hubby. When this is over, it will be a joyful thing for the rest of our lives. Cheers

I decided to poke my finger into it...






Ur finger? why didn't u use cucumber?

donbenedict:
I decided to poke my finger into it...






Ur finger? why didn't u use cucumber?

Please do not make fun of a delicate issue. Tnx

There is nothing wrong with u, ask ur guy to apply olive oil on his cock before inserting it n u too should be ready to bear d pain cos no b say him go dey wan try enter n u go dey move back o u hear me so? Pele my dear.

Baby girl...I no know o. Let me further help make the call. Ishilove, aren't you a doctor? Dominique nko? What about dyt? People of God help o. Drdre, where hath

Thank God your bobo is sooooo caring.

Angel303:

Please do not make fun of a delicate issue. Tnx

cmon it's not a delicate issue.. it's smth normal and i'm sure you aren't the 1millionth female experiencing this. So chilax.



Open ur legs wider wider next time inugo

sisisioge:


Baby girl...I no know o. Let me further help make the call. Ishilove, aren't you a doctor? Dominique nko? What about dyt? People of God help o. Drdre, where hath

Thank God your bobo is sooooo caring.

Why don't u know? abi ur thing wasn't tight the first time u had sex?

Angel303:
Tnx for your responses. I think I should see a gynecologist to rule out any medical issues

This ain't a medical issue..
Try engaging ur self in exercises that entails stretching ur legs as it will also help in softening the virgina and ease any pain that might arise through the cause of intimacy with ur fiancé
Also u and ur fiancé should also engage in more pre-intimacy and stimulations more often to enable ur juice do the lubrication from the inside before penetrations


In other news I can be of help to make the way passable as I have loads of experience in this regards.. . .

Ishilove:
Professionals in hymen breakage?

something like that, are you trying to do anyhow!

Ishilove:
Professionals in hymen breakage?

something like that, or are you trying to do anyhow!

Collenshy2020:

something like that, are you trying to do anyhow!

Are you the one who tutored me in the hymen breaking profession?

Ishilove:

Professionals in hymen breakage?

That meme killed it?


Sisisioge
How you take Comot ya own Abi e still dey dia?

Ishilove:

Professionals in hymen breakage?

Dyt:


That meme killed it?


Sisisioge
How you take Comot ya own Abi e still dey dia?

For where! Na birthday gift we carry am do. The thing took two days o. May God have mercy on his strayed daughters

If you can't bear the pain. Go to a hospital.
Tell the nurse or doctor your problem, tell them to make you sleep and let them break it for you. (That's what I did)
If you want to economize money.
Then get a sleeping drugs to knock you out and let your boyfriend deflower you by using his fingers since they are harder and stronger, he should bring the index and middle finger together and insert gently.. It will be easier for him instead of using his dick.

carmag:
and this just remind me of why minimum of two years experience are preferred by employers

For real?! Lol

Collenshy2020:
hmm, let me invite the professionals,

National Association of hymen Breakers (NAHB) Lol.

Well, in case he finally falls the wall of Jericho and he doesn't appear to always stay longer on you "he cums quickly". Then contact us for our natural tea that gives men natural sexual fitness.
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sisisioge:


For where! Na birthday gift we carry am do. The thing took two days o. May God have mercy on his strayed daughters

LMAO
Birthday gift?



Op
Let him fingerrrr you for like a week everyday
It will eventually come off with it
No him be say na finger do am ooo


#teamfinger

Sugarhugs:
If you can't bear the pain. Go to a hospital.
Tell the nurse or doctor your problem, tell them to make you sleep and let them break it for you. (That's what I did)
If you want to economize money.
Then get a sleeping drugs to knock you out and let your boyfriend deflower you by using his fingers since they are harder and stronger, he should bring the index and middle finger together and insert gently.. It will be easier for him instead of using his dick.

Tnx a lot for this. I'll consider it

Sugarhugs:
If you can't bear the pain. Go to a hospital.
Tell the nurse or doctor your problem, tell them to make you sleep and let them break it for you. (That's what I did)
If you want to economize money.
Then get a sleeping drugs to knock you out and let your boyfriend deflower you by using his fingers since they are harder and stronger, he should bring the index and middle finger together and insert gently.. It will be easier for him instead of using his dick.

Jeez! Babes these options seem so clinical! I'm fearing for her already. Whew!

Dyt:


That meme killed it?


Sisisioge
How you take Comot ya own Abi e still dey dia?

O ya mi l'enu

Dyt:

LMAO
Birthday gift?



Op
Let him fingerrrr you for like a week everyday
It will eventually come off with it
No him be say na finger do am ooo


#teamfinger

Haba! What if he pinched something

sisisioge:


Jeez! Babes these options seem so clinical! I'm fearing for her already. Whew!

Lol it's nothing.

sisisioge:


Haba! What if he pinched something

Na
It's easier that way
He won't pinch
Middle finger and no nail
Make he dey do am
It will be a bit painful but better than that ugly thing

Ishilove:

O ya mi l'enu

Crazy woman

Angel303:

Tnx a lot for this. I'll consider it

No P. If you go with hospital option. Make sure your boyfriend is there with you. U cannot trust all this doctors especially when u are very fresh. Lol. (Just kidding, a nurse will do it for you.)