The Right Way To Use Body Language To Attract Women



Did you know that you could use body language to attract women? Most guys are convinced that there are only two things that will attract women: good looks and money. What happens if you don't have either? Something's got to work. Surely you've noticed the immense number of "losers" who have neither money nor good looks, but who still manage to have at least one attractive woman on their arm at all times. So, what is it that they have that you don't? Simply put, skill and swag...



Displaying Confident Body Language



Utilizing body language to attract women is one of the most brilliant things a man can do. Women love men who are confident and display this through their body language. One of the ways you can let the world know that you are confident and dominant is by dominating the space you are in. Let's say for example you're in a hotel waiting room and you're sitting on a sofa or love-seat. Instead of sitting up, all "prim and proper", sprawl out instead. Prop your legs up and take up the entire space by sitting on the couch sideways. You can always make room for the woman to sit down, but you can be sure that she'll recognize your confidence and be automatically drawn to your dominance.



Avoid Nervous Body Language



Any indication that you're insecure about yourself can potentially ruin a woman's perception of who you are. If this is your first time with her (and her first impression of you), it's best that you make sure you come across confident and in control of yourself, which means you should refrain from fidgety behavior, tapping your foot, looking around, avoiding eye contact, slumping over, etc. Doing any of these will automatically cause her attention to wander elsewhere, quite possibly toward the guy across the room who is confidently sprawled out on the couch. Suddenly, you're no longer the "alpha" male in the room.

Easy Does It



When a woman knows a man is trying to win her attention, she'll think it's cute, and she's likely to feel admired. However, there is such a thing as trying too hard. Trying too hard may cause you to come across as fake, annoying, and even silly and amateur. Women want a man who isn't afraid to maintain an air of mystery about what they're doing. Even if the pursuit of her emotions and heart remain unspoken, it's still much better than trying too hard and giving yourself away.



Use Subtle Ways To Show You Like Her



The way to attract women is to not come on too strong. There are ways to let a woman know you like her without coming out and saying, "Hey, I like you." One particular thing you can do but must always be very careful with is to express energy in her presence. Not all women are psychic, but the vibes you put off can be felt. Be sure to maintain confident, positive thoughts at all times when you're around a woman you like, as she will be able to sense it on the Avoid outside.



Entering Her Personal Space



Maintain respect when it comes to her "comfort zone" - try not to invade her personal space. Invading a woman's personal space or comfort zone is not good - unless she invites you in. Using body language to attract women by touching, poking, and friendly, flirty, soft "punches" on the shoulder are okay, but should not be overdone. Too much and she'll assume you're a creep.



In Summation



If you know how to utilize these skills properly, you'll have tons of women lined up to be with you, no matter how much or how little money you have and regardless of what you look like. The key is confidence. You can always tell when a guy is confident about himself by the way he carries himself. Using body language to attract women is one of the oldest tricks in the book, and it's sure to work every time.