nikkyshyne: Reminds me of 'Hint magazine'. I put it in between my text book and pretend I was reading way back in secondary school. Oh well

damas11111: There are more to this story than what is revealed here. Here is my take:
1. You must have known this your BIL to have this animalistic behaviour yet you have not been careful with your dealings with and around him
2. Your BIL has some knowledge about your "waywardness" and " inviting behaviour towards him. Or how else do I believe otherwise when your revealing dress here suggests so. If you could put up this photo of yours up in a public forum, I wonder how worse you dress in presence of your relatives.
3. You probably enjoyed the "raping" the first time hence it happened the second time. If not you would've prevented that 2nd one. Or why did you open the door that 2nd time when you already knew his intention? Or did he force his way in?

I don't believe your story.

jntyjnty007:
Yes she should tell husband as soon as possible. But, if you have ever been raped before, or have worked with people who have been raped, in many cases it is easier said than done. Culture also has a big factor to play in cases of rape. So many rapes all over the world go unreported because the victims are simply so scared and ashamed. Often they feel it was themselves that caused it, but that is so far from the truth.

Rape is ultimately about power, not how someone is dressed etc etc.

The shock of it can just be too much so a person will hide it and become withdrawn. Staying silent has repercussions and can be fatal if you don't speak out. Rape is evil. It can shatter all your self-esteem and confidence just like that. You need people around you to restore that back and very quickly to enable you to gain the strength to go and report. Or if need be have someone around you who you trust completely to support you when you inform the relevant parties of this inhumane crime.

It won't ruin a marriage or relationship unless you let that happen. Hard, but the truth. Anyone who has been raped has nothing to lose and everything to gain by reporting it. When you seek justice you will find peace.

biolabee:

I want to get what you are saying in no 3

Are you insinuating multiple r.ape victims suffer because thet secretly desire being r.aped

andyanders: Your keeping mute over this goes to show you consented to it. Why must he molest you the first time and you fail to tell your husband? Second time and you still kept the secret?

agoha_vivi: I feel this story is all a lie. Come to think of it, what right thinking person would keep silent over an issue such as this? Why keep such information from your husband? Super story.