baibijay: what is this?

bukason1:

Something you probably shouldn't be looking at, honey.

pDude: Copy and paste oyibo bullshyt.

pDude: Copy and paste oyibo bullshyt.

Idowuogbo: Blah blah blah and more fevking BLAH! Broke mudafuckers.

aadetoyin:

No mind am. Na real copy and paste. This article doesn't relate with the African society at all.
I can count the number of times that I have paid for dinner when I go out with Hubby, its either his birthday or just one of those days that he deserves a treat. If not, he is paying.

Idowuogbo: Blah blah blah and more fevking BLAH! Broke mudafuckers.

Sapphire86:

Gbam!!
Luk @ d poor excuse of a man talking. I pity all the females in ur life e.g wife, daughters, sisters etc

bukason1:

You know I love it whenever my writing generate such heat. It makes me be 100% sure that I got gold.

And for comment that you "pity the women in my life" - actually sweetie the opposite should be the case.

I mean got like testomies to comfirm this.

All the women in my life, always tells me that, I'm the most wonderful and generous man they have ever met.

Sound like a lie, doesn't it?

But it's really not.

You see, if you pay a real attention to all my posts, you will see the core of what i teach.

Which is NOT: TREAT WOMEN BAD.

Far from it.

BUT...

TREAT WOMEN VERY GOOD... BUT... ON YOUR OWN TERMS!

Get it?

Sapphire86:


Of course it is easier 2 get online n say u r d f**king best.
Nobody asked u 2 treat women good above ur terms!

Get it!!

tpacalipse: What is wrong for a woman to pay for what she consumed or about to consume?

Gamji007: Its seems many ladies are not finding this wonderful piece interesting!

Nice one op.

tpacalipse: What is wrong for a woman to pay for what she consumed or about to consume?

TalkingToYaSelf:

^You Alwayz on some Bitter Bullshit

Some Nigerian Women Took you to the Cleaners

Stole ya Heart, Ya Cash, Ya Cars, Ya Soul, Ya Spirit, Ya Spine, Ya Life.

Every GodDamn Thang......

Some Woman took the Total Essence of Your Complete Vital Being

Relegated You to an Anti Woman Forum Preacher of Some Sort.

She Extracted Your Soul My Niqqah, The Total Exodus of Your Existence

Have a Good Day Sir.

bukason1:

When you meet for drink, actually drink beer.

After you have tea for 30 or 60 minutes, decide how YOU like HER. If you want to continue say either:

kambo: this is not a nigerian -- maybe a foreigner with a black pix on his website.
i see pieces of other dating coaches writing in the write up..
besides this poster hasnt been or is based in naija.
visited your site -- if you're targeting the naija market ,
produce naija books (with real 9ja babes and models on the pages )
the intro isnt even naijan.
"lets meet for a bottle of beer"! -- guy , naija babes dont have a beer drinking culture.yeah some trip over guinness but to be guzzling over over sized bottles of
gulder, star etc - in the west their beer bottles are smaller and the trend is
setting in here but it is not the wide spread culture for a naija babe to
guzzle beer not to talk of going on a beer date.!!

"alternatve neigbourhood" - u wish - where ? in the many littered middle class or slums
in naija (guy u're plagiarizing western content or a westener trying to sell your wares
in naija soil. better come live here for some years to adapt to the setting.. )
".. with movie shops etc " -- before silver bird brought it galleria (wich isnt even popular)
movie going was a phrase we heard or saw in western media.
naijans dont have a movie going culture dude.
movies are watched at home or on laptops or pc's.
try telling naija girl - "lets go to the movies .. in sokoto or anywhere where silver bird no dey "
. and any babe in her late 20's aint no movie going fan.

alternative places? "every city has these?" --
you dont live in naija.
a sandwich of some decent places - with clear intention to keep it out of access of
the non rich.
some sprinkling of middle class neighbourhoods
stretches of slums.
middle class neighbourhoods contain blocks of houses same with rich neighbourhoods.
people dont walk around -- its considerd poor - everybody wants to drive cuz
in most cases there no town planning for walk ways -
its just one lane road for cars and plots for houses.
and when you're driving in a car you can't drive slow enough to sight see ,
most roads are jammed with traffic in the morning and night when workers are going/returning from work..
so sorry guy -- you'r selling western content or your head is in the clouds..


you pay and she pay..
ha!!
most naija girls are dead ass broke-- forget their externals--
they buy all them externals to attract a guy (that's all they got going)
so you a see a nice looking girl and put this proposition for
splitting cost 50/50 -- you'll either get her clutching her pride and sprinting
or buckling and confessing "nothing dey.."
for those naija babes who aint dead broke -- none students, working sisters,
rich/well-off peeps ,
most won't buy your proposition - they just dont give.
believe me.
a naija babe can have N100 000 idle cash around and still want to collect N500 from her bobo for
recharge card. they're this stingy.
A naija babe can be dating a guy for 6 years and never for once advance a gift worth
N10 000 despite her being a working babe! if a naija babe spends on a guy - there's
a catch - she has eyes on locking in the guy (in marraige ) , she can go the mile to
polish him up (lie steal cheat sleep around etc ) even sponsor him abroad IF AND ONLY IF
she's sure she'll bag him at the end like a metal trophy!
that's the exception.
when a naija babe spends on a guy - its an investment.
so mister , wake up -- you aint no naijan.
and stop pulling the wool over our eyes with this crappy reeeky white western bullshit.

mondi_cheeks: Yes OP which girl doesn't like getting intoxicated (with beer) on her first date with a guy

pleep: Good post man, i've been looking for other ways to date other than the same old dinner and a movie. Not only is it getting old but its not fun.

And you are right the hard to get stuff starts going into over-drive once you take girls on a traditional date. Nice observation, you clearly know what you are talking about.