]im realy tired of reading ( and experimenting,i must confess)about this bad guy-nice guy vs nice girl-bad girl tingy over the internet.the truth is that most so called 'dating experts or doc love's' etc all over the internet are usually just interested in getting you to patronise their sites or programmes. they con you by only feeding you the half truth and by giving you the impresion that you have to stop acting the normal way and start applying some psychological skills inorder to get a girl/guy. while they might speak some truths, the reality is that they encourage people to be something else as long as its cool. they also 4get that different societies have different cultures and challenges and thus different expectations. for example it is expected in most developed countries that a guy at his mid 20s should be somewhat financially independent.but in a society like ours where graduating up to getting a descent job could take you to your mid 30s,it would be acceptable for you to get independent at a later age.also,in these countries, they might have challenges in paying bills but they dont really have to bother about feeding/starvation.in nigeria, feeding your family because of the rate of poverty can be a big issue(probably thats why girls can be obssesed with guys sending them recharge cards). in the uk its no big deal going on a date by public transport because public transport can be pleasant and convenient. but in nigeria it is hell and might make you loose points with the girl of your dreams.in other words what might work here might not work here. anyway, back to the issue. this is what i have concluded:

1.if a girl gets irritated by you just because of your niceness then she doesnt deserve you but instead someone that will treat her like the slut that she really is.
2.because your nice doesnt mean your good, or responsible in reasoning.
3. there will always be a nice person that would be looking for another nice person to date and marry
4.some nice guys want bad girls because of the naughty exposure that turns them on. these bad girls have learnt the act of giving men what they want in the short term while it last.
5. some nice guys are too timid, unexposed or gullible to see clearly through bad girls(especially when the bad girl has uniquely packaged sex for him in such a way that he feels he will never see)without the timely aid of his mother or good friend.
6.nice girls that fall for bad boys shows that the girl secretly craved a wild experience in her life.
7.finally, at the end, the good guy, and good girl eventually get tired/sick of the relationship and and at the last minute start praying to god for a good person to marry. so, are you the guy/girl that women/men date or are you the guy/girl that women/men marry?

20 gbosas to you for this! Very well said